Men get judged for liking certain body types on women too.
If men prefer shorter women who are smaller overall, they get deemed as having 'pedo preferences'.
Some of the same people that tell men to have standards are the same ones that get upset when they do, like it seems more acceptable for an obese woman to have standards like 6'4+, but if an obese guy demands a Victoria Secret model, it's okay.
Because it’s such a bizarre characteristic to hinge a whole relationship on. I’m 5’11” and I’ve gotten let down over it. One girl asked me if I was 6’ tall and I said I was 6’ in heels and she stopped responding to me. Just seems so shallow. I don’t think men have a single immutable physical characteristic requirement for women that will turn them off immediately..
I see your point but what if a woman only wants a man who's taller than her or at least the same height? I think it's reasonable to want someone at least close to your height
@Cherry234, I mean I get preferences, but there are a lot of women out there that aren’t shy about wanting a man that is at least 6’ tall and not an inch shorter. Just seems weird.
Question is why do women like tall men? There is nothing attractive about height🤣 It is all about personality in the end. If it's not I feel like it is for the wrong reasons... If the tall guy is attractive inside and out I get it! Odds are at that point the height waa the smallest peice of the puzzle. My strength as a 5'7" man is my personality, my voice, my looks , and my empathy. Height is just not something I'm concerned is important
Same reason why men are being judged for not liking fat women. The only difference here is that weight can be controlled (generally speaking) while length cannot.
@TruthBringer I'm 5'10" and never knew I was "short" until I started reading dating profiles of women! When I was in the Navy I was more than happy to be 5'10" as it was the tall guys who lost their fighter pilot slots as the ejection seats were fitted to guys my size. We felt sorry for the really tall guys.
What we find physically attractive cannot be controlled.. It's depends on how we were sexually hardwired..
And if men in teenage find out.. That women like tall guys.. Why don't guys exercise and stretch and get taller than usual My dad's like 5"6 and mom is like 5"2 and I am 6"0 . I figured this out at 15 yr age and started stretching and did it.. Totally worth it..
It's the insults. It's fine to have a preference, but a decent amount of women are just straight up nasty bitches about it because they know if they complain enough about getting hate, every white knight in a 50km radius comes running.
I mean we are rare but I guess it depends on what you consider tall. I'm 6'3. Assuming you liked my friend who was 5'10 would you give him a shot or is he too short in your eyes?
Quite frankly, I don't care. I can't change my height but I tend to find girls who like tall guys and find shorter guys to be some repugnant, disgusting, vile piece of trash in the dating books in their eyes. It's like those girls take it to some next level. Even if I didn't find a girl attractive I wouldn't be a dick about it. Even when I don't swipe on the like side for dating apps, I feel bad.
Why are men judged for liking shorter females? People seem to associate shorter females with underage girls, rather than a female that is vertically challenged due to genetics. Also, some people have no consideration for others when they sit there and judge someone else, when all they are doing is comparing themselves with the other person. We all have our rights to an opinion, but there are also always two or more sides to that judgement as well.
Because you're all full of shitty double standards. Crying when a man dares to say he has preferences, but brag about yours. And that attitude you have about short guy. You don't just prefer tall guys, you literally mock and despise short guys. Many women treat shorts guys as some sub-humans who don't even deserve a look.
Women make height the sole determining factor. A lot of men get dismissed simply for not being her ideal height, yet us men don’t like fat chicks however we get bitched at as if we aren’t allowed to have preferences. Shit we are even transphobic if we aren’t into shemen
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I met two women, a woman 5'8 160 pounds (beautiful) and a woman 5'1 (100 lbs) (also beautiful). I am 6'1 210 lbs (average), both these women are my friends and we know each other from church. My number one priority in relationship was mutual faith in Jesus Christ. I talked to both women, but the woman 5'1 showed a greater interests and we connected more on a mental level. We are both in a similar field. So I am dating the 5'1 woman, I love her but realize we look extreme.
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I think it just makes average and tall women upset since they can’t necessarily find someone taller than them, they don’t blame the women under 5’7 because it’s obviously not their fault, it’s the fact that men on the taller side don’t really see women who are average or on the taller side as a potential partner for them. They too deserve to look up at a guy and feel they’re short for once. These Darn men.
Short men get insecure and upset because a lot of times there not desirable. Like when overweight girls get made at guys for liking fit women. Absolutely stupid.
It's not that. Y'all don't even get to know someone unless they're as tall as you'd like them to be. Normally the other guys don't even get a chance reguardless of their looks. It's the wrong metric.
