Why are women judged for liking tall men?

[Babygirl_S]

It's not like we can control who we find attractive.

[Cybermetal93]

It depends on the reasons, more often than not its like passively crapping on guys that aren't tall. Also I highly doubt every tall guy thats out there is attractive and suitable for most women. According to many sources, in the USA or anywhere in which the average height is about 5'9 - 5'11ish, tall men are 15% of the population precisely. You can divide that 15% up into different types of tall men. There are tall men that are gay, there are tall men that are weird and creepy, tall men that are insane and just crazy as hell, tall men that are ugly, tall men that are assholes, tall men that are too tall etc... That leaves women with about an extremely low amount of tall guys that are pretty much perfect in both personality and looks. So realistically if you want the "perfect" tall guy good fucking luck with that, because there's a hell lot more tall guys that aren't what you expect them to be.

Also to point out other reasons. I've heard "tall men are more protective" "tall men will give me taller kids" "tall men can pick me up." A single bullet to the head or any other organ and you're dead. A knife stab as well. If a tall guy can't manage to disarm or fight men like this, he's done for and hitting the grave. If you don't know how to fight and you don't know how to combat other men, you'll get your ass kicked and sent to the hospital. Being tall doesn't automatically make a guy more protective.

They specifically train people in martial arts and other fighting sports on how to take down bigger men and there are techniques that can make a tall guy fall to the floor and get knocked out. Most martial artists were actually not that tall and still aren't. A tall guy that doesn't know how to fight is far worse off than a guy that isn't tall that is. Where is the "protection" in that? I even saw a video of a short guy that literally beat the living fuck out of a tall guy and the tall guy was acting like a little bitch. Also, if you want to be picked up, when you have kids do you want your husband to hold your kids and you in in his arms? Its childish behavior. Its so cringe to think that women want to be "picked up." If thats what you want then when you have babies, your husband can put a pacifier in your mouth too by all means. Also, having tall kids doesn't mean they will be better at life. There isn't anything inherently wrong with being any height, but being a certain height doesn't mean you'll automatically get a free pass in life. there's tall guys that have shit lives not making much money. there's short guys that are CEOS or something making 150k+ per year. All of this is valid for why women judge men that like tall men cause if you think about it, its not usually realistic.

[Just_call_me_Levi]

Height is not something you can control, and this is coming from a 6'5 guy... If girls say they like how tall I am, depending on the girl, it could be a red flag...
Wouldn't you rather be complimented on something you 'can' control? Or say... Your personality? Education? Taste? And what have you...

Girls judge guys for preferring a certain body type, which is something that (to certain degree) you can control, it's not just genetics and a pinch of luck.

I'll never be a body builder, I'm not ashamed to admit it, but to me for a girl to prefer them, that's very fair... It's a completely different lifestyle they chose... While height says nothing about the person, very little about their strength/endurance, and as a fellow man, I feel bad for them...

Smaller men deserve better, but I also don't want girls to date/marry men they don't feel attracted to. It's unfair no matter how you slice it.

But most importantly, after this little' rant, I do absolutely agree we shouldn't judge people based on their preferences, we like what we like, plain and simple. Sadly that's not the world we live in now, hopefully soon though.

[Cherry234]

I'm probably going to get at least one downvote for this. That's because they can't accept other peoples' preferences. They make a big deal about it and keep going on rants about "heightism." It's okay to be attracted to a certain body type and people of certain heights. Try not to let those bitter men get you down. They need to work on themselves before they date anyone.

I like tall men too but that doesn't mean I don't also like short men and men of average height. Not all women only like tall men. Some of them think women only want to date tall men but that's not true. Most women like men that are taller than them or at least the same height as them. And that doesn't mean those men have to be 6 ft or above. Also some of them are so insecure that they call themselves short if they're under 6 ft even when they're nowhere near short

[Cherry234]

@Babygirl_S I spoke about my height preferences on another question and there was this dude who was giving me flack just bc I answered the question. I think it was a question just for men but I think he was the person who downvoted me and he criticized me. There were 2 other pink users who also answered the question but he didn't say anything to them. I think the real and the only reason he came after me was because he didn't like my opinion. Some people get so easily triggered on here and can't handle people with different opinions

