Is asking for exclusivity 2 dates in too quick?

[Anonymous]

Like if we already know each other? We had casually dated before, like a year ago for a few months but didn’t start anything because of distance. Now things have changed and I started seeing him again. I’ve seen him once and it was like no time passed and we talk and laugh the whole night, we have the absolute best sex... I’m ready to be exclusive. I want to give it a real go. My feelings for him never disappeared. Are guys different in all of this? I’m seeing him again this weekend, and I don’t know if I should press or just not say anything and have him take the lead? Does trying to ask for exclusivity and state what we are too early on ruin things? I don’t want to ruin what we have but I also get in my head with him seeing others, I want him as mine. Any advice is appreciated.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s too quick even when you guys already has a past. You can definitely ask him “so where do you see thins going?” to get an idea on what he wants and if you’re on the same page but you won’t be pressuring him for exclusivity bc you’re technically not asking for it, just asking what his intentions are

[Seangreen]

No I don't think so especially if you have somewhat about past and it's not like somebody you just met if it was somebody I knew for a while and they wanted me to be exclusive after two dates and it went very well I would be in on that in fact I would I like being in a relationship when it's a good person I don't like just fucking around or dating dating sucks wait till you're in your thirties dating is terrible

[Asker]

Totally agree

[OlderAndWiser]

You shouldn't be having sex until this issue is resolved, as it just complicates the issue.

[Asker]

I think so too.

[In_Trance]

100% too quick. Grounds for break up

[Asker]

What do you advise is a normal amount of time?

[Asker]

Help a girl out please

[In_Trance]

Don't ask at all. Just have fun

[Asker]

Will he never take me seriously then?

[In_Trance]

Sure he will; give it time. What's the hurry? Desperation is not attractive

[Asker]

Ok. Thank you 💓 I just gotta chill

[Twalli]

I'm exclusive if we set up a second date

[Wise4myage]

That's a red flag warning.

[jjj101010]

Yes it’s too quick