How to get a boyfriend when you aren't that pretty?

[Anonymous]

[Lucifer_01]

Hey hey hey... wait a min... who said you aren't pretty... every girl is pretty... every girl is cute... all you have to do is change your perspective to see the world... once you did this world will be beautiful for you.. every person will become lovely... every person will become beautiful..
and you are beautiful... even if i can't see you.. you are beautiful... and pretty..
guys usually find her tone and softness and way to speak in girls...
that's it you have to do... go to the guy start conversation and remember speak soft.. be logical.. be confident..

[ohshee]

I learned a long time ago just because I think something doesn't mean that I'm right first of all who says you're not pretty second of all the true beauty the real beauty is within if you can find that you're beautiful everywhere if you have a beautiful heart you're beautiful everywhere

[FlutteringFeelings]

You have to learn self-confidence. First, self-confidence says I am content and I am not focused on getting a boyfriend. A man that is drawn to you will meet you half way and approach you because he’s attracted to you. “Aren’t that pretty” isn’t realistic because beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Be friendly, out going and social.

Also be okay being single, that is extremely important. The best things happen when your least expecting them.

[diamonddreams]

First of all, looks are subjective. Maybe you haven't met the right guy for you yet.
Try to improve and work on your looks, take care of your hair, skin, body, exercise, wear flattering and trendy clothes for your body and experiment with makeup if you like. Lastly, some light plastic surgery may also help but you need to do your research and go to an experienced doctor/professional for that
Lastly, try to work on your personality, be interesting, fun to hang around and sweet

[LikeALog]

Be proud to be you.
Have excellent posture, stand straight, shoulders back, head looking straight ahead.
Quit thinking you're not pretty.
Dress nicely, wear clothes that fit you and are not wrinkled.
Get a hair style that looks good complimenting your face, not necessarily a trendy one.

Hope this helps a little bit.

[JosyJosy]

Focus on what you like about yourself, work on yourself as a person. And be good human being

[yuhgetitig]

first of all, everyone is pretty in their own way. and you just have to put yourself out there. Try shooting your shot, youve got nothing to lose

[Jooying]

You don’t have to be pretty. There are boys out there seeking for girls not just pretty. Just be you and the men got attracted will come to you.

[Daniela1982]

When you find out let me know.

[MCheetah]

NOW who's being negative?

"OMG, you are NOT struggling to find someone, like you're undateable or something. At least you don't have people making limericks about your single status or looks.
Ahem...
On GaG there's a girl who's five-eight.
Who claims that she can't get a date.
She thinks she's a wimp,
Although she hates shrimps,
She's a girl in an age filled with simps."

Your only "negative" is that you sometimes nag too much. But at least you have a sense of humor. That's something most women don't possess at all.

[Daniela1982]

@MCheetah Guess you got me back. Well done!

[Daniela1982]

@MCheetah By the way, the last line of a limerick is supposed to rhyme with the first two. Like this:
On GaG there's a girl who's five eight
Who claims that she can't get a date
She thinks she's with whimps
although she hates shrimps
She's a girl in an age full of hate.

[LZPanzer]

Guys aren't picky. You're just looking at the wrong ones.

[LZPanzer]

What are you doing to attract their attention?

[Asker]

Nothing I have no place I'm not even attractive

[LZPanzer]

Well there's your problem if you aren't actively searching you aren't going to find anything. Start hunting. Stop playing the wallflower role.

[LZPanzer]

The best beginner hunting ground in my opinion would be your local game store (excluding GameStop)

Their clientele is 90% male. So you will have little if any competition from other women
They also usually sell things related to a hobby, if you pick up a hobby there you have a ready made ice breaker.

[Asker]

All I'm getting I'd some engaged who liked me since highschool

[LZPanzer]

What?

[Asker]

Getting is some engaged guy**

[LZPanzer]

Ok so go meet new people

[LZPanzer]

Congratulations you know at least one person who likes you. You're doing better than me.

[Asker]

But he is taken which sucks 😕

[LZPanzer]

True but it at least means that someone is attracted to you. If one person is attracted to you others may be as well it's simply a matter of finding them.

[Asker]

Very true just got be patient I guess

[LZPanzer]

Be patient not passive.

[Asker]

I have told some guys in the past and they said they weren't interested only in a friends with benefits

[LZPanzer]

And you dis agreed with there proposal because why?

[Asker]

After they said a hook up I didn't bother with them anymore

[LZPanzer]

If a guy asks for a friends with benefits relationship it's not because you are unattractive.
Mostly it's because a guy wants a consistent outlet for his physical needs. But sometimes it's because the girl has "issues" the guy doesn't want to deal with. The "issues" are specific to the guy but are usually behavioral . a relationship to progress too fast etc.
I'm not saying this is you only a possibility.

[Asker]

Yeah those guys want to play the field until a certain age

[exitseven]

You should work on being the best version of yourself. Be active and get in shape, learn a new skill or talent, be friendly, get a new hairstyle.

[whosnumber1]

yup pretty much

[MCheetah]

You're a woman. It's not that hard. But here's the simple answer: "Lower your high standards."

[Blackcupcake]

I'm sure someone out there finds you pretty so be confident

[Asker]

I was talking to this guy and he went off this good looking girl.

[Blackcupcake]

one guy doesn't define your prettiness

[AngelMegumin]

Be an interesting person. Talk more. Make male friends. U will have a range to choose from thusly.

[Anonymous]

You lower your standards until a guy says yes. If no guy says yes. You live it.
Being single isn't fatal I promise you.

[Asker]

Why isn't it fatal

[Opinion Owner]

Because I've been single my entire life. It hasn't killed me yet. And after a while you see your friends who got married get divorced. You start seeing some starting on their second marriages. And you come to the conclusion that love is messy. And while it's great when it lasts it's very rarely forever and even when it's forever it takes hard work and sacrifice to keep it going. And when you see that those "happy" people are really dealing with just as much heatache. You come to the realization that be single really wasn't that bad. You may miss out on love but you missed a Rollercoaster ride of emotions as well.

[Asker]

I think I have missed out on live haven't liked anyone that much and I'm 29

[notwoke]

Be thin. Most women are fat as hell now, so even an ugly girl who is in shape is pretty eligible in 2021

[Nazgol]

Work on becoming more pretty! You're not set in atone, you can make improvements & take action to feel better about yourself

[Nazgol]

*stone

[Luckycharms12]

Well firstly need to have confidence in yourself not everything based on looks persanaily more important

[DWornock]

That is easy, just go for guys that can't attract pretty girls.

[Chthou95]

Go online. Girls have an easier time and can find a guy to date. Men aren't that shallow or super picky like women. You'll find someone

[laura123iu]

guys aren't picky, your personality works

[boggboss]

By looking for a guy that finds u attractive

[sheikalana]

Someone will eventually find you pretty.