This is so true! You explained it very well!
@aWes0MeNeSs I'm happy you found my comment informative :) I'm just hoping people will learn to take their time and not rush relationships so quickly as much as people want to be in a happy one.
Yes, me too!
I also wanted to add that I think in a lot of modern relationships especially with young people, social media can have an effect. Social media has a way of bringing drama into a person's life (and relationship) if they let it, and can turn a relationship sour really fast, especially if one or both people overshare or air their dirty laundry online for everyone to see. Personally, this is why I pretty much stick to cute animal pictures on mine, lol.
Wow! You’re really stupid.
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Yes but you can’t legislate morality. Americans would never stand for that.
I suspect Americans are too much of pussies to do shoot about it.
No not pussies, the exact opposite. We don’t like authoritarianism.
And yet you do nothing when your morals are tested
Example... China taking Hong Kong... children being doxed for political reasons. Allowing Michigan Governor free reign without contesting. Allowing the media to throw around conspiracy theories and false allegations. Allowing this farce of an election to go on peacefully. When the countries burning I’ll be in my comfortable little hut in the mountains of Montana with my guns my flag and my memories of when this country wasn’t filled with cowards.
Why are you pointing the finger at me why don’t you do something beside run and hide in the mountains like a true pussy you are the actual coward what a fucking douche
Says the coward who is hiding in his tiny little hut you have a lot of room to talk... lol
Definitely agree about the butterflies part!
Your bullshits not happening here in Texas... I’m not going across the country to end a riot alone that’s for Portland... that’s for trump to mobilize the national guard and start firing into the crowd. When it happens I speak out. I’ve sent letter to our governor. Abbots done an amazing job already. Texas don’t have a vote check or ide confirm who I voted for. Also when I point a finger it’s gonna be in your fucking face. I’m not bashful. Back to OP. You gotta put forth the effort to keep a relationship real. These days we expect so much more than what you get. A normal relationships just you and one other person living in the same house dealing with each other personality and problems... sleep in the same bed say hi hunny when you get home make dinner for 2 instead of going out or for one... sex with the same person.. just so simple you can do this with a COMPLETE stranger. How is it people that trust each other can’t manage?
Yeah that's true. I feel like people in n truly happy relationships are shamed by the collective of people.
That's because people know they are crappy, they know that they are less than intellectually, morally and physically adequate, but instead of working on themselves- which is the hard way, they try to normalize crappy relationships with crappy people so they don't have to work on themselves.The existence of happy and functional relationships between well-adjusted adults threatens their ego, because they know that's something they won't be able to offer.
I agree, though compromise is necessary. BUT, compromise involves both people, not just one (some people seem to think they can have everything their way and the other person has to sacrifice for it, which isn't true). But, compromise doesn't necessarily have to be super hard or make anyone unhappy, either. I think if a relationship is a healthy and happy one, most times the partners are more than willing to compromise on certain things.
I always had low expectations. In fact my standards are so low that I had people telling me I could do better. ( Shallow I know) like i don't know what I'm doing wrong. I had friends who were the definition of a shallow, selfish, high class gold digger but she was really pretty so she had more options. Like God, if I looked like any of these instagram models I'd probably marry a rich dude and be stay at home wife. No joke. It's not fair being physically unattractive... It's not fair that I basically will have to settle for a broke guy who cheats on me constantly. Really not fair but whatever.
Don't push yourself too hard. And it's your life. So don't waste it by comparing it with others. They're living their and so you've to live yours. Just be yourself and someday you'll find the right one. Don't lose hope. And remember you're as beautiful as you think.
I always kept my standards low for dating.
@Iceseeyou25 Im there now
Lol what would you do if your boyfriend was fucking you and then suddenly he farts loudly and sighs and then tries to keep going?
I'm so confused
He farts loudly while having sex with you, sighs ( takes a quick breather) then quickly tries to go back to fucking you- would you still want to keep having sex or stop?
Lol would you view him differently? Would you guys have sex again? ( Let's say this is your first time having sex)
It would be shocking but if try to talk about it and if he does it again on purpose I'll think about break up
It was an accident and he refuses to talk about it
Let it go then. I don't see the problem
:) A lot of women litterally wouldn't answer that question
No problem 🙂
@Iceseeyou25- what’s your point with the farting during fucking? Do you see it as a standard for how much you like the guy? If you do as @SofLuf said and shrug it off, then keep fucking, does that mean something in your estimation? (In case I fart tonite, I want to know the consequences... lol)
@Girther10 lol yeah maybeGirls were always like freaked out and grossed out at the thought of their boyfriend farting during it so I wanted to see how many girls would be grossed out
Really? I’ve never heard of a girl talking about us farting while sticking them... lol I’m sure I may have farted in that situation at some point in my life, but it never was even mentioned, I assume because fucking them real good is what’s more important, right?
It's basically both romance movies and porn.Romance movies telling lies like "love and live happily ever after", and porn saying "that porn fetish that you watch, well that's what all women do".So both genders end up having false expectancies about relationships.
No disagreements :)Porn possibly is the worse liar but romance movies don't help
dating online for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@swwetsparkle cool 😊
Dating online is different than dating irl
ya it's worse haha
@swwetsparkle true lol