Are women obsessed with tall guys?

[Anonymous]

Yes they are

No they’re not

[Browneye57]

It's not an obsession, it's a basic biological driver. Their lizard brain hails back to the time of the cave man days, where she chose best suitor to protect her and her offspring from saber tooth tiger and roaming tribesmen.

Don't whine about it, hit the gym HARD and develop some bulk, and make a shit-ton of dough. You'll gain the confidence you need through the effort, and you'll have all the pussy you can stand. I guarantee it.

Unless you're under 5-6 most women are at your height or shorter anyway. If 'stilts' isn't attracted to you then so fucking what.

[MrPlentiful]

Based

[Lliam]

Do you mean girls in general? And obsessed? Then I say no. That's like asking of women are obsessed with 9" cocks. The answer is provably "not".

Girls are attracted to the male form. Sure they find a good build and stature attractive. But if all girls were "obsessed" with height, they I wouldn't see so many shorter guys with girlfriends and wives.
Consider the fact that the average height of an American woman is 5'4". Just about any guy is tall compared to them. And the average height of an American man is 5'9". There's no way that those guys aren't finding women.

[Anonymous]

No i would like a guy to be taller than me i am 5’1 so there are plenty but he doesn’t have to be soooo tall. Like just taller than myself. Yesterday i was walking i saw a guy with the literal perfect height i wish if i asked how tall he was. He wasn’t crazy tall but simply perfect.

[SnakeBoop]

Not as much as guys on gag are obsessed with their different sizes/if their legs are hairy/all women are bisexual.

[Lifelive96]

Thank you for the summary 😂😂.

[lightbulb27]

yes, and soon as the nights grow long into November, they are not only obsessed... they turn into.

I think it depends on the girl though... and what she had for lunch...

[MCheetah]

Yup.

Women want a man to *ideally* be at a bare minimum of 6'0"/183 cm, and will REFUSE any men same height or shorter than them.

[poneglyphs]

What about if your 5'2?

[MCheetah]

@poneglyphs
Okay. I'll add this in, as well. More data for you.

GOOD ODDS
6′1″/185 cm (ideal male height) = 74% chance (highest)

6′2″/188 cm = 68% chance

6′0″/183 cm = 65% chance

6′3″/190 cm = 62% chance

6′4″/193 cm = 56% chance

6′5″/196 cm = 51% chance

LOW ODDS
5′11″/180 cm = 45% chance

6′6″/197 cm = 45% chance

5′10″/177 cm = 39% chance

6′7″/200 cm = 38% chance

5′9″/175 cm = 37% chance

5′8″/173 cm = 33% chance

5′7″/170 cm = 28% chance

6′8″/203 cm = 25% chance

VERY LOW ODDS
5′6″/168 cm = 23% chance

5′5″/165 cm = 16% chance

6′9″+/206+ cm = 15% chance

5′4″/163 cm = 13% chance

5′3″/160 cm = 9% chance

[poneglyphs]

damm for real So, should I just a virgin forever then?

[MCheetah]

@poneglyphs
No. Got to any Chinatown "massage parlor" after midnight with $200, get it out of your system, and then spend the rest of your life making it f*cking awesome without women in the equation. It's HARD for most of us men to hear, and even harder to accept, but you do not need a woman in your life to be happy. (I still struggle with that, sometimes.)

[Jay3344]

33% success rate…ouch

[MCheetah]

@Jay3344
That's 33% based SOLELY on your height. Like, before you ever open your mouth. If you're 5'8", 66% of women are *automatically* going to reject you, no matter how much of a diamond your personality is. Being rich is pretty much the ONLY cheat code to all of this.

And then women wonder why MGTOW is a thing and why so many men are drawn to it.

[Jay3344]

Yea but 1/3, not the worst odds. Also it’s better than being stuck in a relationship with someone who only liked you because you were tall when you met.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

I feel like men focus on height way more than women do. It's not as big of a deal as a lot of men make it out to be. I personally go for vibes and energy. He could be 10ft tall, if we don't mesh then we just don't mesh.

