Is work an ok or good place to meet a potential partner?

[Anonymous]

[MrNameless]

It's true that a lot of people meet at work, and I've seen several that end up getting married with their coworkers.

But it's really risky (putting your professional life on the line) and you gotta be really discrete. I also don't recommend dating someone in your Dept if you are in white collar job.

Other than that... Make sure you guys keep your personal drama out of work and agree to be professional about it at work, especially if a break up occured.

[FlaffyCheez]

Terrible idea.
Do not mix business and pleasure.

Do not look for partners where you eat, lay, or work.

Reason being, these all pertain to your livelihood. If you meet someone who is constantly in your livelihood:
#1 it creates a space of unjust familiarity (where you unconsciously let guards down because they seem familiar)
#2 if shiz hits the fan, you now how to go through it all the time because they were connected to the livelihood and how you live

[Starla1234]

Depends where you work I guess... I work in a bakery and I’m out the back slicing bread so literally no one can see me and the only other people that work with me are girls my age and 2 older married men so that is not an ideal place 😆

[Anonymous]

No, it is worst idea to date a colleague,
only way to make it fine, if you leaving very soon.

[VanessaSession]

One of the best places for sure. You have a lot of time to get to know each other, and maybe have some common interests depending on the job.

[Asker]

See that’s what I think everyone says it’s a bad idea but if it doesn’t work out just be mature and move in. I ask because there’s so many nice and cute girls at my work

[dudeinohio]

No. It is the worst place. You do not want gossip.