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It's not an obsession, it's a basic biological driver. Their lizard brain hails back to the time of the cave man days, where she chose best suitor to protect her and her offspring from saber tooth tiger and roaming tribesmen.
Don't whine about it, hit the gym HARD and develop some bulk, and make a shit-ton of dough. You'll gain the confidence you need through the effort, and you'll have all the pussy you can stand. I guarantee it.
Unless you're under 5-6 most women are at your height or shorter anyway. If 'stilts' isn't attracted to you then so fucking what.
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Do you mean girls in general? And obsessed? Then I say no. That's like asking of women are obsessed with 9" cocks. The answer is provably "not".
Girls are attracted to the male form. Sure they find a good build and stature attractive. But if all girls were "obsessed" with height, they I wouldn't see so many shorter guys with girlfriends and wives.
Consider the fact that the average height of an American woman is 5'4". Just about any guy is tall compared to them. And the average height of an American man is 5'9". There's no way that those guys aren't finding women.
No i would like a guy to be taller than me i am 5’1 so there are plenty but he doesn’t have to be soooo tall. Like just taller than myself. Yesterday i was walking i saw a guy with the literal perfect height i wish if i asked how tall he was. He wasn’t crazy tall but simply perfect.
Not as much as guys on gag are obsessed with their different sizes/if their legs are hairy/all women are bisexual.
Thank you for the summary 😂😂.
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yes, and soon as the nights grow long into November, they are not only obsessed... they turn into.
I think it depends on the girl though... and what she had for lunch...
Yup.
What about if your 5'2?
@poneglyphs
Okay. I'll add this in, as well. More data for you.
GOOD ODDS
6′1″/185 cm (ideal male height) = 74% chance (highest)
6′2″/188 cm = 68% chance
6′0″/183 cm = 65% chance
6′3″/190 cm = 62% chance
6′4″/193 cm = 56% chance
6′5″/196 cm = 51% chance
LOW ODDS
5′11″/180 cm = 45% chance
6′6″/197 cm = 45% chance
5′10″/177 cm = 39% chance
6′7″/200 cm = 38% chance
5′9″/175 cm = 37% chance
5′8″/173 cm = 33% chance
5′7″/170 cm = 28% chance
6′8″/203 cm = 25% chance
VERY LOW ODDS
5′6″/168 cm = 23% chance
5′5″/165 cm = 16% chance
6′9″+/206+ cm = 15% chance
5′4″/163 cm = 13% chance
5′3″/160 cm = 9% chance
damm for real So, should I just a virgin forever then?
@poneglyphs
No. Got to any Chinatown "massage parlor" after midnight with $200, get it out of your system, and then spend the rest of your life making it f*cking awesome without women in the equation. It's HARD for most of us men to hear, and even harder to accept, but you do not need a woman in your life to be happy. (I still struggle with that, sometimes.)
@Jay3344
That's 33% based SOLELY on your height. Like, before you ever open your mouth. If you're 5'8", 66% of women are *automatically* going to reject you, no matter how much of a diamond your personality is. Being rich is pretty much the ONLY cheat code to all of this.
And then women wonder why MGTOW is a thing and why so many men are drawn to it.
I feel like men focus on height way more than women do. It's not as big of a deal as a lot of men make it out to be. I personally go for vibes and energy. He could be 10ft tall, if we don't mesh then we just don't mesh.
Well I’m 6ft3
So you would date a 4’3 man?
@PrettyPriyaHanma I've dated men shorter than me.
But would you date a 4ft man if you mesh🙄
@Rachel420Hanma sir/ma'am... let it go
I rest my case
@Rachel420Hanma you're obsessed. Get help.
Noted🙄
being tall is the most significant predictor in a womans percieved attraction for a man. of course there's other ones. it's similar to women having big tits for men. that's not the only thing that attracts you. but it's the single biggest actor in attractiveness.
Most women don't care as long as the guy is a decent person.
Most, not all. I'm sorry you had bad experiences.
Statistically, 96% of straight women do not want a same height or shorter man. The ideal height Western women want a man to be is 6'0"/183 cm, minimum. Anything below that is not-good-but-tolerable (unless she's six feet or taller, herself). Any height that is equal to hers or below is a dealbreaker for the vast majority of all women. So it's actually closer to the very opposite of what you first said.
citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/.../download
Ah, thank you for the knowledge. That's sad to learn about.
@MCheetah I know of plenty of hot women who are dating men who are shorter than them.
@Stephen_77
Okay? And? Your anecdotal evidence doesn't change reality.
@MCheetah But it's not reality. For years I've seen with my own eyes attractive women with men the same height or even shorter, so clearly you are incorrect.
@MCheetah
I guess what Stephen is getting at, which I believe as well, is that on paper we'll (women in general) always say we want taller, etc; but in the real world it's not build a bear, we love who we love.
For example, as a teenager, I wanted to date a guy with green eyes; but I found myself in a loving relationship with a black man instead lol.