[Asker]

Well I’m 6ft3

[PrettyPriyaHanma]

So you would date a 4’3 man?

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

@PrettyPriyaHanma I've dated men shorter than me.

[Rachel420Hanma]

But would you date a 4ft man if you mesh🙄

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

@Rachel420Hanma sir/ma'am... let it go

[Rachel420Hanma]

I rest my case

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

@Rachel420Hanma you're obsessed. Get help.

[Rachel420Hanma]

Noted🙄

[genericname85]

being tall is the most significant predictor in a womans percieved attraction for a man. of course there's other ones. it's similar to women having big tits for men. that's not the only thing that attracts you. but it's the single biggest actor in attractiveness.

[WowwGirl]

This⏫

[SkyCastle90]

Most women don't care as long as the guy is a decent person.

[MCheetah]

Objectively false.

[SkyCastle90]

Most, not all. I'm sorry you had bad experiences.

[MCheetah]

Statistically, 96% of straight women do not want a same height or shorter man. The ideal height Western women want a man to be is 6'0"/183 cm, minimum. Anything below that is not-good-but-tolerable (unless she's six feet or taller, herself). Any height that is equal to hers or below is a dealbreaker for the vast majority of all women. So it's actually closer to the very opposite of what you first said.
citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/.../download

[SkyCastle90]

Ah, thank you for the knowledge. That's sad to learn about.

[Stephen_77]

@MCheetah I know of plenty of hot women who are dating men who are shorter than them.

[MCheetah]

@Stephen_77
Okay? And? Your anecdotal evidence doesn't change reality.

[Stephen_77]

@MCheetah But it's not reality. For years I've seen with my own eyes attractive women with men the same height or even shorter, so clearly you are incorrect.

[SkyCastle90]

@MCheetah
I guess what Stephen is getting at, which I believe as well, is that on paper we'll (women in general) always say we want taller, etc; but in the real world it's not build a bear, we love who we love.

For example, as a teenager, I wanted to date a guy with green eyes; but I found myself in a loving relationship with a black man instead lol.

And if you're a listener of Kevin Samuel and other youtubers like him, you'll understand that that women with strict preferences are struggling because you can't control how tall, rich, etc your future husband is going to be. Once reality sets in, it all boils down to whether he's a decent hard working man, rather than all the bells and whistles.

[_Troian_]

I am 5.11ft ( 180cm ) I call myself average height, however I seen some guys who were around 195 or 2 meter and chicks dated them just because of their height. There are some women who are obsessed with height yeah, even if the guy is fat or skinny just because he is tall there are women who prefer this criteria.

However it doesn't mean u can't get women if you're not tall, I also seen many guys who were around 170-165m and they also had a lot of hot girls next to them lol

[susie22]

Never really mattered to me, actually. I'm 5'8" and I've dated guys as short as 5'4" and my boyfriend now is 6'6". It's kinda nice being able to look up to a guy, but it really doesn't matter that much to me.

[Jayplays900]

I mean, I like tall girls because they can hug my short body and can cuddle really well (I like cuddles!). So I guess it's pretty understandable why they'd like tall guys to cause they can also cuddle as well.

Still, I know it sucks for many guys. But you gotta pull through bois, and we shall all meet at the end of the road!

[Anonymous]

No, they aren't obsessed with tall men. Proof? I'm tall and girls don't really care especially if they already have a boyfriend. It's just something that's pleasing for them, like boobs are pleasing to you. But are you a 12 yr old still obsessed with big boobs? Some guys are but most grow out of it

[t-8900]

If they were "Obsessed" they'd be throwing themselves at me and begging for it. So no, I wouldn't say "obsessed". But I'm only 6'3. Some girls like that 6'6+ from what I've seen on many dating apps.

