As of right now, How do I completly eliminate romantic love & attraction toward anyone?

[Anonymous]

I envy aromantics and asexuals, as everytime I get feeling for someone she's way out of my league. I am 26 yo electrical engineering student and have never been in a relationship never had sex and not even kissed a girl. I don't think I am ugly
I am socially inept, many people told me I am awkward. One of my bestfriends told me that the very first time we met he thought I was an incel awkward loser and wanted to avoid me but we unkowingly met again a couple of years later. Similarily I heard that some acquaintance decided not to invite me to their birthday party because I am socially inept.
Due to my awkwardness I am being alienated from a group I used to work activism with but when it came to parties and other stuff they invite everyone else except me. And when I try to talk they always ignore me.

Even if I try to make new friends and consersate with them I just have nothing in common with them.
Also don't suggest escorts as this is a band aid solution to the problem and I want intimacy and feeling loved and wanted.
Plus women do find it a turn-off if an older man past 22 has zero romantic & sexual experience as they want men to take the lead and would refuse to teach someone.
PS: Fuck Incels, MGTOW, PUA, and TRP

[JohnPrestwick]

I suggest working on improving your social life. The men who are best suited to finding and having a girlfriend are those who are best suited to life without one, and young men with a good social life never complain about being single. Plus, it is a way to meet with people.

You should also aim to have some hobbies you enjoy, preferably ones that involve face-to-face social interactions. Also work on having good career prospects, although if you are studying engineering that's probably a given.

[CamembertAnus]

Don't be so down on yourself. You're an engineering student, that is cool, and can lead to a stable, well-paid career (at least that is my impression, what do I know). Anyway, this fact is attractive to women. The stability. The career. Also the intelligence.

Apart from that, there's a book called The Science of Making Friends, which might help.

My primary advice would be to practise interacting with women you find attractive. Practise a little as often as you can. E. g. try smiling at a new woman you find attractive every day. Or saying "hi" to one everyday. Seduction/dating/relationships require skill, and skill can be developed.

Good luck

[PrettyPriya]

I don’t know that is a taught ability to not have desires or urges…ever.

[RichSD]

You're making excuses for yourself, man up. It's something ANY man has the ability to do. And it isn't easy for any of us, especially at first. The sooner you do the better, because being asexual won't solve your problems. You'd still feel like you let life kick your ass.

[Anonymous]

I always hated the human mating system but unfortunately it'll never change

[Hangry06]

Maybe go Monk mode and focus on yourself