It’s often hard for kids to see this, but parents are looking out for their kids. When I was young, my parents sometimes aired on the conservative or strict side, and it sometimes make me upset. Made me want to rebel. Now that I’m almost 40 years old, I see why they did it and I can’t say I would do any different if I had kids. Kids are young, naïve, ignorant, while also prideful and they sometimes think they know it all know what’s best. As a grown-up, it is laughable and sometimes painful to see how prideful, yet ignorant, kids can be.
Respect your mom’s wishes and hold off for now. Once you get closer to 18, if they’re still strict, maybe have a (RESPECTFUL) conversation with them. Plus, once you’re 18, especially if you’re no longer under the roof, you can do kind of whatever the heck you want.
Another thing, be smart and make good, responsible choices now. If they see that you are mature, and that you are good at making mature choices, maybe they’ll be a little bit less strict a little bit sooner than later. I was not very rebellious when I was young, and because of that my parents didn’t really care if I was out later or who I was with, even if I didn’t call or check in. I was pretty responsible, stayed away from drugs etc., kept my penis out of vaginas etc, so they trusted me more. Never had a curfew and they never even really asked who I was with.
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Unfortunately, at 14, she still calls the shots. Meet up with your boyfriend and see how you two can progress towards getting out of high school earlier, going off to college/university or trade school sooner, etc. It will take time and I know at your age a few years seems like eternity, but time IS on your side.
Better to be up front, because she will notice the signs and when your mood changes randomly. You can’t hide things from moms. They usually know. Just don’t say anything
You don’t. Not at 14. She will try and break you up.
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You can simply tell her, but reassure her, that you are not having sex, and he is a good guy.
Or if you are having sex, then tell your mom, that you know how this stuff works and you take precautions seriously. So be trustworthy. Don't make her and yourself regret this by screwing up.
She will still be very protective of you, but i think she'll understand it, if you show her that you aren't doing anything stupid. You know like getting pregnant, which you definitely don't want to happen at that age.how old are you?
if you have those fears then i guess you are probably 18 or less and still living with your parents. it's okay not to tell them, at least until you think it is serious, i mean when it looks like its going to last at least a year. and even then, there is a way to tell them.She will. She loves you and wouldn’t be controlling if she didn't care about you. Try and see it from her side too.
Whoa. That’s a tough one. Does she not want you to have a boyfriend at all? You can sneak around but that’ll only work for a few months and she’ll find out eventually. You will have to tell her at some point, though, unless you two do break up.
You are too young. Give it some time, you've got plenty.
“Hey mom, I met a guy and we like each other. I feel safe around him. Can I tell you about him because I’m excited?”
It may be the time to tell her is it right now then why would she want you to break up
No.
Tell your boyfriend that you have a strict mother.I think if you both are mature then have a talk with her about things see how she reacts
She should , you are too young and immature to have a boyfriend.
Don't
Firstly because it's not her business
And secondly it won't last, you both are too immature.First of all you’re 14… you should have a boyfriend behind your parents back
Well good question at some point u will have to tell her but i dont think tell her yet I suggest u wait and see how far the relationship goes before telling because anything can happen
Why do you have to tell her?
Break up with him u are too young
Don't tell her shit then
Just tell when u are ready
Just don't tell her unless you really have to.
You don't.
Or else you are asking for trouble.Just sneak around, it's better.
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