Would a 18-20 year old Latina date a 30 year old man?

[Grubhub]

[btbc92]

No. Unless she personally likes older men, most women especially in their culture person men who they find sexually attractive and around their own age. 18-20 years mostly do not want to date a man past 25. The highest is usually maybe 27 and that is only if he is looking for marriage. They in that community are marriage-oriented. So if you're not looking for that or have anything to provide, don't even. You at 30 should know what is expected or your age. Age does matter and most girls and women younger than 25 are not comfortable with that.

[Grubhub]

Younger girls check me out all the time

[Grubhub]

A lot of people say I’m lying when I tell them I’m 30

[Grubhub]

A young one at work now I check checking me out.

[btbc92]

They lust or check you out because of your looks. But that is about it. They no better not to cross the line. Your eye candy, that is about it. Women look like men look. That doesn't mean they want to be with you. Just reality even I know that.

[btbc92]

Know better*

They don't want any 30-year-old guy who isn't with money and something to offer. Trust me. As I said, they are family-oriented. They may experience sex young, but they also marry young too. So if you cannot offer anything permanent your wasting your time.

[btbc92]

If you look young, like I get 19 year old liking me also, they will ASSUME your young. Once they hear how old you are, they may compliment you, but unless they're giving you their number and actively pursuing you. No. At most, it may be just sex and friends with benefits to see if they can use sex to get into a relationship. And this is no personal disrespect to Latina women or the community. I am just speaking from personal experience. They look, and that is it. They thought you were younger or else they would have pursued you. I told you. 30 is like 60 to these girls. At that age, I knew better not to bother with a guy over 4 years my senior. Even you would have been too old for me. Sorry. I am just telling you, men, to stop with this myth about under 24 girls for you to be dating at 30+. You better start appreciating the women around your age and stop with that fertility foolishness. These women want a future, not a guy who isn't going anywhere.

[btbc92]

Their communities are tight-knit, and they rarely go out of their own "race" of people, because yes, "race" also plays a role. It May is not be something you want to hear, but that is how it goes because some of them growing up in Christian/Catholic homes. So at most, they want the same thing if they haven't settled down yet. Though every person is different, they tend to be nearly the same.

[btbc92]

They move fast in life and get married very early. They don't waste time. The only ones who would be comfortable are women around my age.

[Grubhub]

I’m Dominican you dumbass

[Grubhub]

I get approached and get asked if I’m Dominican all the time by Latin women. I’ll take they’re word for it and not some damned white woman

[btbc92]

Who says I am white? Sounds like you are just very adamant to not hear the truth. They are just curious and that's it. Like I said if they are not looking for a relationship at a young age. Then no. But whatever fantasy you want to live in that is up to you.

[btbc92]

You shouldn't be asking us this question. You need to personally ask these GIRLS that question. Because it is clear you know the answer.

[btbc92]

Listen. You need to listen to women and stop with your biased. As a female, as a woman, we don't KNOW YOUR AGE? We don't know your race! We don't even know your name. So unless you give us information to go by, we're just making up fantasies in our head about what kind of guy you are. I was that age too. How do you think I know? You just want young Latina women for your sexual wants and that's it. And I am telling you unless you want to actually get married and have a future, you are wasting their time. Most of them marry by 24/25. They won't waste time, and their families get involved. They are that traditional.

[btbc92]

Sounds like you got a prejudice against white women and again, no woman in her right mind wants to deal with that. They are too young. So unless you tell them who you are, they are not going to bother if they are not interested in older men. Not every woman is the same and most of us at those ages are not attracted to guys too old for us. Even some of my friends who liked older guys only liked guys at most 4-5 years older, but mostly dated guys within 2 years or 3 age gaps. Most do not date that old. They want a man who is again, attractive, has money and has a desire to want a future and they marry young. You never said anything about who you are and what you think makes you attractive to them. See they don't know you or your intent really, some do, and most don't. I ask because again, I grew up around people of different cultures. And they are mostly religious and or spiritual, and unless they are the type that party and go out into the world, then again no.