[Cherry234]

Thank you for MHO

[Taylah9]

Yeah I guess its the same thing as guys that like girls shorter than them. I think its because for girls it feels nice when a guy is bigger than them and can lift them up off the ground n hug them. Same with guys liking a smaller girl. It makes girls feel feminine and guys feel masculine.
However, it shouldn't be the thing you find attractive. Plenty of tall guys with no other good qualities and plenty of shorter guys with the best qualities and vice versa.
You wouldn't like a tall guy who was a complete dickhead personality wise and whose height was the only thing going for him. But you'd probably like a guy who wasn't as tall who was actually a decent person. Height is literally a measurement and it shouldn't be the basis of whether or not someone is attractive as its somewhat superficial.

[Babygirl_S]

It applies anyone's "preferences".

[jennifer_bloom]

I think a lot of men and woman have difficulty accepting that a marriage partner is gained through hard work and sacrifice and not a birth right you are entitled to for being born, all the gorgeous woman I know over 30 years old work out and eat healthy and buy creams and health products for their beauty maintenance, and all the successful professionals I know had grit and self control and were willing to practice delayed gratification, these guys want sex but are not willing to work to support a marriage.

[OlderAndWiser]

It's jealousy from the short guys. No different than some guys preferring blondes.

[Darkpheonix33]

No its not jealousy, its the judgement women have against short guys that is more the reason why they are judged. Its basically making short guys look inferior and of a lesser. Imagine hearing all sorts of reasons of why tall guys are better and its not even only short guys that get crapped on, its also guys that are averagish in height. You can't really assume every tall guy is so and so being the most perfect tall guy out there. Most of the reasons women like tall men aren't always true. "I want tall guys for protection." Doesn't help if a tall guy can't fight, he'll get his ass kicked by a guy that isn't tall that does. "I don't want short kids" toxic mindset. Being short isn't a disease and you can have a perfectly normal life as a short person, its not right to automatically think short kids, especially a short son, will have a shit life when you he hasn't even been brought into the world yet or even having this magical power to see into the future.

"I want to be picked up." Unless you're a little kid, I think its very cringe to "pick up" a full grown adult. When a woman has kids, there can only be so much time to pick up that many people. If they want to be picked up the same way as the kids do, thats super weird and cringe. "Tall men are more attractive." Not always. In fact most men in Hollywood that are usually good looking are under 6 feet.

James Dean as well was only 5'7 or 5'8, but women loved him. Prince 5'3. Michael J Fox 5'4. Tom Cruise 5'7. George Clooney 5'10 or 5'11ish. etc... "Tall men are more likely to make more money" One of the richest men in the world is Jeff Bezos, 5'7. If women only want tall guys they're missing out, for all reasons stated, its fair enough to judge women in this circumstance because its unrealistic to come across that many tall men that are suitable for every woman that likes tall men. Saying I like to say is, "if you go fishing, don't expect to always catch the greatest fish."

[raw_is_war99]

@OlderAndWiser You are wrong, I am 5'8, I play sports at a high level against taller guys, I don't sit there and cry about it. I actually admire tall athletes like Michael Jordan. But someone like Michael Jordan who is 6 ft 6, Jordan's father is 5'8 and his brothers weren't taller than 5'10. But girls tend to superficial AF. I don't look at a fat girl and say, eww she's a disgusting slob, or a skinny girl and say eww she's anorexic. Girls can have their choices, I am not a bitter guy. But it's how girls conduct themselves with this "he's not good enough for society" behaviour. Imagine if every guy said every fat girl is not good enough for society how would that turn out?

[Darkpheonix33]

@raw_is_war99 Yeah thats true. Even if guys aren't really attracted to fat women they don't really have much to say other then they aren't really attracted. With women liking tall guys its like a be all and end all for why they are better than other guys. A lot of tall guys I see aren't even that good looking and some are socially awkward and weird.

[OlderAndWiser]

Isn't a preference for blue eyed blondes also superficial AF?

