Maybe for certain physical traits that's more so true. And some hobbies and interests IF you yourself are an open minded and adventurous person. I'm politically Moderate and sometimes i get so annoyed by politics I just say I'm A Political to get people to stfu about it. If she's into politics real heavy no matter where she falls I can't be with her. Just shut up about all that crap already, ain't no one want to hear about it anymore. If we are different faiths it could be a problem if she's super insistent on things. I'm easily able to integrate into different cultures myself because I'm very open minded about it though i do make it a point to talk about my own tribe sometimes as it's part of my identity. I think some of it is also mental really.
To say you only like blue eyes and blonde hair, I never got that tbh. Blondes are rare and if you never saw one I bet you would be after women from your own race/ethnicity. It's just you got a weird exposure to other women through media. There's no shame in it. I have a big thing for Latina and Desi women but tbh I am Italian, olive skin, dark hair and eyes. I wouldn't exactly say Latin and Italian peoples are "opposites". We have a lot in common in terms of religious background, family and relationship values, and we even both go into a lot of the same industries. This is why when my grandfather owned a few farms the hispanic families loved our family and we got along very well.
Indian women are different but most I've met... well actually ALL that I've met are super sweet, very traditional, very feminine, and very welcoming. That's always been my experience with them. They are a lot more shy because lets be honest a lot of people sadly treat them like s***. I like Arab and Muslim women too but because of the extreme religious and cultural differences I just steer clear of them. A lot of them are awesome but you just need like one zealous father that takes the stuff too literal and serious and then you can have all kinds of dangerous situations.
Not at all. Usually only women go for men on their equal social status, with women being the more physically attractive ones and men having to be "better" at everything else. Or, 7s and 8s only going after 8s and 9s. You never get 4s and 5s men with 8s and 9s women. So I don't believe this, at all.
Also, six feet isn't tall whatsoever for men anymore. That's literally just the new normal. Anything below tat is an F (too short) for women.
In my personal experience, a person who has the traits that you aspire towards instead of the ones you currently have is more attractive, and a good relationship is one where you can pick up the slack for the other person's weaknesses (one being an emotional thinker and the other a logical thinker) because it makes you a better team. Common interests are great for bonding over but having different interests mean that you can teach the other person something and explore new things together which is also good for bonding.
I prefer same or similar. Only opposite thing i like is “the opposite sex”
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Opposites attract with different interests not so much in height or weight.
If I was being really picky here and I mean ultra-perfectionist for a moment please don't take this to heart: sometimes I wonder this too because the amount of pale women doing spray tans and real tans to look more light brown. And then I see them going for tanned or actually light brown male partners.
I mean I can't help put two and two together. But is that because they're ashamed of being white or because all the pale guys are unfit ugly or whatever in their females minds.
Surely anyone fairly reading this knows about the whole tanning trend right of pale women really loving those spray tan salons right and home kits too? Right? For years now? 🙄🤪🤪
Opposite attract isn't refer to physical traits. It's about personality and sexual polarity. You're not gonna see a feminine guy dating a girly girl. More than likely a girl who considered herself more of a tomboy growing up.
A Barney Stinson to a Robin type relationship in HIMYM. While the reverse happens all the time. Masculine men are naturally attracted to girls who are more feminine. The polarity draws them in. That's usually associated with Opposite personality traits aswell but not always to an extreme degree.
Two Masculine people won't be with eachother. Two feminine people won't be together. This remains true across all relationships including same sex. There's always one that's more in their feminine and the other Masculine.
I guess everyone has a physical type they prefer. It gets tricky once you get past the physical attraction. I dated somebody that I thought was very pretty. We dated for about 4 or 5 months. She was a bartender and was not the outdoorsy or athletic type that I usually preferred. She was an aspiring singer and was really into the bar scene. Most of the time everything we did involved drinking. We went to a concert one night and it was during a blizzard. I had to park about a quarter mile away and we walked to the venue. She complained the whole time. All of my previous girlfriends would have loved a walk during a snowstorm. It was fun for a while but it was soon apparent to me that we were all wrong for each other.
I think there something to that, I don’t think it occurs with politics I can’t stand the left, I think AOC is physically attractive but she is as dumb as a rock and that’s an insult to the rock. I have a 130I. Q so I’m not attracted to women who can’t keep up with me intellectually. I’ve study Marx Russo Descartes Lao tzu Kong fu tzu (aka Confucius). That kind of thing.
Maybe on some smaller issues and personality traits.
Being opposites on big issues... no.
No. I'm dark blond, blue eyed and tall and I prefer girls on my attractiveness level with similar physical traits than mine.
Yes you probably want your kids to turn a certain way mix genes
Yes opposites do attract. If you're a good looking tall guy with a good body your best match will be a fat ugly woman.
I think it's true in many cases. I'm like you in that I am 6'3" and have always been very attracted to short women, like 5'0" - 5'3". Other things I'm not that picky about though.
>light skin blue eyes blonde hair
Typical Mexican lmao
There is a tendency towards homogamy, meaning people tend to look for people similar to them. Different characters attract each other if they complement each other.
No, not really, personality is 90% of attraction. Not physical features. Many cases I am not attracted to a person at all at first.
@Slingblade1126 Unfortunately, opposites never attract. Only similarities attract people.
I think so because I have been told that I look innocent and I don't like innocent faces on men.
Who doesn't like shorter girls with light skin, blue eyes and blonde hair.
Everybody like white girls sounds either u have a fetish for white women or something else most likely a fetish because the skin comparison
u there are no strict rules about these things
Except for women who are attracted to the female body
The one that might not work for most is one dont like sex but the other does.😊