[Grubhub]

Dude what truth? You remember the question about the columbian woman right? She approached me and said “ are you Dominican? You look like my husband and showed me his picture 😂 I got nothing to prove to you

[Grubhub]

I had that experiences with latinas all my life growing up in my sister I used to have strangers all predominantly latinas pick me up and ask me if I wanted a ride.

[Grubhub]

I know you need to offer Latin women something. They’re about that paper 📄 like most women. Unless they’re dumb women

[btbc92]

Is she dating you? No.
Do you have anything to prove to me? No.
You had experienced it but are you with them? No.
From what I am hearing from you, you have a fantasy that is mostly sexual and you show you have a complex against women as a whole.

[btbc92]

So where are these Latinas and how come they aren't your wife by now? Huh. I think your language, tone, intentions, and character proves that these women simply do not want to mess with you and sense something about you that turns them off. The most you do is physically attract them, but how they feel about you, hmm. I believe this is just a woman thing and not a Latina thing.

[btbc92]

She has a husband already, so what are you talking about? Your not her husband. That's her. You may look like her husband, but I doubt her husband has your toxic behaviors.

[Grubhub]

I was fucking her and spending time with her so I was basically dating her 😂

[Grubhub]

I obviously said something to make you mad. I didn’t mean to make you mad. What was it I said?

[Grubhub]

I meant to say I had that experience growing up in my city not sisters*

[btbc92]

No, you were not. You had sex and that is it. And it's the more reason you need to leave this 18 - 20 year old's alone. You're not a virgin anymore. You want to play hoe, you do that elsewhere. I am not mad. I find it disturbing you think you can get away with your lying after I questioned you. I gave you more than information to let you know that you are not fit for these young women. The fact you think you were dating her is quite disturbing. You had a friend with benefits and it was just sex. Do you really think they want a guy like you messing up their lives? No. You are the one who is insecure. And I hardly believe she was just somebody you wanted to be with, or you helped her cheat on her husband. Yep, that says something about you. So you pretty much told on yourself.

[Grubhub]

I understand but they’re legal. Here in NC the age of consent is 16. Anyways I actually do like women my age believe it or not

[btbc92]

You think love is sex and your version of love is twisted. These girls do not need your sexual baggage and insecurities and problems. You are there to rob them of their future, their youth, and stealing from them. You don't love. Because what I say to you is out of love for them and for you. You don't give a damn about these girls or women. I have met men who struggle to find love, they don't are for an age restriction or a particular "Race/Ethnicity" of women. You just have a fetish and are greatly confused. Do you think not being a virgin makes you better? No. These women again want a FUTURE. They want romance, real love, not this sexual stuff unless they are of the world. If these women are not pursuing you and giving you their number, and wanting more and they will tell you. Most of them are bold, they don't wait. Then you got nothing and your just boasting. Until your actually dating one, and an 18-20-year-old, you wasting your time and the most you would get is an 18-20-year-old who isn't a virgin like you, has been with other men, and is just fooling around with you until they get married. Girls who aren't about that, no.

[btbc92]

Nobody cares if they're legal. All you care about is sex. And I know what goes on in NC, I have family down there. They do not care about that worldly behavior. Most of them are religious and don't want a man who had sex with a married woman. I mean really? I figured as much your that guy. more than 80% of you claiming you want younger women are those who can't get women your age because they know something is wrong with you on that level. You're a red flag.

[Grubhub]

No idc about sex. I care about companionship.

[Grubhub]

Anything wrong with a 30 year old getting with 25 year olds then in your opinion?

[btbc92]

A man who wants companionship isn't sleeping with a married woman, caring about dating an 18-20-year-old and saying how they're legal! you do care about sex! That's why you have this problem! Because you want a "Sexy" female with this bust, and this shape, and thick whatever. It is mostly visual and physical for you. Do you think I am stupid? That is why I avoided a lot of you men because your sex hungry. You don't understand women and don't care. That's why many of you shame women my age and up calling us old, this, and that because you don't care! how do you think we know all of this? You had these same toxic behaviors since middle school and it's like most of you have not got better, you to worse over the years. Thinking younger is better. That is a misconception. Like many of us thinking older is better, we learn the hard way is not about age. But maturity and having the right values and morals. You are not emotionally mature for you to call me a dumba** earlier. I know a lot more than you think I KNOW. If you really wanted companionship you would shape up your behaviors and attitudes because it is holding you back from finding a good woman who wants to stick around. You need to change big time. And until you do, this is going to be your life if your not careful.

