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We've talked for a week. Should I move on? MEN, would you bring up cuddling with a girl before going on a first date? (Page 2)
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When I had to dump a guy I liked, I went online and was kinda desperate but still not looking to hook up. A random cute guy asked to cuddle and I told him we'd only do that. Then he ended up eating me ft out :/ It was a lot of fun tho hehe
He just wants sex.
trust me, I’m very experienced
Most Guys never want to cuddle , they want sex. He knows that cuddling gets girls in the mood to have sex,
It's more like that guys don't normally think about cuddling, and yet, as you point out, we do realize the value in cuddling to bring her passion up and in the mood. The only thing I find a bit humorous, is when I read these other opinions saying "He only wants sex... move on!" Like to what some gay dude who will never want to have sex with you?
Seriously, I want to fuck every girl that I find sexually attractive, and yet I'm married and will never do anything to risk losing that relationship. I love my wife and I love being married to her, and I must and need to remain loyal to her in order not to lose that precious relationship that I have with her.
Just because I want something, does not mean that I need to have it, I'm a mature individual who can control keeping my wants as just that and not having to make it real...
@Arivor
you're soo simple minded. if you're gonna fuck every girl on a first date, you're just a man whore. No girl would ever find that attractive in a man.
And from my experience, a guy who sleeps with a girl on the first date, usually never had romantic intentions. Sex on first date means sex is first priority, herself as a person, is not first priority.
@Arivor
and quite honestly, its sad that you're willing to admit that you desperately want to have sex with every single woman you find attractive. I'd hate to be married to someone like that.
See, here is where you have just shown yourself to not have any clue about what you are even attempting to try and think with that one neuron that you may have. Since you obviously are brainless, with that being shown with what you have written… Honestly, are you just some cum guzzling gutter slut doing that to make a living or just for the fun of it? It is rather sad that you are even trying to try and make yourself look better with your pathetic attempt to do so by trying to make others look bad.
Look, you stupid fucking cunt, the last time somebody dragged me into degrading and humiliating them, I about got kicked of this site. So, if ypui really want to push it... I will hunt you down, and it will not be on here that hear from me.
I now will have to block you... in about five minutes. Hopefully, that will allow even you to read such a huge amount of text. For someone who just has no real brain at all... I hope that you can read between the lines.
@Arivor go ahead and block me pervert.
Nah I don't wait for girls...
There r many girls give bj on first date.
You're type of girls are basically very boring I passed you to other guy if I'm planning to meet u.
Not every girl is hoe
The fact that he asked how long kind of shows he was serious about it lol. Its kind of weird to do this. And let's be real if if it happens it won't be just cuddling.
So basically you wouldn't bring up cuddling before a first date?
This guy doesn't just want to cuddle. He wants a hookup. Especially if all that talk is happening before a date lol
You are really overthinking this. It's just cuddling, it's not like he said anything sexual.
omg cuddling whatdoesitmean whatdoesitmean whatdoesitmean?
Yeah sounds like he's just looking for a horizontal hug!
Move on.
your call. to me, he seems a bit desparate. i mean before you even met, it's not appropriate to want to lie in bet cuddeling with someone. cause you don't even know them at that point. it's weird.
Before first date?
I don't think bringing up cuddling is a good idea before the first date.
I dont like what I'm seeing so far. How old is he? he's acting like a teenager lol
Yeah, he’s making it obvious that he’s only after sex.
Wow. So aggressive. Apparently he doesn't understand the concept that physical stuff comes later?
Covid is not an issue but desperately asking for cuddle even when you having covid is careless shit
Honestly that's kind of a shitty response on his part, kind of looks like all he wants is the physical without actually taking you out on some dates.
He sounds cute and you left him on read after he got covid 🥺
I don’t say and ask for nothing. I just do it! If every girl I wanted to finger her a22 on the first date imagine if I would’ve asked. How many no’s I would’ve got!
If you’re not in to cuddling, the first date will be the last. Probably won’t even go anyway
Same situation here. Waiting for this girl to get over covid so I can take her out. Covid is getting bad.
Oh he caught Covid? That’s a definite red flag right there, he’s obviously an absolute scumbag. 100% move on.
Hehe yea like wtf only scumbags get sick.
Sounds like a wimp, only thing missing is more lame ass crying emojis after "cuddling" lol
You can tell if it’s just a cute statement or if he’s leading up to something else