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That is a loaded question. Generally, women don't just get bored and leave a "baby daddy". In most situations, they are Monkey Branching into other relationships. In other words, they are cheating and have their next man lined up when they leave. I don't care if she has no kids or 20. I WILL NOT date or have anything much to do with a cheater. Heck, when out with friends and I find out a man sitting at my table has a history of cheating one of us is leaving! There are many women out there that are now single moms, some are fantastic ladies who married males that were/are s**t stains on the butt of humanity! A good friend of mine married a single mother of two fantastic daughters close to 30 years ago. Back when he was very young he had a case of the mumps that "fall" on him rendering him unable to be a father. This man and his now wife as far as I know have lived a great life and he walked both of those gals down the aisle and gave them away. These gals biological father split years ago and nobody knows where he went to. Women with a history of cheating? NOPE! I'm sorry about those kids, but it's not my problem. A cheater is what they are!
I think age is irrelevant.
Most men want a single
Mother.
There are a lot of logical reasons.
I slept with one filipino girl in HK she only had one boyF and she only had sex with that one girl.
Which turned me on since she was attractive and she didn’t have too many guys we talk for a month finally she was okay to sleep with me with we met.
I booked a hotel and have fun for couple hours.
Was tight amazing body and everything…
However this is the part.. because she was inexperienced with herself.
She missed her period for 5 weeks.
Which I used a condom
And pulled out.
She got her period after 5 weeks. I’m saying this because she was clueless about her own body.
If the guy is stupid enough to
Cum inside her.
She’ll have the baby. And you can run away if you were abroad like me.
Which is going to eat up your conscious.
If
You’re local? Then.. you have to take of the kid.
When a single mother had a child. I think she’ll
Do it again. Like oppps kind of thing! Oh well.. not a big deal BS kind of thing.
Generally they’re not responsible.
The girl I slept with was 20, but once they get old. The kid becomes everything and with the natural birth her body will get creamed after a baby once she gets older!
I'm a girl with no kids but I'm trying to think of what I'd do if the reverse was true. I guess I wouldn't actively look for a guy who had a kid, but if I already like a guy and the guy had a kid then I think I'd just continue loving him. If you are looking for love, you have to accept the whole person and what they come with. I think its kind of sad to shoot down the rare person who makes you feel good, who is otherwise perfect in your eyes, because they come with a +1. Now if he still has unfinished business with the mom that's another thing...
No, you’re entitled to date whoever you want. I don’t have kids but I was raised by a single mom. She didn’t really date much when I was growing up, but the guys that I do remember her dating when I was younger were single dads who she met through a social organization for single parents. I don’t want to date single dads and get told often that I’m making a mistake by not dating them. I respect any childless person who does fall in love with a single parent however, we shouldn’t be made to feel shamed into doing it either.
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u It's not right or wrong. It's just a preference. Some people will say that makes you a shallow guy, and some will totally agree with you. But you obviously shouldn't date a woman if you don't want a future with her, unless you are both just looking for casual sex.
No you're not wrong. I always explain it to women like this. A single mon ho l do about as much attraction to us as a homeless man does to you.
I say this and women immediately get offended about it. But if they thought a little about it they'd probably understand why. It's not just they have another man's kid that they will always have a connection to. But they could decide to go back to at anytime. Tell me how many women would tolerate and ex-wife or baby mama in the picture... yeah that's what I thought!
But there is also the fact that she had a kid with this man just 1 if she's lucky and hopefully just one by one man. If she has multiple kids from multiple men then now a pattern is forming. She is showing how easy she is to dupe. Or how successful she is in relationships ( which doesn't bode well for you two). And keep in mind you're just seeing the tip of the iceberg.
Yes ladies you see a homeless guy and intuitively you see all the bad things about his character that probably brought him to where he's at. When we see a single mother we see the same thing. So don't take it personal.
At 32? Yeah I think that’s dumb to limit your dating life to people without children.
For the most part women don’t expect you to support their kid (s) unless you’ve gotten to the point in the relationship where you’re actually committed.
If you want your own kids it’s one less thing you’ll have to worry about because you already know exactly how she treats her own.
I doubt the majority of single moms are in that position because they are “bored and want different dick” who hurt you bro? Have more confidence, learn how to use your fingers and tongue.
you're out of your mind to touch what you just described, but that's different than the title.
Single mature woman is different than emotional basket case.
I'm dating single mom with kids, they are older. It's a choice, it works well, but it's not for everyone. You have to accept some realities... kids are #1 focus, they get attention, resources, priority, etc.. If you don't accept that, then stay with single women no kids, there's plenty around.
There are benefits to me as I don't have kids and at this point, not going to have them, so I get to enjoy raising kids without the higher level stress the parents have. It gives a focus and purpose in life.
I won't date them either. It isn't my responsibility to deal with someone else's mistakes.
I don't want to deal with extra drama between them and their ex. Plus the kid wouldn't want to listen to rules and say things like "you aren't my real parent so I don't have to listen to your rules." Then there would be custody issues during holidays, plus it would be a financial burden. And when the relationship is new and you are supposed to get plenty of time for you two, the kid would prevent that most of the time.