[Assi2k]

Tall guys remind me that I’m a short little midget. I hate/love them🤣 💕


But I’ll take connection over looks EVERY TIME

[Anonymous]

Obsessed is probably the wrong word. Do they consider height an attractive feature in a man? Almost all do, yes. In my observation of a lot of guys and girls it seems to me that three things that girls care a LOT about in guys that we don't really care too much about in girls are:

1) Height
2) Income / wealth / or income potential, and
3) Education level

If I were to add a fourth it would be popularity.

[Jemini_Crocket]

I'm not obsessed with them but I need to have a guy taller than me. It could be few inches, it could be a whole foot height difference but he's gotta be taller.

[Anonymous]

The guy I like is 5’5 and I’m 5’6
So it doesn’t matter much & he is the first guy I like who’s shorten then me. But he doesn’t give a fuck about me so..!

[Cythera]

Tall guys are definitely a type, not for all. I prefer taller guys. I don't know, they just feel safe

[MrPlentiful]

Safe? not necessarily. Girls get off on the idea of a guy killing another guy for them. That could mean safety i guess

[Cythera]

@MrPlentiful yes, tall guys make me feel safe. Lmao

[MrPlentiful]

Oh cmon. Danger is fun, girls just want to be on the winning side of the fun

[Little_Bumblebee]

I feel like guys on here are more obsessed than any woman I've met.

[Asker]

What are women obsessed with

[PrettyPriyaHanma]

So you would be with a 4’10 man

[Little_Bumblebee]

@PrettyPriyaHanma I think you confuse what one prefers when dating with obsession.

[PrettyPriyaHanma]

Okay but answer the question

[Little_Bumblebee]

@PrettyPriyaHanma I'm 153 cm. 4'10 is about 147 cm. So far I'm not into guys shorter than me. I'm used to guys who are in 5th grade who can be taller than me.

[PrettyPriyaHanma]

I rest my case

[Little_Bumblebee]

@PrettyPriyaHanma So please tell me how me, not wanting to date someone who's 147 cm, makes me obsessed with height?

[PrettyPriyaHanma]

Do you not realize that’s what every girls says he didn’t say why YOU are obsessed with height he said why are WOMEN meaning all of you

[PrettyPriyaHanma]

You just proved mine and his point by saying your not into guys shorter than you

[Little_Bumblebee]

@PrettyPriyaHanma A preference is not equal to obsession.
I don't want to date a guy who's very obese or too thin either, does that make it an obsession?

[PrettyPriyaHanma]

It’s makes it a requirement that has to be met so yes it is seen as an obsession if a girl said I only date obese fat guys then clearly she is obsessed

[Little_Bumblebee]

@PrettyPriyaHanma Being into something or not, is not an obsession.
Obsession is:

obsess
/əbˈsɛs/
verb
past tense: obsessed; past participle: obsessed
preoccupy or fill the mind of (someone) continually and to a troubling extent.
"he was obsessed with the idea of revenge"

be constantly talking or worrying about something.
"her husband, who is obsessing about the wrong she has done him"

[PrettyPriyaHanma]

I didn’t come to talk about the definition of a word or how it was used in a sentence I came to prove that you like all women want a guy taller than you and you do case closed

[Little_Bumblebee]

@PrettyPriyaHanma Well the question was whether or not we're obsessed, so I do think that it's important how it's used and the definition of that word.
And again, I want to say, guys seem much more obsessed with height.

[PrettyPriyaHanma]

If the girl is willing to have sex with us most guys don’t care we’re no where near as picky as you women and men only worry about their height because you women care so much

[Little_Bumblebee]

@PrettyPriyaHanma Aha, sure, sure

[Still-alive]

This person loves to harass any girl who has a height preference. Also nice username he's got there

[Still-alive]

I reported you dude, you'll be gone soon

[Cherry234]

Some are but a lot aren't. I just want a guy that's taller than me and I'm 5'5

[Anonymous]

Guys are obsessed with tall guys... its almost like how girls are obsessed with the perfect feminine hips. Its so weird. It must have something to do with dominance and reverence. I know if I see a guy significantly taller than me that I first assume 1. he's really mysterious because thats rare as fuck, 2. that he has rare parents because he's rare, and 3. that he is someone with a purpose. I have no idea why I can't help but assume these things, but I do. And all it takes is seeing him.

