Do you even know yourself well enough to recognize it ?
If you met a male / female version of yourself would you get along?

Do you even know yourself well enough to recognize it ?
I think the same weaknesses would somehow get me to be more attached to that person, and be completely myself around them. If they're as insecure as I am, I'd feel less self conscious and somehow more relaxed than if they were super confident.
I also love being psychoanalyzed as much as I love psychoanalyzing people (and some would consider that a "weakness" or a flaw) so.. that's that.
When it comes to strengths, I've been told I have a big heart and I'm very honest which is also what I want in a guy.
So all in all, if I met the guy version of me, I'd date the sh*t out of him. ^^
Nope, we wouldn't get a long. His straightforwardness would be nice and appreciated as well as I'd finally find someone as spontaneous as me, but we would argue too much. We'd both be too stubborn to walk away from anything and we'd both wouldn't stop until we had the last word. It would be impossible to date someone like myself lol.
But best friends? Definitely. We'd always have each others backs and would have fun together/share the same humor.
Hell no.
Both of us will think we're always right, will be stubborn, harshly blunt, couldn't talk about anything or make jokes because we'd have the same humor - he'd be black so I couldn't date him - most boring friendship ever.
And we'd both be really adventurous and seek new exciting people - so I doubt a friendship would even develop in the first place.
I see. I tend to feel same way. But why the black thing?
I'm just not attracted to black guys - tis all. I was reading that anons guys response about macking on himself - and I wouldn't even be able to do that :( lol
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Well knowing me - or er -us, we'd exploit each others' weaknesses and devalue each others' strengths. On the rare occassion we aren't eating each other alive emotionally and mentally - we'd praise each other so much that we'd get so arrogant and then be even more nasty to ourselves.
Ugh. I'd rather never meet another me.
I believe that is called emotional cannibalism o.o
lol that's exactly what it is :P
i believe I already did, she's more a serious/more sarcastic version of me. I wouldn't say I would date her yet but we do have some fun moments and a lot of intellectual/philosophical conversation which I prayed to allah, god, Jehovah, jebus, Buddha, sheeva and tom cruise and charlie sheen to hopefully one day have that in a friend nonetheless in a female who is attractive.
That's a lot of praying IMO :)
Lucky that you get along. I don't think I would with my clone
aww why not?
We'd along as friends but I couldn't marry him because we would not complement each other.
=/ awww
I am not sure how it would turn out but I DO know that I would
have to have one hell of a make out session and maybe a little hibbidy dibbidy...
I am hot and would have to mack on me
but then I would probably instantly dump me based on my own Facebook status or not updating that I was now in a relationship with myself...
THIS LOL
I love the dumping part over a Facebook status ha ha
Lol :)
You shouldn't be anon!
Lol that's blackmail :o
Now that's so much better imao :)) thanks
Likewise :) and yw
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I don't know...yes and no :P
I mean I'm pretty insane in an entertaining way. But I'm also very sensitive and caring and most people abuse it. I'm very rarely angry to others, but I do have a temper when I want one.
I would get on with myself, but I think for a successful relationship I need a more placid partner than myself. So no, I wouldn't marry, but date, maybe.
I have met two- one is my best friend who I helped and he helped me a lot within days of meeting each other
And the other I'm dating- when we first met I actually thought maybe he had somehow done research on me because every opinion or thought he gave was so similar to my own
No, I couldn't marry a male me. We would be great friends because we're so similar but marriage wouldn't work. I want to be introduced to new things with my partner, and with a carbon copy of me, it wouldn't work. Plus we would procrastinate and not get anything done.
