What can I do if I feel like I am stuck in love life and can't find any guys that live near me part one guy that lives near me?

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I am just relly anoyied that i can't even find new guys that live near me at alll. is guys that are from USA. only guy that live near me is that guy that i been trying to set a meetup but some isusse again. should i just call out this guy out of it. I can't do long-distance relationships becuase I can't drive and my mum will refuse to take to the airport. My mum is always very sturbblen with only guy that i can date. I am already tried to talking to my mum but doesn't go anymore but just more arguing and telling me not date mainstream men. Because of my learning disability and will take advantage of my vulnerability after that my mum will be scared about mainstream men will rape you and abuse you.

[GreenLanternI0I]

I understand your point and I also understand your mother's concern as well. Both of you are correct. You want a man for multiple reasons. Sure, love is one of them, but having a long fun conversations and let's not forget about having sex is also something that you want, after all you are a human being. You having a learning disability is a vulnerability that men might use, because they would know you wouldn't want to lose them no matter what they be doing to you, so you just be keeping it a secret to yourself. Your mother knows exactly what she is talking about. I cannot give you a right answer or place you on a right path, because there is no safe and guaranteed road that would lead you to happiness. This world is a dark and evil place and you absolutely CANNOT trust anyone. They might smile and laugh with you, but deep down they are selfish monsters who just want to please themselves only.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

My mum used my learning disability against me more. I always ask the granny question and she always has the right answer. Better than my mum. My mum does a lot of silent treatment. I am stuck with wating for a guy to sent a reply or finding someone new.

[GreenLanternI0I]

In the day and age that we are living in, finding a man who wants more than just sex is Extremely difficult. A 30 year old sexual brainwashing from cartoons, Hollywood movies, music, games and especially pornography destroyed men's brain. And I'll be the first one to admit, I am the victim of that sexual brainwashing myself and I hate this world because of it.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I don't like this modern world it teaches women to be scared of men but for myself for having a learning disability and has more men with a learning disability than women. I have more option for it but I don't think many guys will be my type of game. I only play video game on a switch called Splaton 2 . Hesometimes plays the Sims 3 . I already know that mondern femmmist is all about bringing men down and being very toxic. that why i don't even support it. is also ruin the chaces of learning disabity men and women to have better right and not get abuse by people or verbal abuse. I been cyberbullying by girls with a learning disabity , cyberbully here on G@G and i als been bully in high school and in work place. they did nothing to get rid of the bully.

[t-8900]

try finding a guy willing to court a bit. Otherwise you'll have to figure a way to start getting more independent. Whats your learning disability? Live is hard and its getting harder to find love day by day it seems. Stay strong. Sadly my teens and twenties were filled with constant heartbreaks. Not every guy is a low down pos but your mom has a right to be worried. So maybe seek courtship. Not sure if you are religious but if you found a religious guy he's more willing to do that. Only catch is that if you aren't religious you might have to switch that up or be willing to compromise a bit.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

Modestly dressed, playing video games like walking, crazy golf and mini golf. Learning disability is 18-p always has to be a person with a carer or trusted adult. I can't drive because my learning disability is enticing.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

learning disabity is genetic

[t-8900]

so that means its something that can get passed down to your children?

[Lovesims3plumbob]

Yes it can get passed down from Children. They are in my eggs and they will get sick and die for it.

[t-8900]

hmmm that makes it more tricky tbh. so you'll need to find a guy who doesn't want kids firstly. Ah I don't know where to look for you tbh. A lot of religious guys want their own kids and stuff too. Maybe an older guy who doesn't want kids? Or has had them already?

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I don't want a single-father drama to date. There are other ways to get kids like egg donation from another woman or sister. If not friends.

[t-8900]

a lot of that is also expensive, time consuming, and sometimes has unforeseen consequences. dramas include other girl wanting to have the child to herself, breaking the news you aren't the biological mother, third parties becoming too involved, heavy financial burdens. I don't know I'm just saying people need to be willing to compromise on things on both sides. Some things are deal breakers, some not and everyone is different. You want a guy with a career and also drive you everywhere. But a lot of women want that same guy. You are in steep competition when finances are a motivator, or a stay at home routine. Fewer guys want to worry about financial burdens in general and those that are doing very well won't settle down for many years or aim for a top tier woman in looks, health, all that jazz. its all superficial stuff we're talking about. You connect with who you connect with and sometimes its the people you least expect. You're 23 and sound very sheltered. when you get out into the real world and experience how life works things will change I'm sure.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I already had 9 ex-boyfriends. I got accused of cheating but one ex boyfriend did cheat and got caught on another ex. It was because of cheating That man made up an excuse for me caught cheating. They didn't know they were doing the wrong ex boyfriend. I don't think I am sheltered. girls didn't help much with guys at all. Some girls like to only temp my boyfriend when I did have in college but they all fall for women tricks in college. I went to special learning disabity college and high school.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

the guy got caught cheating and made up a exuse.

