When is too soon to ask to swap numbers with online dating?

[Anonymous]

I’m talking to a single mom, I know she’s probably busy. I’ve been talking to her for a couple days on eharmony, but it it’s kind of hard to keep it going on the app. When is too soon to see if we can swamp numbers?

[Anonymous]

Mostly guys ask me when there's a bunch of texting back and forth in the beginning

[Asker]

We been messaging for sure but it’s slightly hot and cold

[Opinion Owner]

Ask her if you can see us talking further