[tee_64]

Not all of us, for me pretty face is more important i don't care about height

[Xoxocutekitty]

It's a phase for many. Most grow put of it. Taller than her is usually the defining criteria.

[Apulu_3]

I don't really care about height but it shouldn't be below 5'4. He shouldn't be shorter than me is the only thing I care.

[Lynx122]

I'm 6'3'' and I haven't dated much. I have some "circumstances"but being tall isn't the oly thing that matters.

[Pumpkinspice009]

Yea I am, tall men can drive you crazy if you think about them being dominant around you, being tall makes them look more powerful and in control of things which is a turn on.

[Babygirl_S]

I certainly am. I need to feel protected and I know I am less shallow than someone who has, for instance, a racial preference. Guys all over the world can be tall.

[anylolone]

Why is it less shallow because "guys all over the world"? Wouldn't less shallow mean "less restrictive"?

[Babygirl_S]

I am free to prefer a tall guy just like you have a preference for x type of girl.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Not at all. That is just something most men tend to believe.

[Asker]

Are they obsessed with big penises?

[PrettyPriyaHanma]

Because it’s true that’s one of those things for some unknown reason women won’t admit it you would not date a 3 foot tall man so stop lying

[Girlgirlgirllllll]

@PrettyPriyaHanma 4ft? 3ft? I think you’re exaggerating it. Most men are not that short. Even the same can be said for most women. And to say males are generally taller than females. Stop trying to impose your views onto others.

[Crepe_tart]

Since I'm taller than most people in my town... yes... I am

[MCheetah]

@Crepe_tart
Most "people"? How tall are you? And what country do you like in for that to be the case?

[Diodoro]

Obsessed no. Attracted to yes.

Attraction is not a choice.

End of story

[Rachelspiks]

I can't speak for anyone else, but I'm not. How tall is "tall" anyway? Isn't it all relative?

[MCheetah]

@Rachelspiks
I hate to butt in here, but we've had conversations before, where you outright implied I was nothing whatsoever due to my height. I asked you several times if I was tall or not, and you avoid answering the question, implying no, so I had no value. So honestly, this response comes off pretty disingenuous to me. Though I can see how you're not "obsessed" with height, it clearly matters to you in your ideal partner or who you'll meet after her.

[Rachelspiks]

@MCheetah You liar! I did NOTHING of the kind. In fact, I tried to convince you that you were over-reacting. You're 181 cm tall, which is NOT short.
This is absolutely unbelievable. I do NOT CARE about height. Got it?

[MCheetah]

You know the A-word that you called me. And it was far more insulting than "Asshole."
But fine; I'll just pretend it never happened.

[Rachelspiks]

@MCheetah What "A-word"? I don't even know what that means. Present your evidence, right here and NOW!
If you think I did all of those things, then PROVE IT! Go on. I dare you to.

[Rachelspiks]

181 cm is the average height for men in the West. In other words, it's NOT short. Oh, I see. The "A-word" is average. Oh gee, what an insult! You must be devastated.

[MCheetah]

There you go, calling me dogshit and worthless again, like I'm some insignificant nobody not worthy to exist. But okay; I'm just going to ignore these words, because they're just that: words. Either way, you're not correct. I'd rather die than be considered fucking worthless and disposable like you keep implying I am.

[Rachelspiks]

@MCheetah You really can't read. Within those messages I clearly say that people who are average are NOT "useless"! YOU were the one saying they were!

[elizabeth000]

Maybe not obsessed, I wouldn't want someone super tall, Just taller than me.

[Starwitch23]

No, I don't want a tall guy. I'm 5'2. I'll look like a midget in front of him.

[Anonymous]

I think the taller ones are. I think it's one of the reasons I prefer shorter women I'm 6'5" and everytime a tall woman shows interest in me it's just usually because I'm tall. Now I know how women with be breasts feel.