[CuriousJC]

I'm not really familiar with England only been there twice in my life for an Xbox convention and Comic-Con. But if you can't find a guy that lives next to you or near you then that just means you're a very beautiful expensive girl. You got to have the big bucks to live in England, I feel like you're not looking in the right places for the guy you want and remember people are picky about different women and different men so there's only a fifty-fifty chance that someone will actually accept you for you and not what's between your legs because that seems what popular these days that destroy relationships. You know you shouldn't rush it, you should let the man come to you and you should not go to the man, because that will make you look like that you're desperate for someone and desperate women mostly be taken advantage of and I hate that. I don't know how England Works down there but you should try going to a speed dating a friend or bar or a place that involves a lot of lonely single people and Mingle. Don't get me wrong if it was possible I would take you in a heartbeat because I am lonely and it's hard to talk to people without the words getting caught in your throat causing you to feel anxious nervous and shy on a global scale.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

That the problems I can't mean that are gone to mainstream school or college since my mum will refuse me to date guys without a learning disability. my mum said I only allow men with a learning disability. Yep I tried to take her about it but didn't work. I did talk to my granny and she had better advice than anyone in my parents.

[Curmudgeon]

Nobody "In England's Green And Pleasant Land" for you at all?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/yZREbmDKyCs

[Lovesims3plumbob]

Can't travel on a plane. I only have to near my town or my mum will refuse to travel part of Holiday/Vacnication. Can't drive.

[blueazure]

Maybe you can try first to going out with him. And it doesn't have to be you who must go there to meet him. He can do that for you too. And about taking advantage of you, it could... probably happen. It depends on the person you meet. Maybe you can try to do what you want. After all it's for your happiness. Not anyone else.

[Guardian45]

Sounds like the eternal emancipation problem, called growing up and out. First get a job, save money and then branch out. A great way to do it is to go to school in another city!

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I already gratude from college and high school.

[Guardian45]

Great! Then get a job, make money and move out on your own!

[I-C3_ME]

What is a mainstream man? Just so I have proper context

[Lovesims3plumbob]

mainstream men that do not have a learning disabity. i am only allow to date men with a learning disabity.

[DanielBlack1904120]

that sounds like your are slimmer but have you looked into any dating apps for that specific thing I'm sure one exists for that purpose

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I already tried dating apps and site and all i got was sex guys

[DanielBlack1904120]

well men have to deal with... something similar so I understand. only advice I can think to give you is don't look for anything. go about your life as if you don't need a partner & I promise one will just pop up

[Lovesims3plumbob]

that will not happen to me since i got a learning disabity. men don't pop for people with learning disabity and wating is in the past

[DanielBlack1904120]

My little brother has what you have & like you problems with love. like you he's negative & uses excuses as a crutch. I hate to tell you but people without any disabilities that are negative & use crutches are lonely as well. it isn't your disability it's your outlook & I'm saying this to try to help not to put you down because it's easy when to get down when your lonely but sometimes you gotta hear something you don't wanna hear but need to hear.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

i already been told by my mum and my dad and my sisters and my granny and grandad. even staff in college. i just want one thing that all. i don't want to be a slut. i hate other girls.

[DanielBlack1904120]

when everyone that loves you says something you should listen. If being alone for a while to you means your gna have to be a slut like that's your only option... don't. I really really would like to see my family on Christmas but I won't be seeing them... I'm gna want to get completely drunk but I'm not cause ill be drunk & think I'm not hurting but really I'm making the pain worse instead just sitting alone.. being sad and taking things as they come so when something good happens to me in the future I won't be still or drunk & not realize it. you understand what I'm saying and how it can help you?

