It isn't emasculating to ask. If he decides to feel emasculated because of this is on him. This should not be a big deal considering your good intentions.
Nah. If you’re both adults and he’s not reading the signs, then he might get really excited that you want to date him. I had three girls ask me out. I married the third one.
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I've done it more than once... and I'm married to a guy who I made the first move on !!!
You're dating the wrong guy then. But maybe he will surprise you. Make your own decisions. I'd certainly love it.
Do it. If he doesn't like it, I don't know what's wrong with him, but the vast majority of guys would love to be taken out for once too.
It isn't emasculating to ask. If he decides to feel emasculated because of this is on him. This should not be a big deal considering your good intentions.
Can't speak for fragile egos but personally, I'd be flattered!
It's a nice change of pace I don't think he'd mind though it'd probably be better to refer to it as treating him rather then taking him out somewhere.
Not really.
it’s good when you have someone come up with ideas and do all the sorting.
for me no, not at all.
it would take some of the pressuer off of me to think of stuff, not to mention my wallet.
Nah. If you’re both adults and he’s not reading the signs, then he might get really excited that you want to date him. I had three girls ask me out. I married the third one.
If he won't go out with you, then you can take me out and pay for it anytime!
Absolutely not emasculating. He's probably happy you ask.
He is probably waiting for you to do such things in the first place.
A beauty like you could ask me on a date anytime you want.
If that gesture offends him then he is not mature enough for a relationship.
No. I would personally love it if my SO would take me out on a date. lol.
No, but it depends on the guy. Some men would really enjoy a woman asking them out. Other men may be touchy about it.
I think it would be a very nice jester. My wife has done that for me on a few occasions.
To me no. It shows me that you care enough about me to plan something for me.
Start with something simple like coffee and see the reaction.
Go for it! I know guys who would die for a girl willing to do that!