Guys, Do you love 💕😘 the girl or only her body?

[Tania16]

[Lliam]

Not even.
While I love women's bodies, I also like everything about women - their voices, the way they move, and their ways of being. While I wouldn't be with a woman I wasn't physically attracted to, I also wouldn't be with a woman whose personality I didn't like.

Aside from looks and a strong libido, I like a woman who is bright, witty, intelligent, open minded, curious, adventurous, perceptive, intuitive, sweet, kind, nurturing, empathetic, ethical, passionate, fun, feminine, dignified, hard working, has self esteem and won't put up with being disrespected or bossed.

She can take care of herself and is with me because she looks up to me. I make her feel safe, secure, loved and cherished. She loves masculinity, being treated like a lady by a gentleman, and having a best friend and help mate that she can trust and depend on.

I don't want a Stepford Wife or an empty headed, submissive, fuck puppet. .

[Miristheiss]

Well, if it is only for the body... it can't be love. It is just lust. It is very possible and doable for a guy to lust after a girl's body, a girl he does not love... he may not even like her... he can just want the body. It is part of how visual a guy is. How much pleasure he can get just from seeing a woman's body and form nude.

Love? No, for him to love her... he may really want that bod but he'd have to care for her and who she is and her welfare and happiness would have to be important to him. It has to for it to really be love.

[SteveSmith1985]

You can't love somebody just for their body. There are A LOT of things a dude can do with (and to) a girl with a beautiful body... but you can't love it. See you're body is an "it". The "girl" is the only part that can possibly be loved.

Any guy who'll tell you different, has never loved, and is doesn't understand what love means.

[OlderAndWiser]

If I love the girl, I love the girl and not just the girl's body.

[Dragonpurple]

At your age a lot of guys probably just love your body.

At my age, bodies get old and not so good... if someone marries someone for their body they'll be very disappointed from nature and aging.

I will say in high school there were a lot of other guys who dated girls just for their bodies, if they got some they moved on to their next target. I never had a girlfriend myself until after I graduated.

[TheorionMage]

You DESIRE that body... THAT'S human inherited atavism;
what feeling remains AFTER spirited copulation, lets you build & explore 'personality' toward 'Love'.

You don't get "to ride her pony" without FIRST engaging and intriguing THAT 'filly's Equestrian~

[Shayedd]

I love ponies!!!

[MCheetah]

Both. The body is the appetizer and the girl's personality (assuming it's any good) is the main course. As T-8900 said, "like the body, love the lady."

[DamnSam]

Love are for me more than just one aspect... it's more like the whole picture needs to be fitting

She can be a pure 10 on my sexy scale, but if she is lower than a 6 on my brain scale there is no chance that this will work our as love

Plus, often I notice that the little things are more important than usual big stuff

And high probability that a high percentage of what he/she like about you are unique things nobody arround has in common

[jasco]

Depends am I only their for sex or do I want more? Yea if it’s just sex why I would I want anything but sex. If I want a relationship than I am gonna put more effort into trying to make her as happy as possible than sex hopefully as award for making her so happy

[Tj87479]

Here’s a great example. There’s a girl I work with. She’s really pretty and always super tight jeans that show off her incredible ass. So I’m like wow. But I’ve been getting to know her a little and she’s funny and has a great personality. So now I’m really attracted to her. So to answer your question I feel like i would be attracted to the body then fall in love with the girl.

[t-8900]

Like the body, LOVE the girl. Good looks are an easy in but they dont hold anything together long term. I've been with some pretty girls who lost me after like 2 weeks of talking because they lacked the heart for something wonderful

[nawtee_me]

If you date/marry for looks then I guess it is for the body. However what happens when that beautiful body changes with age? I guess it would be time for a divorce? Give me the girl and 50 years of marriage with her and I will love her body because it is a part of her...

[Shy_Steve]

We do like the body a lot odviously but we want to know the Girl in the end that is the ultimate prize so we can only love the Girl once we get to know her but most of us Guys never really get a chance to know the Girl we like because most Girls usually ignore us especially if we aren't that confident.

[Sidfawy]

If i admire her as way she thinking, funny, smiling or even she need love and she found it with me and her opinion in a conversation i will like her body what ever the shape is, some guys like woman body first not the girl herself and this relationship never continue
Wish you luck to find some one like you as you are. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[jmwvidz]

Many people may agree or may disagree with me but I love personality. It's all good saying "well she's fit l" but saying that if you was together and she had a dead personality your gonna be bored. Let me know if you think I'm worng but that's my opinion.

[Phoenix98]

Obviously the body is what originally attracted me to the girl but if I love her then that means I love her the girl for her personality and mind not her body ( though that physical side of attraction is still important )

[ohshee]

If I cannot love the soul and the spirit the energy as a person. The heart. The person on the inside then I can't love any part of the person and that includes her body

[Jay3344]

I’ve met women have great bodies but I feel nothing for sexually and girls who have durp bodies but I have sexual chemistry with. Bodies can be a great turn on but I think it’s what’s inside that really counts.

[boobliker]

Remember we only get to see what you put on show, your mind is only the items you where, But we only see the body first the mind comes later so what you put on the body counts.

I just like to look...

[PAcc92]

I feel like this question is deeply anti-male, Men die for women, work themselves to the bone, and even still it's "Do you love women or just the body".

[EaterPeter]

Mostly body. I had one with dirty mind. It was fun in the bed and that's all. Body comes with brain. Brain comes with body and mouth. Some good bodies have no good brain or mouth. Sime good mouth has no good brain or body and so on.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I LOVE the girl & if she has an amazing body I love her even more.

[Bobsyoruncle]

It alternates between ‘Planet of the Apes’ and ‘The Flight of the Phoenix’.

[Spookydood]

Honestly, in your age range they're thinking way more about one thing than the other.

[Andres77]

Her face and body are attract me... but it's HER that made me want to stay.
It's always the heart.

[SunnySensei]

I think I prefer the connection Miss, cause body can come in shape or loose shape, but if you don't have the connection you can't get that

[DJB72]

Always the person she is, then her looks.

Looks can change in a heartbeat but character endures

[Nik1hil]

We love her body..

But we have to love her as a person and her soul.. Or she would die and a rotten body is not appealing

[davidst123]

If i love a girl, i would love everything not just one thing.

[Hairylegs222]

Her as a whole. Only liking her body isn't even close enough for me to fall for a woman. I have to super like her and how she looks

[007kingifrit]

to a man there is no immediate distinction. we love physically and we place far higher emphasis on eyesight than women do. this is not optional. it is our nature

[Mossberg500]

The girl. Then her body. I've found that appreciating someone's character, morals, and integrity tend to literally make that person more physically attractive than what they are otherwise.