I think single parents should go with other single parents. It is unfair to expect a single person without kids to want a single parent.
You last part about hooking up though, I disagree with. I think it is bad for anyone to hook up at all.
Everyone has their preferences so it's no foul if you don't. I think you are thinking with your dick "I will fuck but not lock it down". Don't do her any favors. *rolls eyes*
lmao, so funny reply :P
I don't think you're wrong for not wanting to date them. I personally don't want to date guys with kids, simply because, 1: I'm not sure I even want kids, and 2. IF I do decide I want kids, I would want it to be a new experience for both of us. Having kids is such a defining moment in people's lives, and I'd want to share that with my significant other.
Where I do think you're wrong is in the update, where you said "I will fuck but not lock it down". If you're not interested in single moms, that's fine, but you shouldn't be fucking them either.
I am 35 and refuse to date a single mother, but I live in a country where single parenthood is almost non-existent. But had I lived in the US, I wouldn't do that either. Why should I invest in someone else's genetic investment?
We dont take commitment seriously over here it’s pathetic
There are advantages and disadvantages to dating single moms. If a man is close to middle age, he may not have much choice since most desirable women close to his age will have had children. However, it is different for younger men dating young single moms.
Everyone knows their disadvantages and the single moms know it too but may not want to admit and accept the fact that they cannot compete with equally pretty single girls. Therefore, the advantage is that you can date a more attractive young moms because if they were single they would accept the offers from more desirable guys; offers they would not get if they were moms. The difference in attractiveness is not large but it is noticeable.
This comment section continues to prove that if men show any semblance of having standards for the type of partner they pick, they're demonized for it, whereas if women have any standards, they're praised and told not to settle for anything but the best.
And then they go shocked Pikachu face when men start checking out of the dating scene.
@MzAsh Maybe I'm misinterpreting what you're saying, but it sounds like you're saying most men are so destitute, so bottom-of-the-barrel in terms of desirability that they can't afford to have a single standard.
Because I didn't stay men are picky or choosy, which are ambiguous but imply a somewhat high bar. I said any semblance of having standards, which implies a much lower bar.
To continue, my thought is maybe there isn’t as much of a problem with men having standards as it is about where those standards come from. There is a huge difference between a guy who says “I’d really like to get with someone who I can experience parenthood for the first time with” and the guy who says “single moms are damaged goods, I don’t want sloppy 2nds”
@MzAsh standards?
@MzAsh hatred/self importance? No all I said was I refuse to date single mothers. You put words in my mouth
@MzAsh a good question
@MzAsh baby daddy paying child support while she collects welfare and sits on het ass?
@MzAsh 😂🤷♂️
@MzAsh id swipe left on you bb
Oh nvm married 🤮
Thats totally up to you. I have no problem dating a single dad as long as the kid is between ages 2-6. However, i look at it as hating to share attention that soon. If im being 100% honest, i want him to myself for at least a year before we have future kids to give attention to
I feel the same about single dads. Dating a single parent, you become that child’s father/mother figure that they may or may not have. If you’re not ready for that then it’s just not for you.
Plus there is always that possibility of drama between ex mates that may draw you in.
You shouldn't have to if you don't want to.
I know I'm only 26, but I don't want to date someone with kids either.
And they shouldn't have to date someone that doesn't want to be a part of their kids' life either. It's unfair to all of the participants.
It depends
I’m not married and have kids but I wouldn’t mind dating someone with kids because I have friends who are amazing but they had a bad luck meeting wrong people. So it’s kinda sad to give up on don’t or you really like just because they have a kid
But everyone is different
Is there a specific reason you don't? It doesn't matter, you are you're own person, to make whatever choices you want. Just don't overlook something great. Sometimes people make wrong choices. It also takes someone special to take on the extra responsibility, it's admirable that you realize that.
As a mom I can understand it. ( not a single mom) but I have dated daddies before one girl was damnnnnn annoying had to get restraining order on her even. If you really like the girl you'd end up liking the kid but if you don't fall in love then yea you'd never go past just the sex stage. a lot of times the other half isn't involved much.
You are entitled to your opinion. You might be missing out on a long-term relationship with a fabulous woman though. Are you sure it's a desire to be single and not a fear of not knowing how to help raise kids?
FYI: Parenting doesn't come with an instruction book. It's all on-the-job training. It's scary at times.
It’s your choice, but I do think your attitude on it says something about you though.
All the hot Online dating Girls have kids so im disappointed
Uh they are ex
You dont make sense
She makes absolute sense.
“I will fuck but not lock it down ”
Do her a solid and tell her that first, eh? You’re trash if you don’t. Otherwise it’s your choice.
It's totally up to you, but apparently you're looking for validation. Why is that? Anyway, your decision to not date single mothers is not the problem (there's valid reasons for that decision, but those are not yours), it's your general attitude that's the problem. I don't think you'll find any woman, mother or not, anytime soon.