@zaharuh I think the women who insist that men have to be 6ft and above to date them are in the minority. You and I disprove that point of ALL women only liking tall men
Yeah like honestly if I'm with a guy that's too tall it might just look weird 🤣 People love to exaggerate reasons why they aren't finding partners like just look to better yourself and find someone who loves you for who you are.
@Cherry234 @zaharuh We appreciate that you both are not like other girls, but to say that those women are the minority is reaching. Understand that you girls are the outliers/minority nowadays wherever you go that all women talk about, go on dating sites that's all you will see women asking for men that are 6ft, go on social media all you see is women slandering men for not being tall. Recently I was talking to a girl that was 4'11 and said she couldn't date me because I wasn't 6ft and I am 5'7 and that's just one instance, I get that as women you don't see it often because you are not the target of the topic, but as a man, I can say it happens more than enough to the point it could just make you give up on finding love.
@Novacane That's really ridiculous. I don't understand why a 4'11 girl thinks you're not tall enough for her. She can't even tell if someone is 6 ft or not. You're 2 inches taller than I am and I would date someone your height. People tend to be really toxic and shallow on dating sites. But if you go out in the real world you'll see lots of women with men under 6 ft, even with short men
Well honestly I'm sorry to hear that but at the same time at least those women are putting their red flags as their first impressions so that you can weed out all the women that wouldn't be good to date anyways 🤣 Like I understand having preferences and all but to just reject all guys under 6ft with no chance can be ridiculous especially like that 4'11 girl. Like does she want to look like a daughter of the guy she's dating or something lmao
Hmmm you can't help who you like... first glance I think it looks funny to be a tall man with a very short woman. But it's just appearances so my judgment really holds no weight.
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Men get judged for liking certain body types on women too.
If men prefer shorter women who are smaller overall, they get deemed as having 'pedo preferences'.
Some of the same people that tell men to have standards are the same ones that get upset when they do, like it seems more acceptable for an obese woman to have standards like 6'4+, but if an obese guy demands a Victoria Secret model, it's okay.
It’s only the short unattractive men that have a problem with this lol.
Just as men can't help if they find a particular body type, hair color, or any other aspect of a woman to be attractive.
Who the fuck doesn't like my comment? Holy Shit! What a whacktube.
@DaveToo Maybe some troll or some bitter guy
@Cherry234 It didn't seem like a controversial comment.
@DaveToo It wasn't
Because it’s such a bizarre characteristic to hinge a whole relationship on. I’m 5’11” and I’ve gotten let down over it. One girl asked me if I was 6’ tall and I said I was 6’ in heels and she stopped responding to me. Just seems so shallow. I don’t think men have a single immutable physical characteristic requirement for women that will turn them off immediately..
I see your point but what if a woman only wants a man who's taller than her or at least the same height? I think it's reasonable to want someone at least close to your height
@Cherry234, I mean I get preferences, but there are a lot of women out there that aren’t shy about wanting a man that is at least 6’ tall and not an inch shorter. Just seems weird.
@DarkWinterNights It is weird unless that woman is exactly 6 ft or almost 6 ft herself
Question is why do women like tall men? There is nothing attractive about height🤣 It is all about personality in the end. If it's not I feel like it is for the wrong reasons... If the tall guy is attractive inside and out I get it! Odds are at that point the height waa the smallest peice of the puzzle. My strength as a 5'7" man is my personality, my voice, my looks , and my empathy. Height is just not something I'm concerned is important
Same reason why men are being judged for not liking fat women. The only difference here is that weight can be controlled (generally speaking) while length cannot.
@TruthBringer I'm 5'10" and never knew I was "short" until I started reading dating profiles of women! When I was in the Navy I was more than happy to be 5'10" as it was the tall guys who lost their fighter pilot slots as the ejection seats were fitted to guys my size. We felt sorry for the really tall guys.
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I thought all navy guys were gay.
@anykayd Hey it's not Gay of you are underway :-O
Because some people are assholes..
What we find physically attractive cannot be controlled..
It's depends on how we were sexually hardwired..
And if men in teenage find out.. That women like tall guys..
Why don't guys exercise and stretch and get taller than usual
My dad's like 5"6 and mom is like 5"2 and I am 6"0 .
I figured this out at 15 yr age and started stretching and did it..
Totally worth it..
It's the insults. It's fine to have a preference, but a decent amount of women are just straight up nasty bitches about it because they know if they complain enough about getting hate, every white knight in a 50km radius comes running.
Apparently people call it "unrealistic ". I mean they talk like tall men don't exist.
