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try finding a guy willing to court a bit. Otherwise you'll have to figure a way to start getting more independent. Whats your learning disability? Live is hard and its getting harder to find love day by day it seems. Stay strong. Sadly my teens and twenties were filled with constant heartbreaks. Not every guy is a low down pos but your mom has a right to be worried. So maybe seek courtship. Not sure if you are religious but if you found a religious guy he's more willing to do that. Only catch is that if you aren't religious you might have to switch that up or be willing to compromise a bit.9
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I'm not really familiar with England only been there twice in my life for an Xbox convention and Comic-Con. But if you can't find a guy that lives next to you or near you then that just means you're a very beautiful expensive girl. You got to have the big bucks to live in England, I feel like you're not looking in the right places for the guy you want and remember people are picky about different women and different men so there's only a fifty-fifty chance that someone will actually accept you for you and not what's between your legs because that seems what popular these days that destroy relationships. You know you shouldn't rush it, you should let the man come to you and you should not go to the man, because that will make you look like that you're desperate for someone and desperate women mostly be taken advantage of and I hate that. I don't know how England Works down there but you should try going to a speed dating a friend or bar or a place that involves a lot of lonely single people and Mingle. Don't get me wrong if it was possible I would take you in a heartbeat because I am lonely and it's hard to talk to people without the words getting caught in your throat causing you to feel anxious nervous and shy on a global scale.1
Nobody "In England's Green And Pleasant Land" for you at all?https://www.youtube.com/embed/yZREbmDKyCs1
Maybe you can try first to going out with him. And it doesn't have to be you who must go there to meet him. He can do that for you too. And about taking advantage of you, it could... probably happen. It depends on the person you meet. Maybe you can try to do what you want. After all it's for your happiness. Not anyone else.0
Sounds like the eternal emancipation problem, called growing up and out. First get a job, save money and then branch out. A great way to do it is to go to school in another city!2
What is a mainstream man? Just so I have proper context1
that sounds like your are slimmer but have you looked into any dating apps for that specific thing I'm sure one exists for that purpose13
It's not easy to find someone to love in today's world, you're not alone.11
I think you should be more independent and make choices for yourself8
Be sincere in commitment and confident, surely you will get your choice0
Where do you live2
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I understand your point and I also understand your mother's concern as well. Both of you are correct. You want a man for multiple reasons. Sure, love is one of them, but having a long fun conversations and let's not forget about having sex is also something that you want, after all you are a human being. You having a learning disability is a vulnerability that men might use, because they would know you wouldn't want to lose them no matter what they be doing to you, so you just be keeping it a secret to yourself. Your mother knows exactly what she is talking about. I cannot give you a right answer or place you on a right path, because there is no safe and guaranteed road that would lead you to happiness. This world is a dark and evil place and you absolutely CANNOT trust anyone. They might smile and laugh with you, but deep down they are selfish monsters who just want to please themselves only.
My mum used my learning disability against me more. I always ask the granny question and she always has the right answer. Better than my mum. My mum does a lot of silent treatment. I am stuck with wating for a guy to sent a reply or finding someone new.
In the day and age that we are living in, finding a man who wants more than just sex is Extremely difficult. A 30 year old sexual brainwashing from cartoons, Hollywood movies, music, games and especially pornography destroyed men's brain. And I'll be the first one to admit, I am the victim of that sexual brainwashing myself and I hate this world because of it.
I don't like this modern world it teaches women to be scared of men but for myself for having a learning disability and has more men with a learning disability than women. I have more option for it but I don't think many guys will be my type of game. I only play video game on a switch called Splaton 2 . Hesometimes plays the Sims 3 . I already know that mondern femmmist is all about bringing men down and being very toxic. that why i don't even support it. is also ruin the chaces of learning disabity men and women to have better right and not get abuse by people or verbal abuse. I been cyberbullying by girls with a learning disabity , cyberbully here on G@G and i als been bully in high school and in work place. they did nothing to get rid of the bully.