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Is this desperate?

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I met a guy in August on a dating app. We have snapped every day since and have hung out every weekend. He got deployed for 6 months and left late October. In the beginning he said he wanted to take things slow, which we did. Before he left I asked him where he saw this going and he said he saw potential in what we had and left it at that. He did say he didn't expect me to not see anyone while he was gone (since we aren't official) and I flat out told him I am not seeing or talking to anyone else (which is true). Is it selfish of me wanting us to become official. I get where he is coming from since he is gone for 6 months and it is hard to have a relationship/build a relationship long distance. However, it feels like sometimes he is just stringing me along. I know it is my choice if I don't talk to anyone else and I "wait" for him but at the same time it would be nice to have answers. How should I go about this? My brothers said to leave it the way it is and see what happens after he gets back. A few of my guy friends are saying to just ask him again about the relationship and the other few are saying that I'm being stupid as they said he would have made it official by now if he wanted a relationship. I just don't know who to listen to.
Is this desperate?
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