If you haven’t kissed by date 3, should you just assume you’re now just friends & invite other friends to your meets?

[Anonymous]

Yes you should just assume you’re now just friends & invite ithers

No you should assume they’re dates unless one of you say otherwise

[CurlyGirl42]

I would personally not think there was more than friendship after 3 dates and no kissing or so, and I would not initiate more.. I actually always stopped after 2 dates and the man too, so I guess I was right :D well was not even friendship then xD
But I would not say it is always the case, some are shy/wants to take it slow. So I don't have a general rule for what other people should do, should do what you feel like.

[Asker]

Well after 3 dates I’ve had no signs she likes me and if I get too close she moves away. So I don’t know why I’ve bothered agreeing to a 4th date.

[kyleelyn199723]

Me and my man waited about 3-4 months to kiss, so I don’t necessarily think you two not kissing automatically eliminates any possible romantic feelings

[Asker]

Was it worth the wait? How did you not friend zone him?

[kyleelyn199723]

We friend zoned each other because I had just gotten out of a relationship, but in reality we were attracted to each other from the very beginning and yes it was worth the wait because it gave me time to get over my ex and start something new with my current

[Asker]

So you weren’t actually dating him then.

[kyleelyn199723]

Dating? No. But his friends knew we had a thing for each other

[Asker]

Maybe he was after you whilst you only saw him as a friend.

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker I saw him as a friend only because I thought I had absolutely no chance with him, plus he kind of started talking to me like a month after me and my ex broke up and I didn’t think I wanted a relationship. He doesn’t typically like relationships either so it was kind of a surprise for all this to happen

[Asker]

If he had asked you out on an official date then, would you have told him you just wanted to be friends then?

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker probably not, but in my opinion I am happy we waited in the end so I didn’t end up mixing my feelings for my ex and my now boyfriend and treating him like a rebound.

[Anonymous]

Run before it's too late