I agree with the guys saying he would have made it official by now. Usually guys who want to take it slow or whatever they say to not form an official relationship, have past hurt they haven't gotten over or they are still weighing their options therefore, not ready to commit.
Deep down inside, you want it to be official. Girls tend to feel this way when the situation-ship is being guided in a way that they believe is unfair to them. The feeling is right. The problem is, you would have to put your foot down for what you want and in the act of doing this, you risk losing him. Because of this, girls tend to not say anything that will push him away and will bare the wait until they can't any longer because they have feelings for the guy and aren't ready to lose him. The truth is, that is the risk you are going to have to take if you want your say in things.
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If you care for him, wait. I've been in a similar situation and I didn't want to dwell on a possible relationship. I'd worry about our relationship surviving. I'd be wondering if she had found someone while I was gone. I would be dreading coming home to learn she found someone else. The way he put it eliminates stress about whether or not there is still a relationship when he gets home.
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