[Darkpheonix33]

No not really, thats not the same as height. You can still change your eye color via contacts and also change your hair color. You literally can't change height

[YesICan]

@Darkpheonix33 "Most of the reasons women like tall men aren't always true. "I want tall guys for protection."

Height is an indicator of good genetic quality and status, also it is true that they feel safer around taller guys.

"Doesn't help if a tall guy can't fight, he'll get his ass kicked by a guy that isn't tall that does."

That's a extreme example, of course if the smaller guy is more skilled he will beat him, duh. Put an expert MMA fighter that is 6ft2 vs another expert mma fighter that is like 5ft7. The guy that is 6ft2 will destroy him even tho they have the same skill in fighting. Also you can even put a guy that is 5ft10 vs a guy that is 5ft6/5ft7 with little to no fighting skill, the guy that is 5ft10 is still at an advantage to win.

"If they want to be picked up the same way as the kids do, that's super weird and cringe."

Most of them want to be picked up in a romantic/sexual manner, not like a litteral child. There is nothing cringe about that, it's normal.

""Tall men are more likely to make more money" One of the richest men in the world is Jeff Bezos, 5'7"
Look at most people who are successful. I'm talking about the CEO's and bosses. Most of them are tall 6ft and above. Jeff Bezos was yet another extreme example to prove your point.

"A lot of tall guys I see aren't even that good looking and some are socially awkward and weird."

This really sounds to me like you're just coping for the fact that you're short ( Now keep in mind I'm just judging based on the way you presented your opinion, I have nothing personal against you nor am I trying to put you down. Just my observation)

[raw_is_war99]

@OlderAndWiser I don't look for blue eyes and blonde hair girls lol, a girl can be 5'3 and a brunette... that's perfectly okay.

[Darkpheonix33]

@YesICan you make it seem like every tall guy is like that. You completely missed my point

[YesICan]

@Darkpheonix33 Then dissect my argument, elaborate. Call out the things I got wrong

[Darkpheonix33]

@YesICan sure. The world population is the way it is because women breed with men that aren't tall. Most people wouldn't be alive because our gene pool consists of fathers and men that aren't tall. Realistically speaking if tall men are signs of good genes then why don't women go after tall men to breed? If that was the case our population would be reduced by about 90% as most men in this universe aren't tall.

Speed vs power. It depends on how skilled a tall guy is and how much energy he has. Shorter men can have more speed and energy, but they are more vulnerable. If a shorter guy can tire out a tall guy then he has more of an advantage unless the tall guy can knock out a shorter guy quicker. It comes down to who has more skill and better fighting styles.

It isn't normal for a man to pick up a grown woman. In the real world that can be considered rape if it proceeds further than more just picking up. In all my life I have never heard a single grown woman say she wants to be picked up and I have never witnessed this at all. I see this with children but never adults. In fact women actually hate being picked up. This shit is fine for women in their 20s and teens or when they are children. But when women are 30+ and have children of their own it's pretty embarrassing to have a guy "pick up" a woman the same way they do for a child. I would laugh if I saw this in person and most people would. Not normal at all.

Not every CEO and bosses are tall in this world. Prime ministers and presidents of countries make far more and they aren't tall.

Maybe next time don't talk out of your ass

[OlderAndWiser]

@Darkpheonix33 Are you attracted to fat girls? Are you attracted to girls with ugly faces? Are you attracted to girls who look masculine? All of our preferences and criteria for attraction are superficial.

[YesICan]

@Darkpheonix33

"It depends on how skilled a tall guy is"

Yeah obviously it depends how skilled both of them are. In your example you presented the "tall guy" with little to 0 fighting skill, while presenting the shorter person as someone who is more skilled for the sake of proving the point that shorter guys are "better" at fighting.

All I pointed out is if you put two guys who have the same fighting skills together, and the only difference being that one is taller then the other, the taller one is going to win.

""women breed with men that aren't tall"
"Most people wouldn't be alive because our gene pool consists of fathers and men that aren't tall""

- Average height is still "tall" considering the average woman is about 5ft4, and they usually prefer guys like that that's why they "breed" with them. The way you formed that statement is almost as if women "breed" with short people.

[YesICan]

"It isn't normal for a man to pick up a grown woman. In the real world that can be considered rape if it proceeds further than more just picking up."