no I would not be able to marry myself because I don't want a women that share the same thing as me..i would get bored same food same everything sounds boring .but having someone kinda different means you will want to spend more time with them to learn them and thus making your life so much more complicated but making things better when you come out on top of your kingdom you two have created.lol
love your question it really made me think lol. erm their are aspects of me that I really like and I would appreicte it in a partner but their are other sides of me that I'm not too sure of. I'm currently under construction and when I perfect those flaws then I would definitely love to find sum1 just llike me lol. howver having said that I'm a sort person who loves to learn and grow so a litlle bit of difference would be nice. so I guess I'm conflicted lol
I actually ended up befriending my female equal half. We we're the best of friends and there were some similarities. I developed feelings for her and when I came out and admitted it? She and I are no longer friends. Which hurt, given she hasn't told me. But this half of the personality wonders about her from time to time. I asked about a friend this
Consequently I was told it was a bad thing because my female half wants someone who is different from her. This is because as stupid as it sounds we all want some type of difference in our lives. We want to be told we're wrong. So trend carefully because you may find yourself in my situation wondering "what did I do wrong?" only to find it was nothing.
For me I know I found mine. And we are so alike you would think we grew up together. From our favorite music to foods to general pass times, we are a good 98% perfectly matched couple. And I would marry her. We've been through a lot and as our weakness shows, the other learns more of how to help. As times get tough we make it through together. Talk everything out and we become stronger and closer. So me weaknesses are common although it would seem bad. Its actually not. We work on them together and to me it is a lot better then having someone with completely different weaknesses to the point where you can't relate or know what to do or say to help. So in some cases it may not be the same. But in mine I wouldn't change my other half for anyone else in the world.
no, due to circumstances I have become cold and very sarcastic and sometimes cruel too, expect to close friends and can actually chill out only on the web in some strange forums
my parents run a kindergarten school and all the kids are scared of me and my voice(very rough)
and my parents make me the boogie man does not really help to become friends with me(I actually like kids)
so no I want her to be kind to everyone and get along with children well I will be happy just seeing from far
I have thought about this myself, it's an interesting concept. I think I'm a pretty laid back agreeable person, yet I have tons of radical ideals so, I imagine I could get along quite well... however if it was just a female clone of me basically, that would be depressing, I wouldn't learn anything from her etc
Yes we would. Don't plan on getting married (so if he's like me, he wouldn't want to anyways). I know myself pretty well, I think.
U'd be telling each other to shut up all day :D <33
Lmao! your alright :)
I would get along with them, but definitely not marry them. I believe that partners are supposed to complement each other not be exactly the same.
Yes to some extent. I am wondering if we could even be close friends with our clone. Respect and rely on him.
Some seem to know me better than I know myself. But as for getting along, that can go either way. But up in the air if I'd want to marry someone just like me. One is quite enough.
I see little operations in the horizon :D
God forbid. Isn't just one enough? Kidding.
Nah we need a whole battalion :-D
Maybe. :D
Honestly I feel that it would be the only person in the world I was compatible with.
Man of exquisite taste :-P
I would turn gay and LOVE every inch of it.
I mean second of it...
:D
Oh wait, just read it can be a female version... LOL yeah I would marry that chick and go on crazy adventures and sh*t. Never a dull moment. :)
Wait. I change my mind. I think we'd be awesome as friends and sure there's no way me and my female counterpart wouldn't have sex like rabbits but we'd make an awful couple if I think about it.
Make up your mind already!
I just did! I would be best buddies with her, and also if we are both single, we would bang fast and furiously like rabbits! It seriously cannot fail. We'd go on trips, concerts, pubs, movies, listen to some tunes together. It would be literally the best codependance relationship on earth.
I mean friendship. -_-
I probably wouldn't get along with him, because another strong personality like mine would annoy me. I'm sure we would agree on a lot of stuff, but I would want to just be friends. (Not marry him)
Our sarcasm would probably create arguments as well.
I would probably hate him. And he would hate me. As far as marrying him we wouldn't get to that point because we would both have commitment problems and two people with commitment problems.. yeah you can see where that's going. Absolutely nowhere.
I have met the male version of myself and no I would never marry him, he is one of my very good friends boyfriend and even after a year I can hardly stand to be in the same room as him.
She would let me do things to her. so yeah I think so. ;-D
Oh? Lol
I see many arguments but I don't see why I can't get along with a female version of myself. I think that marriage could work, we just have to set rules for one another. I might know myself well enough?
as long as they didn't look exactly like me, it seems that you'd get on better if you're really similar
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