Yes, in my parentally-promulgated naivete I was led to believe that a female would willingly insightfully respond preferentially to rational facts of benefits and a more affectionate life experience treatment than their own hormone-fueled infatuation for the 'verboden' abusive treatment of the callous and egotistical 'bad' boy. "OH, he'll change FOR ME... I can 'tame' him!"
BULLSHIT! You are BOTH rewarding and reinforcing his bad behaviors.
Listen to the lyrics of Chris Kristofferson's ballad: "The Silver-tongued Devil"
SOME women, in due course, IN THEIR WANING ALLURE, will prudently 'settle' for the 'nice gentleman-ly' guy who's willing to SETTLE for worn 'left overs', if periodically treated to being visually reminded of her 'glory days'. ~
No, but I've had a friend fight me about a girl I used to date and was being disloyal. I didn't care if he wanted to start up with her. Just don't let it effect our friendship.
She was still hurt about me dumping her and fed him some BS that he took on because he wanted to fuck her. Then started lashing out at me over the BS.
I cut him off entirely and refused to talk to her too. When she found out she couldn't use him to get to me she dropped him. That's when he realized what he did. Never trusted him the same way again, at least with respect to girls
We made up, we're friends to this day actually. But after doing something like that it's really really really hard for me to ever feel like I can fully trust you when a woman is involved
I have never fought another girl for a guy, life is too short to do that, when there is so many other options out there.
I have had guys fight over me, which is tiresome when they act like I am a trophy that goes to the winner when it makes me not want to be with either of them.
Once when I was around 12 or 13 or something, my childhood friend and I found out we had a crush on the same guy and we had an argument about it... Really a moot point, she was the pretty and popular type while I... Well, I wasn't.
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This guy who liked a girl I liked asked her out first. He knew I liked her. He, her, and I also know she didn't like me so it wasn't really both of us vying for her, since she had already told me that she wasn't interested (I hadn't officially asked her out). Another time when I was in college I wanted to ask a girl out. Nobody else knew this though. Unfortunately I was hospitalized the week I was going to do it and she was asked out in one of my weeks of at home recovery. The girl and I became friends and I mentioned that if she wasn't in a relationship I would have asked her out. She said that if she wasn't in a relationship she would have agreed to go out with me. Neither of us wanted to end her current relationship to actually try out a romantic relationship between us two.
When I was like 15 or something yeah. I pushed him over a transformer and he ended up with a broken psp. He knew I was crushing on this girl so he started talking vulgarly about her. I pushed him and he hit the transformer and basically backflipped off it onto his one leg breaking his handheld. Parents wanted to sue until they found out the story and then said maybe next time he'll learn before running his mouth and if he wanted another psp he could go work for it.
Not in that sense but they seem to happen to me only when I get into a relationship. Some younger girls tried to get them cheated on them on temp. I tell them not to get involved in my relationship and refuse to listen to me. I was one that was truthing the truth. It happened a lot. My college was a special learning disability college.
Physically fought? No. But I have had women try to get me to compete with another guy over her and my response is always the same. You can have her fella! I don't play that game. She either chooses me or she doesn't I'm not playing her game. I'd rather be alone.
No I haven't and I don't think I ever will. My friend and I have both been attracted to the same people but we just laughed about it. I have seen two guys get into a physical fight for a girl tho. Funny thing is she was already dating one of them so it was kinda pointless
Hell naw.
Nobody is worth fighting over.
If i have to fight to get or keep someone, is that relationship really gonna last?
Very doubtful
Been then done that. Dumbass me will probably do it again. Some guys are dicks and yeah probably me too but eh when your a dick dick that do things that you just would for your girlfriend you would think I would win that battle.
I never would. Ridiculous. If two guys are interested in a woman, it's her choice. if she doesn't pick me, there are plenty of other single women out there.
No, I have never done that. I don’t know of any of my friends having that experience either. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, it’s just that I’ve only ever seen it in the movies or television.
I have not been in a romantic relationship for a very long time and I can't do such because it makes no sense to me and I have heard of two guys that were fighting because of a girl and during the process one of the guy got killed so I can never do such.
If another guy liked the same girl I liked I’d say he can have her. Why fight for something that isn’t worth it?
No I haven’t n never will, people r replaceable and if u got to fight to have someone you never had them in the first place
Nope, never done it and not really seen it as such.
plenty where one partner has been caught cheating and a fight breaks out.
Seems kind of pointless to me. You both might not even like this guy in the future and may possibly be with other people by then. He'll be irrelevant lol.
Nope! The only female in my life I would fight about was my mother. Otherwise, a female is either mine or she is not. If she is mine we are good! If she is not mine I send her to the streets!
Yes.. I seem to always find myself in these kinda situations... I always like the guy that everyone else is liking 😅
Nope. I'm not willing to play games. The girl can go with whoever she likes. Also, if two girls are gonna fight over me and cause drama I'll leave them both hanging.
Nope. If someone won't make up their mind on whether to be with me or not, I'd make that decision for them by walking away..
What would be the point? If there's another girl involved in the first place, you're don't mean that much to them..
No, not really, I've gotten into fights with other guys for more important things than some girl could ever be.
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