And if you're a listener of Kevin Samuel and other youtubers like him, you'll understand that that women with strict preferences are struggling because you can't control how tall, rich, etc your future husband is going to be. Once reality sets in, it all boils down to whether he's a decent hard working man, rather than all the bells and whistles.
I am 5.11ft ( 180cm ) I call myself average height, however I seen some guys who were around 195 or 2 meter and chicks dated them just because of their height. There are some women who are obsessed with height yeah, even if the guy is fat or skinny just because he is tall there are women who prefer this criteria.
However it doesn't mean u can't get women if you're not tall, I also seen many guys who were around 170-165m and they also had a lot of hot girls next to them lol
Never really mattered to me, actually. I'm 5'8" and I've dated guys as short as 5'4" and my boyfriend now is 6'6". It's kinda nice being able to look up to a guy, but it really doesn't matter that much to me.
I mean, I like tall girls because they can hug my short body and can cuddle really well (I like cuddles!). So I guess it's pretty understandable why they'd like tall guys to cause they can also cuddle as well.
Still, I know it sucks for many guys. But you gotta pull through bois, and we shall all meet at the end of the road!
No, they aren't obsessed with tall men. Proof? I'm tall and girls don't really care especially if they already have a boyfriend. It's just something that's pleasing for them, like boobs are pleasing to you. But are you a 12 yr old still obsessed with big boobs? Some guys are but most grow out of it
If they were "Obsessed" they'd be throwing themselves at me and begging for it. So no, I wouldn't say "obsessed". But I'm only 6'3. Some girls like that 6'6+ from what I've seen on many dating apps.
Tall guys remind me that I’m a short little midget. I hate/love them🤣 💕
But I’ll take connection over looks EVERY TIME
Obsessed is probably the wrong word. Do they consider height an attractive feature in a man? Almost all do, yes. In my observation of a lot of guys and girls it seems to me that three things that girls care a LOT about in guys that we don't really care too much about in girls are:
1) Height
2) Income / wealth / or income potential, and
3) Education level
If I were to add a fourth it would be popularity.
I'm not obsessed with them but I need to have a guy taller than me. It could be few inches, it could be a whole foot height difference but he's gotta be taller.
The guy I like is 5’5 and I’m 5’6
So it doesn’t matter much & he is the first guy I like who’s shorten then me. But he doesn’t give a fuck about me so..!
Tall guys are definitely a type, not for all. I prefer taller guys. I don't know, they just feel safe
Safe? not necessarily. Girls get off on the idea of a guy killing another guy for them. That could mean safety i guess
Oh cmon. Danger is fun, girls just want to be on the winning side of the fun
I feel like guys on here are more obsessed than any woman I've met.
What are women obsessed with
So you would be with a 4’10 man
@PrettyPriyaHanma I think you confuse what one prefers when dating with obsession.
Okay but answer the question
@PrettyPriyaHanma I'm 153 cm. 4'10 is about 147 cm. So far I'm not into guys shorter than me. I'm used to guys who are in 5th grade who can be taller than me.
I rest my case
@PrettyPriyaHanma So please tell me how me, not wanting to date someone who's 147 cm, makes me obsessed with height?
Do you not realize that’s what every girls says he didn’t say why YOU are obsessed with height he said why are WOMEN meaning all of you
You just proved mine and his point by saying your not into guys shorter than you
@PrettyPriyaHanma A preference is not equal to obsession.
I don't want to date a guy who's very obese or too thin either, does that make it an obsession?
It’s makes it a requirement that has to be met so yes it is seen as an obsession if a girl said I only date obese fat guys then clearly she is obsessed
@PrettyPriyaHanma Being into something or not, is not an obsession.
Obsession is:
obsess
/əbˈsɛs/
verb
past tense: obsessed; past participle: obsessed
preoccupy or fill the mind of (someone) continually and to a troubling extent.
"he was obsessed with the idea of revenge"
be constantly talking or worrying about something.
"her husband, who is obsessing about the wrong she has done him"
I didn’t come to talk about the definition of a word or how it was used in a sentence I came to prove that you like all women want a guy taller than you and you do case closed
@PrettyPriyaHanma Well the question was whether or not we're obsessed, so I do think that it's important how it's used and the definition of that word.
And again, I want to say, guys seem much more obsessed with height.
If the girl is willing to have sex with us most guys don’t care we’re no where near as picky as you women and men only worry about their height because you women care so much
@PrettyPriyaHanma Aha, sure, sure
This person loves to harass any girl who has a height preference. Also nice username he's got there
I reported you dude, you'll be gone soon
Not all of us, for me pretty face is more important i don't care about height
It's a phase for many. Most grow put of it. Taller than her is usually the defining criteria.
I don't really care about height but it shouldn't be below 5'4. He shouldn't be shorter than me is the only thing I care.
I'm 6'3'' and I haven't dated much. I have some "circumstances"but being tall isn't the oly thing that matters.
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