-What are you even talking about, did you just write that for the sake of making your argument looking bigger? I wasn't talking about some random guy picking up a random chick out of nowhere. I'm talking if the girl is attracted by a guy they usually don't mind being picked up when alone.

"I would laugh if I saw this in person and most people would. Not normal at all."
-Why would you would laugh at some guy picking up his girl/wife? You say it's not normal while it is completly normal to lift up your partner and it's also common when taking photos together.

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I would post more cause there are 1000s of pictures like that but i think you get the idea. The only person who doesn't sound normal is you ( again I'm not trying to insult you, just judging based on the way you form your opinions). The way you form your words is similar to an Alien that tries to act like a normal human being, I'm being serious by the way.

[YesICan]

"Not every CEO and bosses are tall in this world. Prime ministers and presidents of countries make far more and they aren't tall."

I never claimed that all of them are tall, but a good majority is. The reason for that is that taller people convey a sense of leadership. Back in primitive times, height usually meant strength, so we associate height with power. Most US presidents were tall, there were just a few short ones but that is not that common.

"Maybe next time don't talk out of your ass"
There was 0 reason for you to write this, cause it has 0 effect on me. All it does is confirm my first statement, that you're coping for the fact that you're a short guy. And let me tell you this, you're handling it poorly. ( I even mentioned that i have nothing against you presonally in my first reply, no reason for you to be low-key hostile)

[Darkpheonix33]

@YesICan I have a lot of women in my family and talked with a lot of women, not a single one mentions that they want to be picked up. This isn't really a thing and we don't usually live in some fairytale world that this is common. This isn't normal as its not common. Sense of leadership? Some of the tall presidents we had were dumb as fuck such as Trump and Bush.

[Darkpheonix33]

@YesICan I can link several sources in which women hate being picked up but it won't allow me to post links

[OlderAndWiser]

@Darkpheonix33 . . . and Obama and Clinton, who were also dumb as fuck.

[raw_is_war99]

@OlderAndWiser you say are you attracted to ugly faces or fat girls... A guy can be short but handsome and in shape. Tom Cruise will get ripped about his height but he was on GQ magazines, George Clooney dubbed one of the sexist men alive is listed as 5'10 but he could be 5'9. Like I said I am 5'8, I once dated a girl who was 5'10 and 6ft+ in heels, sooo @OlderAndWiser you are incorrect, it does depend on the girl. A guy can be ugly or fat but tall compared to a guy who's 5'7, ripped and extremely handsome what's your point? Your basis is that you assume short guys are bitter because they aren't tall, but that's an assumption @OlderAndWiser if you are 66 years old should I assume that you are bitter towards younger guys who are in their 20s and 30s because of youth/age?

[raw_is_war99]

@OlderAndWiser if you say "no I don't care if you are younger then me by 30 years", then why do you think short guys are just bitter and angry if a girl wants a tall boyfriend or husband? I know guys who are 6ft1, 6ft2+ and they didn't have tall parents, their moms were like 5'3-5'5 range and their fathers were around the 5'7-5'9 range. How about this, how about we be more welcoming and less judgey to others? There are girls out there who are fine dating a shorter guy who's below 6ft. The only reason why girls are giving your answer a thumbs up @OlderAndWiser is because girls dont even know what they want in this feminist driven toxic age. Many girls nowadays @OlderAndWiser don't care about marriage or relationships so their values are already out the window so they look for this world of perfection (Tall husband, rich, status, power). If a girl is going to disagree with me on that then how much are you disagreeing with me ladies? 70%? 80%? 90%? 100%? Because ladies if I am wrong then why do girls on GAG post questions such as -- I hate men, dating apps suck, I hate guys approaching me, marriage is oppression/slavery, being my own boss is the only way for happiness because money equates happiness I could go on and on and on and on and on about this.

[OlderAndWiser]

@raw_is_war99 "Your basis is that you assume short guys are bitter because they aren't tall" No, not at all. I am 5' 9" quite average and quite happy. I am not one of those guys who gets angry at women who only want to date tall guys. The question that SOMEONE ELSE ASKED which started this thread is "why are women judged for liking tall men?" No ne said that all guys judge women who do this, no one said that all women prefer tall men, or any of the other ridiculous statements which you are misattributing to me so that you can then criticize for what I (didn't actually) say.

