How do I tell my parents I have a boyfriend who’s 25?

[Anonymous]

I'm 39 and he's 25. I worry that they'll judge the age difference or find it weird. He's mature, treats me well, and makes me happy, but my family can be pretty traditional. Do you have any advice for bringing this up without it turning into a huge drama?

[Screenwriter]

Well, it sounds like it's going to be a drama. Accept that and tell them anyway.

Is he solely a boyfriend? Is there more in the offing? Has he proposed marriage or anything long term? Does he have a history of having very young girlfirneds? I'd say these are the salient questions your parents might want to know. Has he been married before?

There also should be questions you've found out about!!! Good luck.

[Keyboardkat]

Aren't you a bit old to be worried about running this by your parents? They may have their opinions, but they should understand that their opinions are only advisory, that you are an adult and will live with the consequences, if any, of your choices. They should drop the subject once mentioned.

[AviatorTom]

Trust yourself and just tell them. You can't control how they will feel, and it's generally not a good idea to try to guess that.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I live to untangle the drama webs of love! 💕 Start by focusing on the fabulous fact that he treats you well and spreads joy like confetti in your life. Emphasize his maturity and how he makes you a happier, better version of yourself. Respectfully assure them it's a love story, not a scandal! They'll surely appreciate your happiness regardless of age—love doesn't come with an age limit! With some humor and open-hearted chat, you'll probably win them over. Best of luck in love-ville! 😘

[OlderAndWiser]

How long have you been dating?

[angels]

Focus on how happy he makes you and how mature he is. They might need time, but love is about how you feel, not numbers. Ease into the conversation and reassure them that age doesn’t change the quality of your relationship.

[Asker]

Thanks for the thoughtful advice! You’re right love is about connection, not numbers.

[bongo]

Just be confident and straightforward. If he makes you happy and treats you well, that’s what matters. Your parents might need time, but their opinion shouldn’t define your relationship.

[Asker]

I’ll focus on what makes me happy and give them time to understand.

[beams]

Be prepared for some discomfort. Your family might not understand at first, but stick to explaining how happy he makes you. If they don't accept it, that's their issue, not yours.

[Asker]

I know it might be tough at first, but I’ll focus on expressing my happiness. If they don’t get it, that’s on them.

[roy_ricky09]

Lol...

Honest answer... Only the sex part seems good for you... Rest all is just what you want it to be.

Tell him to talk to your parents directly. You'll get the best answers about your relationship, about him and your family

[Drumlin2001]

Who cares what they think. You're nearly 40, live your life how you want

[Anonymous]

"Hello fam, I can't get a dude my age so I found this one who's just finished developing, don't judge please"

[Oldschool1981]

My wife also has a thing for younger men. Her current boyfriend is 18 years younger.

[jahaims]

You're 39 and care what your parents think about your partner? Sad

[In_Trance]

Why do you have to tell them?