I mean we are rare but I guess it depends on what you consider tall. I'm 6'3. Assuming you liked my friend who was 5'10 would you give him a shot or is he too short in your eyes?
@t-8900 idc about height that much if that's what you're saying. So yeah
I was just wondering thanks for the reply
Quite frankly, I don't care. I can't change my height but I tend to find girls who like tall guys and find shorter guys to be some repugnant, disgusting, vile piece of trash in the dating books in their eyes. It's like those girls take it to some next level. Even if I didn't find a girl attractive I wouldn't be a dick about it. Even when I don't swipe on the like side for dating apps, I feel bad.
i dont know, but i noticed a lot of men seem to have a problem with what women find attractive lol
Why are men judged for liking shorter females? People seem to associate shorter females with underage girls, rather than a female that is vertically challenged due to genetics. Also, some people have no consideration for others when they sit there and judge someone else, when all they are doing is comparing themselves with the other person. We all have our rights to an opinion, but there are also always two or more sides to that judgement as well.
Because you're all full of shitty double standards. Crying when a man dares to say he has preferences, but brag about yours.
And that attitude you have about short guy. You don't just prefer tall guys, you literally mock and despise short guys. Many women treat shorts guys as some sub-humans who don't even deserve a look.
Women make height the sole determining factor. A lot of men get dismissed simply for not being her ideal height, yet us men don’t like fat chicks however we get bitched at as if we aren’t allowed to have preferences. Shit we are even transphobic if we aren’t into shemen
I met two women, a woman 5'8 160 pounds (beautiful) and a woman 5'1 (100 lbs) (also beautiful). I am 6'1 210 lbs (average), both these women are my friends and we know each other from church. My number one priority in relationship was mutual faith in Jesus Christ. I talked to both women, but the woman 5'1 showed a greater interests and we connected more on a mental level. We are both in a similar field. So I am dating the 5'1 woman, I love her but realize we look extreme.
I think it just makes average and tall women upset since they can’t necessarily find someone taller than them, they don’t blame the women under 5’7 because it’s obviously not their fault, it’s the fact that men on the taller side don’t really see women who are average or on the taller side as a potential partner for them. They too deserve to look up at a guy and feel they’re short for once. These Darn men.
Ironically, it’s usually very short girls who have strict standards for height
Short men get insecure and upset because a lot of times there not desirable. Like when overweight girls get made at guys for liking fit women. Absolutely stupid.
Well you can change being overweight duh
The point is still the same some girls like tall guys…..
It's not that. Y'all don't even get to know someone unless they're as tall as you'd like them to be. Normally the other guys don't even get a chance reguardless of their looks. It's the wrong metric.
Okay how can you judge someone for their preferences like what? 🤦♀️
Yeah I know
Because "someone" is basically all females by default
Well I'm 5'1 so as long as you're taller than that and I like you I see no problem.
@zaharuh I think the women who insist that men have to be 6ft and above to date them are in the minority. You and I disprove that point of ALL women only liking tall men
Yeah like honestly if I'm with a guy that's too tall it might just look weird 🤣 People love to exaggerate reasons why they aren't finding partners like just look to better yourself and find someone who loves you for who you are.
@Cherry234 @zaharuh We appreciate that you both are not like other girls, but to say that those women are the minority is reaching. Understand that you girls are the outliers/minority nowadays wherever you go that all women talk about, go on dating sites that's all you will see women asking for men that are 6ft, go on social media all you see is women slandering men for not being tall. Recently I was talking to a girl that was 4'11 and said she couldn't date me because I wasn't 6ft and I am 5'7 and that's just one instance, I get that as women you don't see it often because you are not the target of the topic, but as a man, I can say it happens more than enough to the point it could just make you give up on finding love.
@Novacane That's really ridiculous. I don't understand why a 4'11 girl thinks you're not tall enough for her. She can't even tell if someone is 6 ft or not. You're 2 inches taller than I am and I would date someone your height. People tend to be really toxic and shallow on dating sites. But if you go out in the real world you'll see lots of women with men under 6 ft, even with short men
Well honestly I'm sorry to hear that but at the same time at least those women are putting their red flags as their first impressions so that you can weed out all the women that wouldn't be good to date anyways 🤣 Like I understand having preferences and all but to just reject all guys under 6ft with no chance can be ridiculous especially like that 4'11 girl. Like does she want to look like a daughter of the guy she's dating or something lmao
Hmmm you can't help who you like... first glance I think it looks funny to be a tall man with a very short woman. But it's just appearances so my judgment really holds no weight.