I met a great guy and we have been on 3 dates now. I figured that by date 3 it would be "normal" for him to at the very least, try to hold my hand or something but I was so wrong. The most I got was a hug that lasted longer than a normal hug and I drove away feeling like this guy is not attracted to me and doesn't like me. Yesterday I was with him the entire day including 4 hours at his place where we were ALONE.
Conversation wise we can talk for hours on end which is a good thing but the fact that he hasn't tried anything physical worries me. He did seem very eager to see me again and mentioned another date but then I am worried that I am wasting my time. I feel gross and like he isn't attracted to me.
I was really excited for yesterday and today I just feel sad about everything. Last night when I got home from him I told him I find it hard to read him and he just replied "That is the idea with a winky emoji" ? Is he playing games?
Also worth mentioning, he's quite a religious guy but he has been in a serious relationship before. He is a very shy, nerdy type and definitely not a party or jock type. Very introverted. I am not sure if this is just his personality or a attraction problem :( EIther way, I am close to just giving up. I have tried my best.. including driving a hour to just see him.
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