[Lovesims3plumbob]

what of point of listing if they don't even listen to me first. they will not allow me to date men that do not have a learning disabity. only date men with a learning disabity but can only find one but doesn't even text back or reply on weekdays but can reply to just fine on weekend

[DanielBlack1904120]

sister the POINT IS THEY LOVE YOU and are trying to protect you by giving you wisdom they have acquired through experience that you do not have and its far more important than listening to you first... I've listened to you quite a bit and I agree with them so what does that say? you should slow down cause you are in a hurry and you aren't even close to being ready or prepared to be where you want to be. I sincerely hope you listen to your parents I would hate it if something bad happened to you so please quit arguing with a stranger with good advice like a child and slow down I promise if you do that you will not be lonely forever ok. you take care hug your mom and dad theyre awesome parents & on Christmas be happy with them cause it doesn't last forever

[Lovesims3plumbob]

first off i am not of child. both wrong about my sister always accusing me so. why bother listing to you. if you agree with my abuser sisters.

[DanielBlack1904120]

I don't know your sister... calling a lady your trying be cool with just is something we do in the south its an expression. I never said you were a child I said your acting like one and it wasn't to put you down at all look your lucky in this life if you ever have a friend that calls you on shit... it's rare. most don't have it in them to just be blatant with you for your own good... their called toxic yes peope and usualy when your at low in life... the yes people won't be there for you at all so all I'm saying is if somethings telling you something you don't don't want to hear you should listen. I know life sucks. but it does get better. than it sucks than back back better. you may not go what you want but people who are kind & patient tend to get what they deserve & need. it ends up being better than what you thought you wanted so give it time

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I alwauys been giving peple time and never get anywhere part from blocking. i hate my baby face and hate my small ass boobs. i always fucking low

[DanielBlack1904120]

your disrespecting yourself with your outlook. you can't love anyone if you don't love yourself. if the the things you just mentioned are what you want a guy to value about you he's gna be a loser. I hope anything I said can help you out in life but definitely takes ur parents advice it doesn't mean your a child. i took my granmhas advice until she passed when I was married and 27 and my mothers too until she passed when I was 32. one day when there not there you will be glad that you listened to their wisdom

[Lovesims3plumbob]

My granny is much better advice then my parents avdvice.

[Yourfriend2021]

It's not easy to find someone to love in today's world, you're not alone.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I am not sure what do. my mum kept saying to kept in contracted with one guy that i met on facebook. canled at last min to meetup at 5 Sunday but he got flu after that now he saying he being unwell because of covid boster. i am not sure if i am allow to meetup now.

[Yourfriend2021]

I'm sorry, people are playing games. Just see what happens next. I'm on here now and then if you need a friend, don't worry.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

if ther any other way to find people online games or find meetup wesbsite.

[Yourfriend2021]

There are websites and apps but people don't have much luck on there, just people playing mind games and looking to hook up. It's better to meet people at the mall or when you go out if you can.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

i do have a mall but already tried meeting new men in yoth club and some of them has already got a girfiriend. yep even one of my cheater ex boyfriend aslo got to youth club. meeting men in real life has also been zero luck.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

Youth club

[Yourfriend2021]

I know how you feel, it isn't easy to meet someone you want these days.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I know that sometimes social media can help a bit with trying to find a guy. Just make sure you take a trusted friend or adult with you and make sure it is in daytime and is in a public area like Mcodolalds.

[Yourfriend2021]

Yes you are right. I wish you good luck with that.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

thanks. I ask him about why his wasn't online but said he ws picking up his new car.

[Yourfriend2021]

You're welcome and Merry Christmas :)

[PeterSmith1983]

I think you should be more independent and make choices for yourself

[Lovesims3plumbob]

That's a problem I can't make my own choices.

[PeterSmith1983]

That's difficult

[Lovesims3plumbob]

that all you going to say. guy that only been texting hasn't yet meetup but did canled meetup for guy getting flu and now he is unwell becuase of covid boster. i am stuck. i can't find anyone else.

[PeterSmith1983]

I can't make love choices for you... up to you if you want to wait for him or chase an other date

[Lovesims3plumbob]

that isusse i can't find other guys. he only guy that live near me,

[PeterSmith1983]

Tinder, local bar, sports or activity clubs, loads of places you can meet people

[Lovesims3plumbob]

alread tried tinder, youth clubs and other thing. not my type if guy

[PeterSmith1983]

Okay then I don't know sorry

[Zygum]

Be sincere in commitment and confident, surely you will get your choice

[Bklynbadboy12]

Where do you live

[Lovesims3plumbob]

stupid england

[Bklynbadboy12]

Aww that's to bad