If you want to take issue with what I said, bring it. If you want to twist things around just so you can spew some venom, perhaps you are just one of those angry guys.

[YesICan]

@darkpheonix33rkpheonix33

No disrespect but I'm done here as you are starting to talk nonsense.
"Some of the tall presidents we had were dumb as fuck such as Trump and Bush." I mean come on now look at your "argument" we both know if I dissect this one that you're just going to drop some other nonsense again which will lead us nowhere.

- You made a lot of extreme examples to make your point look valid
- You don't provide any sort of sources to back your claims
- You make a lot of unnecessary points.

"I have a lot of women in my family" And? Is this supposed to be a valid argument?

"This isn't really a thing and we don't usually live in some fairytale world that this is common."
You're just denying things for the sake of it it seems to me.

[Soleil7001]

Wow, the number of downvotes by shorter and/or dumber guys.
Yes, tall generally means preferred by girls, just like smart.
You could get your height improved by basketball, and your brains by thinking a lot instead of whining.

[AmandaYVR]

Because it's shallow, becoming more and more irrelevant in today's civil society where brains are more important, and because even some of the shortest girls are insisting on over 6' guys.

[Novacane]

I don't think women are judged that much when it comes to height, as you mentioned its a preference of attraction which I agree you have no control over that but I think the problem is that not women liking tall men it's about women shaming men for being short when let's be honest we have no power of how tall/short we are. For example, the most common rebuttal to this is women being a certain weight, at least people can change their weight to some extent so they have control over that but imagine hearing a fat guy say he doesn't date fat women, you see how that's ridiculous, now imagine short women saying they don't date short men. I think what brings the attention is that there is nothing wrong with women liking tall men it's that a lot of women have made it clear that "if you are not 6ft then don't talk to me".

for example my personal experience, I was talking to a girl that was 4'11, I am 5'7, she told me that she couldn't date me because I wasn't 6ft tall. So that really makes me think if a girl that is 4'11 doesn't date me because I am not "tall" what hope do I have a finding someone, at this point, might as well give up and treat all women the same. Now I know that there are some women that wouldn't care about my height, but a lot of women have adopted this mentality that I have been running into this nonstop, and it's really degrading because then these women go for the tall guys and when they get treated bab they go on and say "men ain't shit" "all men are the same" like if we contributed to that.

[Sarahr123]

It’s usually when women who are barely 5’ expect a man to be 6’2+ that people question it. Even some tall men have told me that they didn’t understand why short girls were so picky about height.

I personally am most attracted to men in the region of 5’11-6’2 (not any taller than that though) but I am 5’6 and I do like to wear heels. I just find it to be the perfect height difference. My only boyfriend was 6’ and I was around his ear level with flats so when I would hug him my head would touch the tip of his nose. I think that’s such a cute height difference. When I wore 4-5 inch heels we were almost the same height.

I prefer the guy to be taller than me. I guess it’s just my preference the same way how I am only attracted to guys with dark hair and dark eyes and only Mediterranean/Indian looking men. Like I am completely smitten by Siddharth Malhotra/Sushant Singh Rajput. They’re both the same height and have the exact look that I like.

[NatalieKeller95]

my friend is 5'7 and 3/4 and his girlfriend is 5'6

[Cherry234]

What if the guy was only an inch or two taller than you? Would you still be okay with that?

[Sarahr123]

@Cherry234 I would be OK with being with someone who is 5’7 or 5’8 but I have to admit that I would not be as attracted to them as I would be if they were 6’

[Cherry234]

@Sarahr123 ok

[GingerGuy]

For some women it's actually a "deal breaker", which is mind blowing to me because it's not only unrealistic (some women's "expectations"), but something guy's have absolutely no control over. Also a lot of women have the false belief (nothing to do with attraction), that "tall guys have better genes", which isn't true at all. "Better" in the the chances of your child also being tall is better, but not better genes in general. I just can't believe how important it is to some women, that is what gets to me. So much that they will reject a guy for this reason alone! Do I have a height preference in women? Sure. But in NO way is it a deal breaker. I'd date anyone, any height if I liked them.

