"I'm not handsome enough for you" "I'm not your type" Insecurity or rejection?

[Anonymous]

He said these things after we fucked again: "I'm not your type" "You don't like me" "I'm not handsome enough" "Sex wasn't TOO bad right..." "It wasn't the best sex right you've probably had better sex"

Does he mean I'm not his type and and sex is no good with me? Or he is just insecure?

[Wise4myage]

He's making excuses because he got what he wanted, which was you in bed.

[Asker]

So he used me then rejected me.

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, I think so.

[Asker]

Why we already have been having sex? He doesn't need to give excuses?

[Anonymous]

I N S E C U R E... very insecure

No matter what it is, it's a turn off for sure.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Insecure but on a scary level, needs attention and reassurance

[Asker]

He has good career at military. I thought he is kindly rejecting me since he is smart.

[Asker]

What kinda questions? I am European, He is typical American. I cannot be sure when he is being sarcastic when he is not.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Like asking you if it would be better for you to be with a made up person that has better qualities

[Asker]

Everything I said %100 real. If you don't believe, don't make a fucking comment then 😂

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Who said I don't believe, I'm just making sure he wasn't doing this before

[Asker]

I don't know. I feel like he used me

[SAMI_DABBAB]

If this is how you feel then it's most likely true, just try to find clues before coming to a definitive opinion

[Asker]

Extremely confusing. I feel like he used me but he also said he's really into me etc. Maybe I'm insecure as much as him that's why I cannot believe him. Maybe he's just narcissistic and playing me. It's like a fucking quantum physics problem. Both situation might exist.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Do you believe he's too good for the insecure stuff he said and is he a smart person? If so then him playing you is more likely possibility

[Asker]

He's extremely smart person but lonely.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

I wish you best of luck because it's starting to look not good

[Asker]

Why?

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Probably a way of rejection without being held accountable, he's smart but he's also lonely for a reason

[Asker]

You think he wanted to meet me because he's lonely?

[ally018]

Sounds like an insecurity

[Stan_Control_]

A very bad case of self-doubt and insecurity.

[emperor90]

He is insecure and does not care

[Asker]

Doesn't care?