You are overreaching and I am sorry. Even somebody like me had a crush or first love and that was extremely young, and I never dated. You need to stop pretending you never crushed on a person either. The more you restrict yourself for no longer reasons, the harder it becomes because it's just impossible. Unless you have a "The Tempest" situation when Miranda saw other men but her father and (i forgot the other guy), then is just not likely for the most part. You rejecting her because she had boyfriends before doesn't help you. What about the girl that made you reject her? She had sex before? Then I can understand. I cannot find myself with a nonvirgin myself when I am one too.
But if you are just rejecting her just over romantic pasts? Now you're showing your insecurities of self that isn't healthy. And it is not fair to others who have to be caught in that mess. If a guy had other relationships, that doesn't bother me. What does is if he was sexual in them, what and who he was attracted to, what happened in it, why it ended, what are his goals, and what are his beliefs and principles. Mostly sexually because that is a huge chunk that will affect the relationship. You're the only dealbreaker is that she had a past and had loved before. So again, unless you pick a woman who has never seen a man and is easily attracted. You need to be more realistic that you sadly are the one making it more harder for you. I'm sorry, but this is just the truth. I believe you made many posts like this before and it needs to stop because whatever answers you get is what you get and you need to respect that.
I’m not sure if you are trolling at this point, but at your age you can’t expect a woman that is your age to be untouched by another man.
I suggest you change your mind somewhat and look for someone that is a virgin instead of not having ever liked anyone before. If you are the first and only one she ever likes enough to go all the way with that should be special.
Even as kids people like someone, so no romantic interests as a standard means you'll find nobody.
The thing is though, your past matters too. You have to be a genuinely good guy and not have a past of hook ups, etc. Can't be hypocritical.
Smart man. Thats what i did. I now have a girlfriend who never knew a man until me. Totally worth the trouble of finding her. Yeah she was 18 but thats not a bad thing at all.
Opinion
11Opinion
This is you killing your love life with those ridiculous standards:
64.media.tumblr.com/.../...9cXCH1xhldrao1_540.gifv
I believe I've mentioned this to you before. At your age, finding a woman with no romantic past will probably be tilting at windmills.
If you were into this girl and vice versa, I think you should have gone out with her.
If it’s for religious reasons then go ahead and date within your religion. If not then it’s fine but you’re going to have a difficult time with your search
Are you fucking kidding me? You throw away a perfectly good relationship because she had a few guys? You do realize it gets harder and harder as you get older.
Do not get too fixated on somebody's past. You will be happier in the long run.
Bro... with your mentality it is safe to assume that you will marry both of your hands! 👍
At your age expecting people to have never been with someone is not very realistic
You are definitely overreaching if you are searching for a girl who has never dated anyone. Just find someone you connect with and go for it.
I can get your point. But it's relatively low. But who knows
Hey u want what u want. Just make sure u have enough to offer in return. Build your health and career and personalityp
You should see a therapist
Nope
You're an idiot
