Guys, Is this outfit too young for me?

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Guys, Is this outfit too young for me?

Guys, would this be ok to wear on a date? Not gonna walk much. Plus, I'm 39yo, so can I pull this off?

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29 d

Black pointed heels would be better me finks.

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John987654321
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1 mo

Is this a first date? How long have you been dating him? What are you doing on the date?

I will write back with a more specific answer based upon the above information, but in general...

No, that outfit is not too young for you. Entirely appropriate for a 39 year old woman.

Your outfit is gorgeous!! You are dressed to kill. I wish the women I date would dress that nice when we go out. It's been a frustration of mine, to be honest, so kudos to you for wanting to look nice.

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- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  It's a first date, am too shy to say where we are dating mind you, put it this way, I wanna be hot with him. But I don't wanna seem sluttish.
  Why don't you take your date window shopping and drop big hints about how some outfits would suit them woman love that.
- John987654321
  
  29 d
  You definitely look hot, and you do not look sluttish, by any stretch. Did the two of you agree to dress up? Some guys may think "high maintenance" or "trying too hard" if he shows up ultra-casual. Just be sure not to make him feel out of place. I, myself, would dress up a bit for a first date, so if it was me you would not be out of place.
  
  If the outfit gives you confidence, then there;s nothing wrong with wearing it. You will be the apple of his eye.
  
  Thanks for the suggestion. I hadn't thought of it, actually, but that sounds like fun.

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FunkyMonkee | 1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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29 d

I think it looks fine! If YOU think you're too old for it, you have to ask yourself, "Do I LOOK 39?" When dad died, he'd just turned 81 and, at the funeral, everyone that asked how old he was was amazed that he was that old!! They all thought he was only 61! He still hardly even had any grey hair!!

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- FunkyMonkee
  
  29 d
  Come to think of it, Rose Marie, Keely Smith and probably Dinah Shore wore similar stuff most of their adult lives.
- caz_johnstone
  
  28 d
  Wow, that's amazing, to not only live to see 81, but to actually look like your 61... he must've been young at heart, someone who laughed a lot, had joy. Makes a big difference. Awww
- FunkyMonkee
  
  28 d
  Yeah, he was like that a lot but I might attribute it to his daily walks. He'd get up in the morning, have a cup of coffee and do the crossword, run upstairs to drop a load in the giant toad, then walk out the door and either take bus at least 15 miles up river, get lunch and walk back or vice versa! He did this prety much every day until 2 or 3 months before he died! Sometimes, he'd go across the bridge next to the house adding 2 more miles to his trip! I'm pretty sure that the more active you are and the less you keep telilng yourself that you're too old for this or that, the longer you'll last!
  It also helps that both sides of my family have longevity. His mother died at 94, mom's died at 89, both of my parents died at 81. Had it not been for cancer, I'm pretty sure they'd both still be alive and dad would be 97 as of 2 days ago. Mom would be 87 in 6 weeks. His brother, Wally, was at least 93 when he died and my mother went into the hospital to see him a few days before and he was singing her Italian operas in full voice!! The hospital killed him with a staph infection! He walked in to have his pacemaker checked and died a few days later.
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- caz_johnstone
  
  28 d
  Drop a load in the giant toad? lmao
- caz_johnstone
  
  28 d
  Well, it's nice to know that you might live long like those before you.
- caz_johnstone
  
  28 d
  I will take your advice and tell myself am as you g as I feel, not based on looks
- FunkyMonkee
  
  28 d
  I certainly hope so! I still don't look or feel anywhere near as old as I am. I plan to stick around for at least another 60 years!!
  And, why are you asking about wearing this stuff on a date at your age when you just told me that you're not dating anymore? C'mon!! Fess up!!
  By the way, what do you think of the singer in this band?
  https://youtu.be/nuB2fdcKdeY

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Massageman | 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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29 d

The skirt could be a little more clingy, not so fluffed out. in my opinion.
Other than that, yes , I think you can pull it off regardless.
As for my opinion, maybe your GUY will want to pull it off too!
Not because you don't look hot in it, but because you DO!

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- caz_johnstone
  
  28 d
  Sounds like a nice ending to a date eh.
InventorofWarp | 69 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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29 d

Is 39 old at all?
That's honestly an outfit I'd be thinking about pounding a chick in tbh.
I feel alright saying that 'cause I'm not your date.

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Red_Arrow | 854 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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13 d

You look good in it, so it is not too young for you.

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Iknowbestgirls | 80 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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29 d

@caz_johnstone nah I don't think so, it looks pretty cutee. Rock it girl!

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- caz_johnstone
  
  29 d
  Whoo hoo... thanks
- Iknowbestgirls
  
  29 d
  Yea no problem! Have a great time! 😁
MysteriousDarkness | 633 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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1 mo

Not too young for you. Maybe different shoes would be better but that's just me.