[Grubhub]

It’s not that I wanted to sleep with a married woman it’s just I couldn’t pass on the opportunity. I would of married her if given the chance and if she would leave her husband for me

[Grubhub]

I don’t think younger is better. A girl my age would be perfect. I was just wondering if 18 year olds like younger guys. When I was going to school for Paralegal I was sleeping with an 18 year old and guess what, she came onto me, I didn’t come onto her. I was 27 at the time.

[btbc92]

At 25 that may not be a problem because at that time most women tend to be more mature and well adjusted at that age. Even by 27, it took me a while to adjust and my emotions and feelings became more stable. At those ages, those girls are emotionally driven and can't think straight. All they know is they want what they want, and you want to know why women's feelings change over the years. That's why. We don't stabilize until around 25/27. My feelings, my thoughts and emotions have matured greatly over the years. I can't even remember what I was like at 27. And I just turned 29 early in the year. Soon I would be 30. Heck, I have changed a lot since last year. It is not the same for women. That is just how we are. This is why most of us older women tell you men NO. Leave those girls alone but you screw them up and then you want to know why they get worse. Because you not stable either, they take on your unstableness sexually and it gets WORSE. That's why some of those women over 30 are messed up because they had sex and messed around with the wrong men. And your one of them and don't see that. We wouldn't be telling you this if we were "jealous" or any of that petty nonsense.

[Grubhub]

I was wondering if 18 year olds liked older guys *

[Grubhub]

That 18 year old knew how old I was (27) she had a baby too with another guy

[btbc92]

That girl just wanted sex. And again. If you are attractive any woman likes attractive men regardless of age. But that is all it is. It's just crushing and fantasies. Nothing more. It's up to you to believe that. But we again are not interested in guys too old for us, and it is not a disrespect to you. We can;t relate to you well because your already more experienced in the world then way are and for that, we don't want to get hurt.

[Grubhub]

So you’re not sexually attracted to guys?

[btbc92]

I am a heterosexual woman. Just because I don't lust after men, that doesn't mean I am not attracted. I have rules, boundaries, standards, and morals. I am not into that worldly lust mess. I rather not be around a man who is fooling around. If you are not innocent and pure, then no. A person of purity doesn't do what you do. If it's too "Disney" for them, why am I going to be stupid to fate and sleep with a man who is just going to risk getting me pregnant, disease and won't marry or cheat if he doesn't already divorce? I am not hurting myself. Even at 25 I always had a cap off of 4 years older and that's it. That was my standard since of childhood. And glad I did. Men are too immature for me under my age and guys over 30 at that time were again, too much like you. So that was a big no-no anyway. Since I am about to be 30, if I hypothetically wanted to date, trust me, it would be between 30-34 and a big maybe at 35. No older than that.

[btbc92]

You don't see me going after young men I attract young men too because naturally, I look young. I look like a teenager still. Most think I am a teen. If I am around 12 and still dress in my older outfits and I still dress like that as I am petite, I have to wear juniors at most, It wouldn't surprise me if I attracted teenagers. Why? Because I look young and dress young. No matter how "adult" I dress or "act" even though I am an adult they still come looking. Trust me, you men assuming about me would be shocked and asked how come I ain't never dated or married either. Because like I said, I have morals. And most men do not like or what a Christian or Godly woman who upholds her faith and is strong in it. That's why. And besides, many of you are creepy and disrespectful towards me. So I do know exactly how you men that think as this works. I used to attack 30, 40, and even past 60 looking at me at 17+ and many of you are shameless and want to know why we wouldn't bother. You're the age of our fathers. Really? You don't know we don't think about how long you can have sex without viagra or some testosterone enhancements, how much porn you are involved in, ED, etc? I know about the tight virgin stuff. Many of you are just looking for sex. You don't romance a woman or desire to truly know her. What makes you think I want a guy who lusts after women and other girls? I met 30+ who never dated, are humbled, virgins, and don't treat women like sex objects. They want companionship, but it is the women who had sex or don't know what a good man looks like that take advantage of them.