[Grubhub]

Yes, I’m 6”5 and all the latinas and white girls love my dark behind. Not a lot of black women on the job by the way. Short dudes seem very bitter of me at work

[exitseven]

I don't think so. They probably do not want somebody too tall for them.

[Anonymous]

He's gotta be good looking and reasonably intelligent as well.
Just being tall doesn't mean much.

[Jay3344]

Exactly

[Jay3344]

For sure, doesn’t mean they don’t like regular guys but a lot of women go for tall

[Anonymous]

considering most women see a man who is under 6 feet tall as basically a virus who should commit suicide, i would say yes.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I wouldn’t say obsessed…. Just perhaps a common preference

[domogirl]

I don’t want to say I’m obsessed with y’all guys but I have only dated tall guys.

[Balice]

No height doesn’t matter, and this is coming from a tall guy.

[Asianguy123]

They like white guys with big blue eyes and black hair

[Benjamin_Fred]

Not all ladies love tall guys that's my opinion... benjaminfred689@gmail. com at your service

[Anonymous]

Y'all guys are just good looking. Same way men like hourglass figure

[Opinion Owner]

Tall I wanted to say

[shaysh87]

why are men so obsessed with hot girls?

[ChiTown33]

What do you mean? It's her personality that we're drawn to.

[shaysh87]

@ChiTown33

yeaaa... you're gonna hit on a girl on the street cuz you're attracted to her personality. NOT

[ChiTown33]

Yeah. We like her swagger how she carries herself. Maybe you just need to work on your confidence.

[shaysh87]

@ChiTown33

yea... just take a look at how many men shit on women over 30 on here

[siegetiming]

generalizing is in now. all guys are brainless horny dumb asses. YAY

[anylolone]

Just look how women over 30 don't have problem getting laid.

[MCheetah]

@shaysh87
We're not. That's just bullsh*t insecure women like to blame us for. Same thing with the "no men like women with curves" nonsense.

[shaysh87]

@MCheetah

im pretty sure its not women just being insecure. I've been seeing a lot of shitting on older women on here.

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

anyone can get laid. even an obese woman.

[anylolone]

You mean "any woman".
And yes, any woman can get laid, of course, there's whole societal coercion to allow undeserving women the right to sex and breeding, but that's exactly my point.

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

yea... all the men sleeping around with obese and ugly women. this is why we have so many single moms.

[ChiTown33]

You have so many single mom's because women choose very badly. And don't learn very quickly your stubbornness is your downfall. You're usually 1 or 2 kids in before you accept you made a bad choice.
As for older women getting trashed on here there might be some of that. But generally listen to what rhem women are saying. This is another problem with women. "selective hearing" you listen to the guy putting her down but ignore what the jaded harpies said to elicit the response. And I'll fully admit some of us guys do judge women harshly. But certainly no more then women judge us before 40. Why? Because you can. Turnabout is fair play. Don't like it? Don't get old. I didn't make the rules.

[anylolone]

First, congratulations on making my point.
Besides, all the men? It's all the same small number of men, a disproportional number of those men with a huge criminal record, another huge number of the same guys who don't even know they are fathers (the sort of guys who swear to me that the pull out method really works), and a bunch of other men estranged from their kids paying child support to an army of baby mommas, each of whom has the same 4 baby daddies.

lol!

[shaysh87]

@ChiTown33

you can judge older women. But i can tell you for sure that young women typically don't want a much older man either. Unless you're still extremely hot at 45, I can guarantee you that you won't be attracting women like you used to when you were a young man.

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

women are clearly the better gender. men don't love their children. only moms love their kids.

[shaysh87]

@ChiTown33

I don't think immature people realize that your options tend to run out as you enter your late 30s- 40s. At some point in life, your dating pool will shrink drastically. All your peers are married, or single parents too busy raising kids to find time to date, too much baggage, less attractive, less time to date, people growing less social as they get older.

At some point in life, your options will run out and you will have to settle. In your 20s, everyone is single, attractive, and have plenty of options. This won't be the case by the time you hit your late 30s to 40s.

