Why do people settle with someone they dont really want and be unhappy?

[Anonymous]

[Fukaroo]

Most people just follow brain deteriorating trends that lead them down the path of someone else's miserable lifestyle resulted by a series of idiotic choices caused by the suffering of mankind which are self consciously projected onto society to make them feel better.

[VanillaSalt]

Guys don’t understand their own value and women over estimate their own value.. sure there’s spillage into the other gender but overall women think their the shit and most guys either want easy sex or think they can’t do better.

[Browneye57]

Cuz they have a self image of inadequacy, and don't think they can do any better.
It's a really bad idea to do this, cuz it just never works out.

[Asker]

Yea I know I feel sorry for pople who dont believe they can do better

[Browneye57]

I was one. I had a girlfriend for three years, didn't think I could do better. I was 20. I bought her a house on an acre so she had a place for her horse. She wouldn't move in 'till I married her, so I did. That lasted ten years. She thought cooking cleaning and fucking were three cities in china. Eventually I dumped her, but it cost me right about a half-million bucks. People ask why divorce is so costly, and that is BECAUSE IT'S WORTH IT.

I left her for a much younger and prettier girl, that was absolutely gaga for me. That was over thirty years ago. And 'they' said it would never work out. LOL

Choose wisely, treat kindly. __Dr. Laura
Don't settle, make sure they're the best thing that's ever happened to you. If not, cut them loose and find one that IS.

[VanillaSalt]

Fucking simp. Because it’s worth it… I can’t even respectfully disagree with that.

[Wise4myage]

I think some people have a phobia about being single. They just can't deal with being alone.

[Browneye57]

I wouldn't call it a 'phobia' for me personally. I just happen to really like having a woman by my side, and have all my life now, since about 16.
I used to think if something happened to my beloved wife of thirty years, that I would marry again. But now, based on the way I see women manipulate, I would just move them in for awhile, and when I got sick of their bullshit kick them out. A revolving door at Browneye's. :)

[Pterodon]

Because they think they can’t find better or get tired of looking

[Hangry06]

They're just afraid to be alone

[Anonymous]

They don’t want to be alone.