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- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  Thanks for that... I like details.👍
- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  What kind of shoes would suit,?
- YalancıBahar
  
  29 d
  Closed and black heeled shoe:)
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- caz_johnstone
  
  29 d
  @YalancıBahar Hmmmm yes. Ok I gorrit
- YalancıBahar
  
  29 d
  There?
- YalancıBahar
  
  29 d
  Oh sorry, I wrote the wrong place:)))
- caz_johnstone
  
  29 d
  @YalancıBahar Hahaha... where?
CuriousAZ
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1 mo

Yes it will work and if the date is successful you WILL pull it off. Literaly!

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- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  Hahaha... I like that.
LegendaryIcon
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2 d

You're only as old as you feel. If you feel like you shouldn't wear it; don't

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Better_off_here | 139 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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1 mo

it looks good on you i say if you like it that is all that matters.

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- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  That's sweet, thanks.
MTC29 | 321 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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29 d

I've met women in their forties who still looked "cute". If you can make it work at age 39, then go for it. Honestly, girls who were "cute", usually remain "cute" as women.

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Miristheiss | 1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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29 d

Looks good.
You have the figure of a 19 year old so you'd be able to pull off a lot of young outfits.

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- caz_johnstone
  
  29 d
  Ohhh come on... really? A 19yo!! I wish.
Anonymous

29 d

christ you look older than 39 with that outfit on. i would of thought mid 40's to mid 60's or even mid 70's

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- Opinion Owner
  
  29 d
  that's something nicole kidman or some old actress would wear. don't you have any regular clothes?
- Opinion Owner
  
  29 d
  you want the truth or somebody who's going to blow smoke up your ass? lose the outfit and find something better to wear or he'll be thinking he's taking his grandmother out for the early bird special dinner
- caz_johnstone
  
  28 d
  Hahaha
Mangospacho | 203 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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1 mo

I think it looks fine. And we are the same age and I would not mind if someone I was dating wore that on a date.

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- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  Thank you!!!
MrCommodore | 520 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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1 mo

Yeah it looks nice, you look good.

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- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  Thank you MrC😉
- MrCommodore
  
  29 d
  Yeah black shows might work better, but you look great, pretty too.
- caz_johnstone
  
  29 d
  I'm blushing.
DailyConfusion
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29 d

Looks very cute and attractive.
Go for it! 👍🏾

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- caz_johnstone
  
  29 d
  Yay!😆
- DailyConfusion
  
  29 d
  Could you also please help me on my recent post, I would love to hear your thoughts :)
Shy_Steve | 621 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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1 mo

Your attractive but If anything it makes you look to old.

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- Shy_Steve
  
  1 mo
  It sort if looks very 80's to me that's all.
- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  Thank you for that... Interesting. Nice to know people's view.
YalancıBahar
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1 mo

Oh there is a woman who likes to wear pantyhose. Are you real?:) wonderful

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- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  Actually I was wearing garter and stockings underneath😁
- YalancıBahar
  
  1 mo
  Oh really? I would send you message. Because a lot of woman don't know anything about pantyhoses and stockings:)
- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  Oh really... what do they wear?
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- YalancıBahar
  
  1 mo
  I think they don't like to wear stockings and pantyhoses. Can i send you message?:)
- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  If you want.
- YalancıBahar
  
  1 mo
  But your pm is closed:)
- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  Can u try again.
- YalancıBahar
  
  1 mo
  Check your pm:)
- YalancıBahar
  
  29 d
  By the way, if you wanna be a hot woman for the first date, you should wear thinner pantyhose or stocking.
- YalancıBahar
  
  29 d
  Why don't you write? Did you sulk to me?
- caz_johnstone
  
  29 d
  No... just busy. Work and family. 😬💦
- YalancıBahar
  
  29 d
  So when will you turn back to me?:))
neuroendocrinology
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28 d

Negative. Looks Fetching, go get the World

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spartan55 | 2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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29 d

Looks like you just left the office.

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Stevefiveo | 207 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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1 mo

Looks great for a date.

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- caz_johnstone
  
  1 mo
  Really!!! Thanks.
- Stevefiveo
  
  1 mo
  Yeah, I'd be impressed.
Joker_ | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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29 d

It's my favourite outfit

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- caz_johnstone
  
  29 d
  Realllly!! Someone said it looks like the 80,'s🤔
- Joker_
  
  29 d
  It's really cute
Paulychicago10
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1 mo

I think you got it. I'd definitely look

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- caz_johnstone
  
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  Teehee thanks
- Paulychicago10
  
  1 mo
  Welcome
abc3643 | 3.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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1 mo

Sure, it's great! Don't worry about it!

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SpaceGalaxy | 454 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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Looks very nice to me.

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- caz_johnstone
  
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  Really?
- SpaceGalaxy
  
  29 d
  Yes. Looks very chic and feminine
Juven
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28 d

How do you feel in it? 👀

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Guardian45 | 709 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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29 d

I agree. Black shoes are a better choice

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Andres77 | 655 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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29 d

You finks correctly.

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- caz_johnstone
  
  29 d
  Tee hee
NorthwestRider | 368 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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1 mo

Wear anything you want to wear

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Zlantur2
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No, it's perfect and so cute on you.

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hahahmm | 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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29 d

No...

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- caz_johnstone
  
  29 d
  Okeeey😞
whatfor84
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just need another type of shoes i think.

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