[ChiTown33]

@shaysh87 do you realize how foolish you sound? Men don't care about their children? I have a friend who's raised a son that wasn't even his. He started dating a pregnant woman that at about the age her child was able to walk decided she was done with motherhood.
You knowbif you truly believe women are so much better than men then why spit venom on here. Find yourself a nice woman and settle down with her.

[shaysh87]

@ChiTown33

what I'm saying is. you can shit on older women all you want. But by the time you are 40 years old, you run out of options. You'd be lucky if you could get a 33 yr old woman. Sure, you can continue dreaming about bagging the young hot sexy 21 yr old. But chances are you're not gonna be able to score someone hot and young like that. 21 yr olds do not tend to be looking for marriage and kids either.

All I'm saying is, at some point in your life, you will have to settle.

[anylolone]

First, thanks for proving my point again, you red herring won't work here.

Also, are you sure mom's are the better parents? If they love their children why are they record holders in child abuse?
And estranging the kid from the other parent?
And no fault divorce?

Why do single dads have so much better track record than single moms as well?

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

a mother choosing to raise her own children is better than a deadbeat dad who abandons his own children. you have no idea how common it is for fathers to abandon their kids.

[MCheetah]

@shaysh87
They've been sh*tting on older women who spent their whole twenties treating men as disposable and then hitting their mid 30s and finally wanting to settle down, only to discover no one wants them anymore. It's NOT just "older women." It's women with sh*t personalities who think the whole world revolves around them and that they can treat men as a cheap commodity when they want to, and then think anyone wants them after their youth and beauty has dried up (as if they actually have any good personality traits to redeem, in spite of that).

So you're wrong. No one gives a good, caring, kind woman grief, regardless of her age. But a good, caring, kind woman also will likely find an equally good, caring, kind man, as well. Unlike short men, who can be a 10/10 in all else, but had to be Tom Cruise in order to "compensate" for something he had zero control in, like his height.

And @ChiTown33 is 100% right. So many women are stubborn and think anyone pointing out how wrong they are, is "misogyny" or some bullsh*t. This is usually why women make far worse choices than men; they often are allowed to get away with it or avoid consequences for their own actions and choices. Like said old women who treated their 20s like whores, then want to act like they're "quality women" once they hit 37. Just look at Charlize Theron whining in magazines about no men "stepping up" to her, despite being rich and beautiful (on the outside, only). These women never ONCE ever think "maybe it's me; maybe I'm the problem."

[anylolone]

One, you proved you were full of bullshit, old women can easily get laid, point proven.

Two, no, the mother who estranges the father from his kid is just as bad as a father who knowingly doesn't even pay child support. Mind you that the latter one is a crime.

Three, I know, it's way less common than mothers who estrange the fathers from their kids.

[shaysh87]

@MCheetah

so what if you meet a wonderful 33 yr old woman with a nice, caring, kind personality who wants to settle down? you wouldn't want her anyways.
you would say "I don't date any woman over 30".

The next day you get rejected by a hot 21 yr old, then you come onto GAG and cry "why do women have such high standards?" then you start bashing all women on here.

Is it you that have high standards or women who have high standards?

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

mothers usually do not estrange father away from the kids. its usually the fathers who choose to leave or not see the kid.

[MCheetah]

@shaysh87
Don't tell me what I would want or try to put words in my mouth. And I have stated several times on this site what my criteria in a woman is. You're new, so you probably never saw those.

It sounds like you're projecting your crap onto me because I've been rejected by women of all different ages. But usually it's due to my height (or lack thereof) more than anything else.

[anylolone]

First, let's focus on what you are ignoring with your red herring.
You admit that 30yo women can easily get laid. They aren't as hated as short guys by your own standards.

Secondly, actually they do estrange fathers from their kids more often, just the sheer number of fathers that don't even know they are fathers is a great show of such. Something you said is all OK.