[gag2021]

Maybe they have so many guys chasing them they can highly discriminate on height.

[TruthBringer]

@gag2021 You actually hit the nail right on the head. It's because they have so many guys simp for them that their entitlement and egos go through the roof. I honestly blame men really. If men would have some standards and live up to them, then these women would be humbled.

[ADFSDF1996]

Because for that type of women that’s the most important factor. If a guy isn’t 6’0”+ then these women look at the guy as if he’s subhuman. Not to mention that it’s hypocritical since these women belong to the same crowd that gets mad whenever a guy doesn’t want to date a woman because she’s either obese or too skinny.

By the way, height by itself isn’t as important of a factor as heightists like to believe. All tall stature does is let you reach things on a higher shelf. Even in a fight, it’s quite common for shorter guys to mop the floor with taller guys. Strength is way more important than height.

It used to be that women liked buff guys regardless of height, now women like tall lanky guys for some reason. Must be a millennial female standard.

[gag2021]

Yes, that comes across as arrogant discrimination. A total turn off!

[Diodoro]

In what context are women judged for that?

You'll see guys say it's annoying girls mostly wanting guys 6 foot + and looking down on guys shorter than that. But that's not giving girls shit for liking tall guys. That's saying it's messed up for girls to judge guys for being less than 6 feet.

Different things. It's like if a guy says he doesn't date fat chicks. It would be disingenuous for him to say, "Why do girls judge me for liking fit chicks?".

Well no. It's the shitting on people not in that category that you hear complaints about lol. I'm 6'1 so I don't even have a dog in this. But if we're being honest that's what this is really about

[cth96190]

Women are hard wired to seek the genes of tall men.
That is part of natural selection.
Where women come unstuck is that men who are 6’ are only 18 per cent of the male population.
As the height of the men becomes greater, their number as a proportion of the population becomes vanishingly small.
Add to that that they must be single, heterosexual and able to support a family, and it becomes absurdly unrealistic for women to pursue them to the exclusion of all other men.
Women who set an unrealistic height expectation will probably end up bitter and surrounded by boxed wine and cats.
My suggestion is to go for average height (5’8”) and regard any additional height as a bonus.

[Babygirl_S]

Why pick a short guy when I can attract taller guys?

[cth96190]

@BabygirlI_S
Average is, by definition, not short.
You have provided me with an example to support my argument.
Enjoy the boxed wine and cats.

[Babygirl_S]

I prefer a tall man. You can keep the boxed wine and cats for yourself.

[Assi2k]

Why don’t women start treating their “preference” as that then? And not turn it into an insult huh? I don’t know if u live under a rock but bitches are literally brutal when it comes to men’s height and 🍆 size. Oh don’t start feign ignorance now hon 🤦🏾‍♀️

[t-8900]

It's true though. I'm tall but avg downstairs. But I have a lot of short friends and I just feel terrible for them. I've never cared about a woman's height really

[Woke51]

Preach👑 The only problem is being born and learning you're not up to standard. Shorter men don't want to be taller, they want to be accepted and normalized.

[Assi2k]

@Woke51 It's the last sentence for me‼️💯💯💯 Yes, take note boys; reject people that don't accept and celebrate you ❤️

[t-8900]

@Assi2k keep being a truly strong woman who doesn't buckle to the new norms to accept things which are unacceptable! Respect!

[Sugar100]

I don’t like tall men I’m 5ft but I would feel insecure like it’ll feel weird like he’s my dad. I look too young I’m 24 but been told I look like I’m in high school so a tall guy won’t even want me be his girlfriend. All tell men I met like tall girls , not little girls 😔 even tho I’m an adult but I look like a little kid

[crazy8000]

One reason could be that many female's are hippocrates in this area and judge males for what they get attracted to.

An other is that they doesn't really know what they actually get attracted to and aren't honest about it.

Jealousy. yeh. this one is a minority group that have been exaggerated by female's from the start.

But hurt because of they are attracted. even that they have problems with not being attractive for those female's.