No you are doing good. Keep away from them! If you look for love, intimacy and someone to share time with, dont look for single moms. Being together with one means you pick up a car wreak of a relationship, have to play the daddy role (and you might not be accepted by the kid), maybe still have to deal with an ex and you'll not have alone time
Not at all. Any man who dates a single mother needs to be willing and importantly want to accept the whole package. There is nothing wrong with not wanting it and that's from somebody who used to be a single mother.
Do you know that there are tons of reasons why she is a single mother right?
" just get bored with their baby daddies and want different dick" is probably the less frequent reason why women become single mothers.
But you can have your preference, there is nothing wrong with that.
Yeah there's nothing wrong with that. Women who divorce their husbands just because they're bored with them (whether they have children or not) probably don't take commitment seriously. Same with men who do the same.
You give men a bad name. The vast majority of single moms aren't single by choice, or because they did the dumping, or just wanted other dick. They're single because the guy walked out, or is a dead beat. Sure, sometimes the woman is just too hard to live with, but that's the case 90% of the time.
I could understand not wanting to date a single mom because you don't want to get involved in child raising at all, or especially another man's child. But your not even IN that ball park.
Yup. Just remove that woman's agency, why don't you? It's not like they have any choice in the partners that they choose.
It is your preference. I used to feel the same way. No that I am older if the kids were older like in high school I would be okay with it.
That’s a fair preference, but you saying you’ll fuck them and not commit shows a lack of emotional maturity given your age. A quality woman wouldn’t accept that type of mindset.
You're not wrong. I agree with you on everything except also using them for sex. If they're not good enough to date, they're not good enough to sleep with either, cause that's hypocritical AF.
no, you're not wrong. why would you wanna take that responsibility, while getting none of the fun that came with that? xD
u something tells me you're single and not by choice...
but it's also true that you just don't have to date someone you don't want to date... that's fine
You’re not wrong, most single people w/o kids wouldn’t won’t to date a single parent
Not wrong.
If you become a single dad then you'd be unfair to not date single mom's but if you are a childless guy... you are fine only dating childless, single women.
If you dont want to have and raise children of your own it makes sense you wouldn't want to raise someone else's.
You're justified in not wanting to date them, I'm not equipped to date someone with kids either. But the update is wrong, unless the woman was specifically looking for casual sex, you shouldn't be getting involved with them at all.
You're doing the right thing. There are hardly any single moms worth dating, so it's best to avoid them and their drama altogether.
You like what you like. There are plenty of other men that would love to.. 😊😊
Simps
I think knowing what you want is great. Same goes for what you don't want. I have a long list 😆
You are not wrong. The last thing a single mother needs is a boyfriend who is not ready to “deal with it.” Unfortunately some men don’t think about that first and date them anyway.
read the bible
Matthew 5:32
But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery
so basically almost everyone is stupid for dating a single mother or father
THEY ARE MARKED ALREADY
No you're not wrong. Can't have two people and more hating a low self esteem dick like you now, can we?
Men have a right to preferences just like women do so of course you're not wrong.
No, you definitely isn't wrong because realistically if you risk dating a single parent you might end up becoming the little kids step father or step mother.
Unless the woman is some kind of dream come true, I'm not dealing with somebody else's mistake.
It is your choice who you date, nobody has the right to second guess your choices and I agree with you that a widow with a child/children is a different proposition,
You're not wrong. No one can force you or shame you into dating someone who you don't want to date, though there will be women who will try to do exactly that.
How is having a preference for the kind of person you date wrong?
You're not wrong for having preferences but your reasoning is still presumptuous. Why not consider that men also leave their wives because they get bored and look for a new pussy? It's not just a one sided thing
Lowers your options but preemptively avoid certain problems too. So aye, do you boo
Everyone has their preferences, having them doesn't make it right or wrong.
No, that's your choice. Doesn't matter what other people think. There's a lot of things single mothers can't do because the kids can't come along. Worry about it after you're 40.
It's up to you. You don't owe anyone a date. There are plenty of single childless women.
No, as long as you ain't shaming them and as log as you ain't a single daddy too
If you fuck but not commit, then you are a hoe? So it is ok to play with single mums? Do you tell your intentions to them in the first place? Would marry a promiscuos women who use men/single dads as toy boys as long as she does not have kids?
I dont fuck anyone right now but if the opportunity presented itself I would but def would tell her just friends with benefits im not an asshole
Nah enough women going around that aren't single mothers (even if you date closer to your age than younger).
Hope it's an honest question. You got tons of votes. Never seen that many votes on gag on one question before.
I think gag purged blocked user list for everyone before blocked users couldn’t participate i am getting much more responses than usual
Okay
I'm older than you, and I want nothing to do with single moms period. No sex, no relationship, nada.
Yes; you're wrong. You directly admitted to us that you would judge a woman but still have sex with her. That's wrong.
Not wrong if you cannot take on the role of stepfather then you are actually doing her and her child a favour by not getting involved
you are right, getting involved with anyone that has kids is not always the best idea. even if you like the child and get along you need to not be attached to another man's kid.
If you don't have kids that's fine. I wouldn't date a guy with kids but I don't have any.
No one wants to deal with you either sir (a woman who isn’t a single mom)
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