Have you met the male/female version of you? Would it be weird? What would say to them?

[Siren777]

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Have you met the male/female version of you? Would it be weird? What would you say to them?

[Anonymous]

Yep, it’s super weird and caused me to self-reflect a lot since I can also see my toxic behaviors in him. Sex is out of this world with him, he just knows my body more than I know myself but since we’re both basically the same person we do clash a lot and that taught the two of us to be less stubborn and to let go of our ego. He’s really like my twin though except we look nothing alike, we sometimes move or say something together the same way at the same time, we dress the same way, etc freaky af for sure

[aintnocandle]

I don't know that is complicated to me. Because we see ourselves a certain way and who we may think of as an opposite gender of ourselves may not be accurate. We also grow and change, and we don’t grow and change the same as others. I think you can have traits that are compatible and complementary but finding an opposite version of yourself I don’t think is as “opposite” or “mirror” of you as it is in reality. I think we see what we want to see in others a lot too, and this can obscure it entirely.

[t-8900]

There was this real simulation that took me and turned me into a female version of myself and had the same interests... honestly I was falling for her in a way. What can I say? I'm attracted to women with a history... maybe not bthe best for choosing partners. I never was good at picking healthy minded individuals. Then again Im not a healthy minded person 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪

[Siren777]

You have the most interesting stories ! Haha ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

[t-8900]

I'm glad you feel that way 😊

[Jamie05rhs]

I have met someone who has a lot in common with me. But she's very closed off, so we haven't been able to get close enough to share more personal things. I want to let down my walls, but I won't do it if she won't let down hers. I just don't trust her enough at this point.

[Siren777]

Take your time. Give her some time too. I am sure with time she will.

[aintnocandle]

Yes please give her time. I’m like this and guys are so impatient with me... it just takes awhile for me to warm up and open up to someone

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't think it's worth it. She doesn't even want me. She doesn't even like me.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thank you for the MHO.

[pickedcrisps]

Sometimes I've come close. Maybe I've seen a picture of them or maybe I've met a woman who had the personality but not quite the look.

Or even vice-versa. So I feel like I can answer yes and still answer no and still answer at all :)

I have... but maybe not the 'actual' I am still yet to meet. Maybe I'll have to wait to the next life even hahahah or reincarnation if I never meet her.

Oh well. It's cool. I do save more money as a single man. No wife and no kids to support. Rolling in the money I am thank god for it 😊♥️

[cummer6972]

She was working at a sex store in Fargo. I had 2 friends with me and we had just been talking about my "weird" sex habits. I was saying why are these things weird? Cause I bet there's a lot of people who think like me out there. "No there isn't " we walked in and there she was and I started talking about how these two were saying how weird I was. She then started telling them that she does a few "hands on" sex techniques for extra money and that she has a bondage studio in her basement with all the tools. I yelled at them 2 and said SEE I TOLD YOU I WASN'T WEIRD! SHE kept talking and out of my mouth slips "I think I'm in love" she says well I am married by the way. And he doesn't mind? She says he'll join. I'm still in love and didn't want to leave that town. But I got her number. Definitely going back

[tatianamay]

I hope I never will
It'd be hella weird and he'd probably be hella gullible and care a lot about others more than he should 😂

[Siren777]

Awww, don't say that. It's good to help and care. Just need to have firm boundaries with people.

[tatianamay]

Why does everyone say the same thing lol 😂
But yes, you're right🥰

[Pete671]

I met the female version of the person I would love to have been, we became great friends but she was gay so just my luck lol,,,

[Siren777]

That must've been quite the experience.

[Pete671]

it was totally amazing, like we were twins seperated at birth or something,,,

[Andres77]

We married each other.
Not a complete match... but close for us both to come to the same conclusion.

[Siren777]

Lovely 💫💫💫 you share your life with someome. I feel that's good enough. 💫💫💫

[Andres77]

Thanks

[TheSpaceGnome]

If I met the female version of myself (mentally speaking).

I'd say "marry me"

[Siren777]

That's wonderful !

[Wiredone]

I did meet a pretty close match 30 something years ago. We are still married today

[Siren777]

Awesome ! That's a long time. You're lucky 💫

[Wiredone]

I am very lucky. Many of my friends have been divorced at least once

[Dchrls78104]

How I wish! She would already have been my wife and the mother of my kids.

[Siren777]

Now that's sweet.

[InferiorElegy]

If there is a female version of me out there I'm sure I am still too ugly for her.

[Siren777]

You haven't met her, so you won't know.

[InferiorElegy]

I never will, its not possible in my life.

[Phoenix98]

I know I have a doppelganger in town who looks exactly like me but it's a he.

Never met the female version of myself.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That would definitely be weird for me to meet someone that's a female version of myself

[Siren777]

Lol , for some yes. I wonder why?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause that person would look and act like me but be a woman

[Sam_The_Savage]

I met female version of mine...
And we had best sexual relationship secretly.

[kellytheman]

Maybe not look like them but I have a girl that was a friend that we had so much in common. We thought maybe we should hook up but we felt it be kinda felt we be just better if we are just close friends.

[Anonymous]

Yes I did and we talked but she ended up blocking me because her friends didn't like me

[Siren777]

That's pretty shitty - when people allow friends to make decisions for them.

[exitseven]

I met the female version of myself. I married her.

[Siren777]

That's wonderful. 💫💫💫💫

[srijitdutta]

Nope. I would like to make her girlfriend and would definitely have sex with her.

[Shy_Steve]

I use to work with a Guy who my Workmates said looked like me and they thought we were related but we weren't, I got bullied about it a bit.

[Siren777]

That's odd? Why did they have to bully though. Wasn't he a great guy? That's weird and so wrong.

[Shy_Steve]

When they would tell me to see him for something they would say "Go see your uncle".
I thought it was funny as well a bit so it probably wasn't bullying.

[loveslongnails]

If I did, I probably didn't like her. LOL

[Siren777]

Hahaha that's okay.

[lorenzomichael]

I'd say wow you look great. Loan me 10 dollars.

[Siren777]

Lmao 🤣

[Protein_mate]

Not really at all, I'm quite a rare type

[Siren777]

Rare indeed ! 💪🏻