You always have the kind that are into doing that. like online trolls.

There are more reasons.

[ZackBan]

People want what people want.
But those left out also have the right to be upset about it. They deserve that at least.

It's not like women or men will ever change their tastes and no matter how much certain groups bicker they cannot change certain things about the human brain

[Cherry234]

They have the right to be sad or upset about it but they shouldn't be taking it out on other people or calling people names about it

[ZackBan]

Of course not, nothing makes calling people names ok it's a sign of weakness and insecurity no matter the context

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

as a 5'11 girl i care a lot about height because i like putting put my head on his shoulder, have his arm over my shoulder while walking and feeling safe when i'm hugging him as i get lost in his arms (lmfao it sound so poetic and extra). i also find tall couples really attractive, they look really powerful.

[Cherry234]

Tall couples really do look powerful. I like seeing them together. Like Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds 🙂

[DianaWest]

who is judged and who cares about others' opinion? most men like women with D cup boobs and certain curves. past a certain point, women have no control over their body shape. maybe they were born with really large hips, or an apple body shape, or a scrawny figure where no amount of squats will give them an ass. men can suck it up because they aren't all that understanding or forgiving when they judge a woman's body.

[Anonymous]

I also dont get it. Even if tall men are minority, it is our problem. Nobody judge any man for prefering young women although majority of women are not under 30. This means they reject 80% of women but we get hate for prefering tall men aka prefering minority of men (?).

I personally think you are entitled to prefere who you want. I would not even judge a guy for prefering a model. However, we should not bodyshame anyone. If you prefere thick curvy women, do not bodyshame non curvy women or if you prefere tall, you should not bodyshame short men.

[PralineCream]

It's personally only a deal breaker for me if the guy is shorter then me where I have to bend down to be at eye level, but many women want men over 6'0. Men have complained about that because no one likes to hear they don't fit everyone's preferences, that's it. It's hard but they just need to accept that, I have.

[Dragonstarterplus]

Mostly because men are judged as being shallow pigs for liking women that aren't overweight whereas women are just judged as having standards and preferences for liking tall men. And whereas height is something no one has any control over, how much someone weighs is definitely something they have control over

[pickedcrisps]

Babygirl_S how tall are we talking here? I'm 185cm (6ft or right on it). But people always say if I wasn't so slim and was more muscles-slim then I would quite look good have a good height just need more weight unquote.

And that was an old elderly woman complimenting me point blank out of the blue. Clearly I've got one thing down, the height. I just need muscles. But I am very slim.

[pickedcrisps]

@Babygirl_S how tall are we talking here? 🤣😅

[Babygirl_S]

At least 6 ft tall.

[pickedcrisps]

Yes that's me. Hmm. I'd say it's resentment or jealousy. But here's something actually useful: for a while there I used to think I wanted a woman with big breasts. Then I met a woman who I describe as like a soul mate or a one who's gotten away. She was flat as a wall. And she made me feel in my mind happier from a distance than any woman I've ever met. Wow. So take from that what you want or what you will 😋😋🤗 peace, lady

[pickedcrisps]

Was my comment reply helpful to you at all @Babygirl_S or do you need a different answer or further answer? 😊 Happy to provide further answer.

[Babygirl_S]

Yes it was helpful 🙂

[pickedcrisps]

Anything more?

[Babygirl_S]

No..

[spuitkaas]

So my theory on this is because many men think they can work towards women liking them. If they're nice, polite, dominant, muscular or whatever enough, she will fall in love with him. However this disregards the humanity of women, who just like men have sexual preferences and aren't some magical creatures where if you just work hard enough they will love you.

[Birdlegs]

That’s what catching feelings is tho going from not really liking someone to liking them. Which I would think is more human in a sense

[spuitkaas]

However, most of the times it just won't happen. If you really don't think someone is attractive, it will probably not happen? Would you be able to catch feelings for anyone?

[Birdlegs]

I mean if I am absolutely repulsed by a persons face no but I feel like if you just look normal then I could catch feelings. But that’s just me I’m a very accepting person I give most of the girls who approach me a chance unless I’m just clueless as to why they’re talking to me.