If after a few dates you decide you’re not that into him, would you continue to date him if he suggests fun dates?

[Anonymous]

Yes I would if they sound fun

No I would not if I’m not that into him after a few dates

[Starla1234]

Yes I would because you would still have fun times, but first I would be honest with him about how I’m not into him and I would ask if he’s ok hanging out just as friends.

[Asker]

I’ve been on about 4 dates with a girl and I’m pretty sure she’s not that into me. But she keeps saying yes to dates with me and I’m using the word date. And she hasn’t said anything about hanging out as friends. So I’m really confused.

[Starla1234]

Could you ask her straight out maybe? You could say something like ‘look I just wanted to ask, I have a really fun time going out with you, and it seems like you do aswell, but I was just kind of wondering, are you into me like that or do you see me more as a friend?’

[Asker]

That’s scary. It’s friendship now anyway since nothing has happened so maybe it’s best to just assume we’re friends now.

[Starla1234]

Yeah that might be the best thing to do for now then. You don’t want to push it if she sees you just as a friend. But you could keep going out, and if she flirts a bit here and there you could assume she actually likes you and flirt back and see where it goes from there. If you two have chemistry it should just naturally come out anyway, just go with the flow and see what happens :)

[Asker]

How do girls flirt?

[Anonymous]

No I would tell him I think we are better as friends. It’s not fair to waste his time.

[Asker]

I’ve been on about 4 dates with a girl and I’m pretty sure she’s not that into me. But she keeps saying yes to dates with me and I’m using the word date. And she hasn’t said anything about hanging out as friends. So I’m really confused.

[Opinion Owner]

Could be that she is actually into you? Or she’s she’s just using you for a free date/something to do.

[Asker]

I’m not paying for her and she has plenty of friends.

[Asker]

Is it possible she doesn’t want to say She just wants to be friends in order to not hurt my feelings?

[Opinion Owner]

In that case, yes, doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and is avoiding confrontation.

[Asker]

I would prefer it if she said she just wants to be friends though rather than saying yes to all my dates and saying she enjoys them.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, that would be the right thing to do.

[Guy13]

Yes and if she was a serious person she would go and to assure friend zone status pay for her half.