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

Nationally, more than 70% of single mothers do not receive any child support at all from fathers, according to the Annie E. Casey Foundation.

https:/
/www. npr. org/local/305/2020/02/25/809281540/after-the-break-up-moving-forward-as-a-single-parent-when-child-support-goes-unpaid

[anylolone]

First, how many of those are of "father unknown", two, how many of those have fathers who are in prison or are ex convicts, and how many of those fathers were violent criminals?

"The most recent Census Bureau data shows that only 43.5% of custodial parents received full payment of child support due in 2015. And last year in the District, 32% of custodial parents received partial or no child support payments." Have you tried reading your own article?

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

thats right. why do so few of single mothers get child support payments?

[anylolone]

First, thank you for proving my point.

2. Have you tried looking into it like someone actually trying to solve the problem, doing a detailed analysis of the situation?
As one example, how many of those "fathers" were even declared by the woman and how many of those even know they are fathers?

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

[As one example, how many of those "fathers" were even declared by the woman and how many of those even know they are fathers?]

this proves my point that men don't love their kids. how can you say that you love your kids if you dont pay child support or you have kids that you don't know about? does that sound like a man who cares?

In regard to these statistics, those women who were ENTITLED to child support payments (father is known) are either not getting child support payments at all or are not getting the full amount they need.

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

the government knows if a man is supposed to be paying child support. and if you do not pay, the government records it down.

[anylolone]

Not really, you only know if you are a father if you are told.

I know personally quite a few of those women who just never informed the father or the authorities.
And then there's "who's the father" if you select for men who suffer from "anti-social personality disorder" or who aren't fatherly, or who are so irresponsible that they have fathered to many kids to be able to care for all of them, then you get exactly what you selected for.

That's true for men and women, I also know a shit ton of guys who fathered kids with both dead beat moms and with women who tried or succeeded in denying them their parental rights, I also tell them "you get what you select for".

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

the only way the government has a statistic of single mothers not receiving their child support payments is only if there is proof that you are the father and the government is expecting you, the father, to pay your baby mama.

The government won't be expecting anything from you , if there was absolutely no proof that you are the father.

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

because the reality is, the government knows if you need to pay child support. And if you don't end up paying, the government has record of it.

[anylolone]

That's not how it works, the system right now is that the mother names you and you are responsible for proving you are not the father when it comes to being legally liable to child support.
But when it comes to the research, they only collect the data of single mothers and total number single mothers who receive child support from named fathers.

That's their usual methodology, which is why you aren't given a single answer to the hard questions, ever.

[shaysh87]

@anylolone
paternity tests are needed prove that you are the father. the mother can't just accuse you of being baby daddy without proof. and if you are the baby daddy, the government WILL know that you are expected to pay child support. And when you do not pay, the GOVERNMENT KNOWS. And if you do pay, the government KNOWS HOW MUCH YOU PAID.

[anylolone]

Actually mothers can just accuse you of being a father.
You only option against paternity fraud is counter suing and asking for a DNA test, and guess what, the mother isn't automatically required to comply with it either, as the sole legal custodian guardian of the kid.

If it was like you said, the whole of the millennial generation would all be DNA tested, at least sure of who's not their daddy.

And guess what, your ilk fights tooth and nail against mandatory paternity testing.

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

people will assume you are the baby daddy if you agree that you are the father. If the mother accuse you of being the baby daddy but you deny it, then you will be given a paternity test regardless. But you would have to be a very shitty person to be father a child yet deny that you are father.

but I think the sheer number of single parents that are women, show that mothers tend to be better parents than fathers.

[anylolone]

That's not how it works.

Government assumes the man that a woman gives the name as the biological father is the father.
If you deny, you aren't "given" a paternity test regardless, either parent has to ask for it during the process and who ever asks has to pay for it, which is usually the father.
Rarely, if ever, the government just shoulders the cost for the test.

I also want you to understand something, no man knows he's the father until there's a DNA test.
And no woman comes with "I slept with several dudes but I know which one is the father" instinct.

You have to be a very shitty woman to categorically affirm one dude is the father when you slept with multiple dudes at the period. And I've seen very few women in that situation do it.
And I've seen a lot of women pick a guy who couldn't even be the father.