[btbc92]

Worldly men are not attractive to me in the long run. How many attractive men and blond, etc I had shut down? Plenty. They just weren't for me and I don't date strangers. So it was my choice to not date at those times because also, I had priorities, I wanted to get a job and go to school, and I wasn't mature or ready yet for that kind of commitment. You may call it "legal" but between 12-now I was too YOUNG. Even now I know I ain't ready even though I rather die by myself. I can't even take care of myself yet. Do you really think I am going to date when I don't have anything stable for myself? No. And I am not going to use a man to get it either.

[Grubhub]

Again I’m not necessarily into younger girls. Just wondering if they like older men

[Grubhub]

When you were 18-20 did you have boyfriends who ruined your youth?

[btbc92]

attract* (Tied of this auto-correct).

[Grubhub]

Or not your youth but your 18-20 years

[btbc92]

Uh no. I wasn't ready for anything period. Because plenty of boys wanted to date me as young as 8-12 and middle school. Are you kidding me? I wasn't allowed to date until 18, and I still never dated. Thank God. At 18, I was looking for work after high school. At 19 I became a caregiver and have all the way to 23, and became a caregiver again at 25. So I don't know what you're talking about. So tell me how was I going to date, working, and taking care of my sick mom at the time? Please tell me how?

[btbc92]

Youth is 12-35. After 35 or when married in your not in the youth category anymore.

[btbc92]

I never dated ever. I am a virgin and never had a boyfriend. I told you. I was working, I had to take care of my mom, she was sick was a neurological disability and by 21 she had stage II cancer. I had to help her with radiation treatments, doctor's appointments, and chemotherapy. She needed a walker to help her. At that time my parents were on the verge of divorce and it lasted til she died. I was almost thrown out of the house on many accusations and severe abuse at home, almost starved. So please explain to me again, how am I going to date with all of these family problems? HOW! I worked, but I didn't make enough. I was working on 7.25 an hr. The only money I had was money my parents gave me. I'm going on a date wasting my money with a guy with only less than $20 in my pocket? Are you KIDDING ME? All while job hunting and my own health to worry about? All while they called me a prude and all of these nasty names you people call me? A gold digger, man-hatter. Where do any of you get this idea my concern is a man when l have a dying mother to be concerned about? You people are that sick.

[btbc92]

The things I had endured, more than half of you would have told me to just put my family in a care facility while I date and fool around with me. How evil and wicked can you people be? More than half of you don't even want to take care of your mothers or even respect them. SO, please. I have enough grief than I need.

[Grubhub]

I’m sorry you had to go through that, and I’m sorry about your mother. I’m a decent man I’m just trying to find the right woman for me. We all deserve true love

[Grubhub]

I don’t want a younger woman just wondering if they like older guys. I want a woman my age

[btbc92]

If you want a woman your age. You need to shape up and start acting act like it and pursue them. They are looking for good men. They are not all the same. You just need to know where to look and know who to be around. You are who you tend to attract. But you need to show you can be a responsible man and you will see greater changes in your life. But that attitude you have about women is hindering you from getting that woman.

[btbc92]

Until that is fixed, I promise you, you will find a woman who is indeed interested, but you can't be afraid to see where it goes.

[Grubhub]

I had a pretty terrible story too I would like to share with you and it ruined my life with women. I don't know if I wanna share it here but I can DM you. You’re story is interesting and sad but I had a shameful past and I have doubts about my life because of past trauma

[btbc92]

If you want to talk about it, that is not a problem. We all have problems.

[Grubhub]

I would DM you but I can’t

[btbc92]

Let me fix that.

[Grubhub]

Talk to you tomorrow, it’s late where I’m at. 👋 goodnight 😴

[btbc92]

Not a problem. Have a good night.

[Aurora1010]

It depends on the girl, but it's not in issue in Latin American culture for a 20 year old to date a 30 year old guy

[Aurora1010]

Most girls in any culture prefer their own age

[Grubhub]

Yeah I know a Honduran woman who married a guy who was like guy 15 years older

[Grubhub]

I don’t see why it should be an issue. Love is love