Is it ok if we didn’t kiss tho we talked for hours?

[Anonymous]

My coworker and I hooked up once and since have been chatting lots during work and kissed couple of times But he’s super busy, no time to chill, so today I finished early and just stayed at his ‘office’ while he did some of his cable things as we talked for bout 3 hours He’s super shy so I always have to make the first move and sometimes I get nervous (help on making the move pls) So today I was super stoned and tired and just enjoying the time, and I’d love to have kissed him but I was more hoping he’d do it Still it was nice in my opinion, we’re just both kinda shy, what should we do

[horatiohornblower]

If he’s really shy. Just make it clear to him verbally. That you really want him to kiss you when the mood strikes him. That you welcome, accept, desire and enjoy his advances. Might shake him out of it some.

[Asker]

Yeah haha I thought exactly bout doing this, I’ll try to see how that goes

[horatiohornblower]

Sometimes shy guys just need verbal cues.

This article gives some good tips about shy guys. Being one myself. I feel it rings true.
www.momjunction.com/.../

[PuNishant]

If you guys had kiss already there is no point of being shy.
If he really feel like kissing you he should just kiss you.

[Asker]

Yeah okay but still he is shy and so am I 🤷🏽‍♀️ And there are the awkward moments in which we both know we’re thinking bout it but we’re too scared to do it

[PuNishant]

Even when you are holding hands?
by the way it's not necessary to kiss all the time.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, sounds like your both getting along great.