Guys, Do you love 💕😘 the girl or only her body?

[Tania16]

[Lliam]

Not even.
While I love women's bodies, I also like everything about women - their voices, the way they move, and their ways of being. While I wouldn't be with a woman I wasn't physically attracted to, I also wouldn't be with a woman whose personality I didn't like.

Aside from looks and a strong libido, I like a woman who is bright, witty, intelligent, open minded, curious, adventurous, perceptive, intuitive, sweet, kind, nurturing, empathetic, ethical, passionate, fun, feminine, dignified, hard working, has self esteem and won't put up with being disrespected or bossed.

She can take care of herself and is with me because she looks up to me. I make her feel safe, secure, loved and cherished. She loves masculinity, being treated like a lady by a gentleman, and having a best friend and help mate that she can trust and depend on.

I don't want a Stepford Wife or an empty headed, submissive, fuck puppet. .

[Miristheiss]

Well, if it is only for the body... it can't be love. It is just lust. It is very possible and doable for a guy to lust after a girl's body, a girl he does not love... he may not even like her... he can just want the body. It is part of how visual a guy is. How much pleasure he can get just from seeing a woman's body and form nude.

Love? No, for him to love her... he may really want that bod but he'd have to care for her and who she is and her welfare and happiness would have to be important to him. It has to for it to really be love.

[SteveSmith1985]

You can't love somebody just for their body. There are A LOT of things a dude can do with (and to) a girl with a beautiful body... but you can't love it. See you're body is an "it". The "girl" is the only part that can possibly be loved.

Any guy who'll tell you different, has never loved, and is doesn't understand what love means.

[OlderAndWiser]

If I love the girl, I love the girl and not just the girl's body.

[Dragonpurple]

At your age a lot of guys probably just love your body.

At my age, bodies get old and not so good... if someone marries someone for their body they'll be very disappointed from nature and aging.

I will say in high school there were a lot of other guys who dated girls just for their bodies, if they got some they moved on to their next target. I never had a girlfriend myself until after I graduated.

[TheorionMage]

You DESIRE that body... THAT'S human inherited atavism;
what feeling remains AFTER spirited copulation, lets you build & explore 'personality' toward 'Love'.

You don't get "to ride her pony" without FIRST engaging and intriguing THAT 'filly's Equestrian~

[Shayedd]

I love ponies!!!

[MCheetah]

Both. The body is the appetizer and the girl's personality (assuming it's any good) is the main course. As T-8900 said, "like the body, love the lady."

[DamnSam]

Love are for me more than just one aspect... it's more like the whole picture needs to be fitting

She can be a pure 10 on my sexy scale, but if she is lower than a 6 on my brain scale there is no chance that this will work our as love

Plus, often I notice that the little things are more important than usual big stuff

And high probability that a high percentage of what he/she like about you are unique things nobody arround has in common

[jasco]

Depends am I only their for sex or do I want more? Yea if it’s just sex why I would I want anything but sex. If I want a relationship than I am gonna put more effort into trying to make her as happy as possible than sex hopefully as award for making her so happy

[Tj87479]

Here’s a great example. There’s a girl I work with. She’s really pretty and always super tight jeans that show off her incredible ass. So I’m like wow. But I’ve been getting to know her a little and she’s funny and has a great personality. So now I’m really attracted to her. So to answer your question I feel like i would be attracted to the body then fall in love with the girl.

[t-8900]

Like the body, LOVE the girl. Good looks are an easy in but they dont hold anything together long term. I've been with some pretty girls who lost me after like 2 weeks of talking because they lacked the heart for something wonderful

[nawtee_me]

If you date/marry for looks then I guess it is for the body. However what happens when that beautiful body changes with age? I guess it would be time for a divorce? Give me the girl and 50 years of marriage with her and I will love her body because it is a part of her...