We’ve been talking for a month, how much more until someone start dating?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been talking for a month in your opinion how much more until someone should start dating? I know it depends on each one but what’s best do u think

[Gobbyjobby52]

It's tricky because as a man you have to take action as soon as possible or she'll lose interest if she had any. If i was able to choose though i'd wait 1.5-3 months before dating, not too soon that it comes across as forced and sudden but also not too long that i risk a lot of hurt if she doesn't feel the same way, just enough rapport also to have something to lean into on a date.

[Purpleronnie]

😂.. what does talking for a month mean?
Every day for 10 mins? , meeting physically every day for 3 hours , a few texts each day?


The time factor is not important , only how you both feel

[jazzy34]

what does talking for a month mean?

That's the new terminology for getting to know someone, but you're not in a relationship with them yet. So, in other words, there's mutual romantic interest, but they're not in an "official" relationship yet.

[Purpleronnie]

Well hasn’t that been made overly complicated 😂.

[jazzy34]

It can indeed cause confusion, but that's what the "talking phase" is nonetheless.

[jazzy34]

He's not serious about you. If he were, you'd be his girlfriend by now. If you ever have to wonder where you stand with someone, that's your answer. Move on.

[Persephone02]

After two to three weeks of talking non-stop is usually quite normal to start dating in my opinion.

[jamesgoldman]

Case by case

I've been in 2 relationships
The first one we were friends for over a year seeing each other most days before we moved on to dating

The second we worked together for a couple of months, couple of nights a week

[jshm2]

Lol, if they've not made the move within a month, then they are all talk, and you should move on.

[slatyb]

You've already been talking for a month too long. Don't waste time talking to people before you meet them.

[BCRanger10]

This would probably be a good time to start making those decisions.

[Screenwriter]

Talk is cheap. Start meeting to go out somewhere: coffee at least.

[Rangers]

If they're not together at that point, they're just wasting a connection. Don't build a fire unless you intend on lighting it

[dragoblack]

By literally saying "do you want to go on a date?". Talking-to-dating and dating-to-relationship or even talking-to-relationship, is literally just a matter of asking and getting consent.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thats up to you and that other person and what your comfortable doing

[queenofcardio]

It depends. Did you go on a date yet?

[Asker]

Yeah i saw him like 4 times

[Zionne]

depends on comfortability

[zombiewoof]

Ask him