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

[Government assumes the man that a woman gives the name as the biological father is the father.]

the government will never assume anything unless the baby daddy AGREES with it. why would the government ask for a paternity test if the baby daddy agrees he's the baby daddy?

and yes, if the baby daddy does not pay child support, the government knows.

so don't play the game of "these statistics are fake because most of these baby mamas just randomly accuse men of being baby daddies".

These statistics are baby daddies who agree they are the fathers YET do not end up paying child support or fail to pay the full amount of child support expected by the government.

The government sets the amount of how much you need to pay.

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

[You have to be a very shitty woman to categorically affirm one dude is the father when you slept with multiple dudes at the period. And I've seen very few women in that situation do it.]

if you weren't being a man whore and sleeping around, you wouldn't be fathering babies that you aren't even sure if they are yours.

[shaysh87]

@anylolone

YOU: sleeps around with 10 different women, one of them suddenly gets pregnant and doesn't know who the father is. You didn't use a condom. You slept with someone who was not your girlfriend or wife.

HER: takes paternity test, finds out the baby daddy is you.

YOU: "Its all her fault! she should have never slept around in the first place! I'm not the father. I don't have to pay child support. Thats not my child. The record that you have on me is completely fake!"

[anylolone]

Wrong, government should not make baseless assumptions, but in this case it does.
It does because for the longest time it did have to, it was a case of "his word against her".
Nowdays it isn't, guess who's against mandatory DNA testing?

If a guy is a slut and fucks 10 women and one get's pregnant he still doesn't know he's the father.

Your logic could easily be used for cases of babies being exchanged in the nursery.
By your logic, the woman loses her right to her biological babies and not to be burdened by someone else's babies against her consent.
She also loses the right to abortion and to give her child away.

Let me explain how men don't get a right to a DNA test. If the mother decides to give the child away, he has no right to get the guard in the rare occurrence that he knows that she had a kid and it's likely his.

The woman rarely asks for a paternity test, after all, the policy is to side with her.
And now to the fun part, a third of all those tests come back with "you are not the father", and guess what, even in those occasions, if the father took care of the child, he's still required to pay child support.

[FictionalCharacter]

I just want a a guy to protect me and cuddle me.

[Pandupillu]

As long as he is taller than me, I am fine

[Avicenna]

I wouldn't say obsessed

[WowwGirl]

Lmao

[dustybiker]

No. Some of us just like them, a lot.

[corny_cooter581]

I don't really care. I like both

[fonduegirl]

If they are Rowoon, Yes

[Girlgirlgirllllll]

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[fonduegirl]

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[Girlgirlgirllllll]

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[fonduegirl]

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[WowwGirl]

No it's built into us to seek them for mating

[Msnxhxj]

I’m the asker but lost my account. I’m 6ft3 and can tell you girls that girls aren’t too bothered. It just makes me stand out a lot to them which is great. I tend to see women only dating guys a tad taller than them which is weird

[WowwGirl]

@Msnxhxj few options man. Im 5'9 and have struggled

[Msnxhxj]

I would love to date a tall girl like 5’9/5’11 for some reason I just feel more shy around them!

[Msnxhxj]

Even though I’m a big guy

[WowwGirl]

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[Msnxhxj]

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[Msnxhxj]

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[WowwGirl]

@Msnxhxj I don't understand

[Msnxhxj]

Tall girls are sexy asf. But like I get a bit too nervous before approaching one. Are taller girls like 5’10 more likely to be single?

[crazy8000]

Many are until they mature in that area.

[Twalli]

I wouldn't say obsessed, but they prefer them.

[Shy_Steve]

I'm tall, So I'm not sure.

[Anonymous]

They're more aroused in the presence of tall men.

[sensible27]

Define obsessed?

[JosyJosy]

Nope

[siseñor]

i don't care

[disgustingweebtrash]

Yes they are

[Iron_Man]

I think so

[Slim57]

Obviously