How can I find a guy to live with me? I don’t want to live alone at 24 any help?

[Sugar100]

Where can I find a guy to live with me? My dream is live with a. boyfriend I don’t want live alone. My step siblings are all happy in life as they live with guy since age 22. I’m alone daily in my studio and depresed, I don’t want my life forever like this. I want live with a guy, see him when we comes home after work, cook for him, have him daily with me. I don’t want a guy to live with his mom. I want a guy move in fast with me like all girls. I’m 24 and I’m truly tired 😞

[molonski2]

I think you are putting too much pressure on yourself , moving in is a BIG DEAL , dont rush it , look to your interests , expand them , live life first and see what happens , dont be impatient.

[Sugar100]

I’m not impatient no girl lives alone they live my dream life and I’m miserable alone I cry daily. No fucking perosn lives alone everyone lives with their boyfriend!!! My dream many years was live with a boyfriend. 😞 I’m now depressed I even lost weight don’t want to eat. Girls are fat as they live with boyfriend no wonder they are happy. I’m skinny as I have no guy live with me

[Tiptoetamm]

Girly bringing a random man into your home might make it worse for you. You need to make sure that the guy gets along with you if take my time with this. I understand you don't want to be alone, but sometimes it's better to be alone. I wouldn't bring a random man to live my home that's for sure

[Sugar100]

This guy I know many years and date will never live with me he lives with his mom pays her bills. I don't know how all girls say they live with their boyfriend and how they get guys to move in fast racing 😞

[Tiptoetamm]

Yeah I don't do that. My best friend moved in with her man after a couple of weeks. I thought it was nuts but they are still holding strong

[Sugar100]

All girls ik move in fast with a guy. I want a guy racing life with me. Only single people live alone I’m not single

[Sugar100]

The only reason girls r happy is cuz they live with boyfriend see guy daily, a girl alone daily living alone would be miserable. All girls have a guy next to them everywhere , it’s their bday they have dinner with parents friends and boyfriend , it’s chritmas a guy is with u and celebrates with your or his family

[Sugar100]

No girl has a boyfriend and living alone as if they were single. Girls live with boyfriend and happy complete in life 😞

[Tiptoetamm]

I have many times I only live with someone if I think I well get along with them all the time. I like to feel the relationship out before I move in with them. I see nothing wrong with an independent woman

[Sugar100]

Ik that guy long time he do nothing we just go to stupid short date that’s it. He don’t live with me I feel I’ll be old and he never live with me

[Tiptoetamm]

Everyone is different girl you do you if he wants to move in have him move in you don't need permission lol

[Sugar100]

I’m not happy alone , this is not my dream, my dream is live with a boyfriend have life togeher , me be apart of his family and mine, spend holidays together , not alone daily I look single cuz he’s never around

[Sugar100]

I cry daily I’m getting older I want live with a guy , I have spent much time living alone I now just feel empty in life , I’m not happy waiting for my man come home after work make food, im alone. My step siblings all have been living with a Prtner since age 22 and have baby and me I’ll be forver n ever alone. They wudnt be happy if they were still 30-45 n alone Never in life live with a. boyfriend spent all their 20s alone crying depresed 😞. They r happy. Is they have a man daily with them and baby 24/7

[Sugar100]

He’ll never move in with me I don’t hear it out of his mouth 😞 he just pays moms bills n rent he loves being 24/7 with his mom rather than me, he do nothing I told u we just go to stupid dates that’s it.

[Sugar100]

We don’t meet fmaily, no pics, he is slower than a snail, I’m alone holidays while my entire family being a man for chritmas Thanksgiving. He do nothing jsut meet for a stupid short date.

[Tiptoetamm]

I mean it sounds like your depressed and I don't think a guy is going to make that better I feel alone all the time and I have multiple people around me if they don't get it or want to understand than it won't help. I think it's what you'd call a bandaid for your problem. I'd talk to your doctor about how your feeling

[Sugar100]

I want see my step siblings alone at my age til now 35-40 and see if they r happy in life 🙁 obviously they r happy as they Have a man daily with them and baby! 😔

[crossdressingrihno]

Agreed I think professional help is more suitable for the situation than a boyfriend

[midnightmoon05]

I don’t think you have a boyfriend.
Move on from that boy… he is not with you as boyfriend/gf… you are not happy in the situation… I won’t even call it a relationship… that’s one of the main cause of your sadness…

1. You have to cut him off
2. Get yourself back together for 6 months, a yr. or 2 yrs… to not date
3. Be happy on your own
4. Go out on dates
5. Bring the joy to meet the right man…
6. Date a year or two
7. Talk about the next step.

[Anonymous]

Don't push it because it makes it easier for you to be abused. Just live happily and meet a guy you like instead of a rushed roommate you might not like. Also good luck finding a 24 year old on their own in this housing market unless you like broke guys

[OlderAndWiser]

What is the incentive for the guy to do this?

[crossdressingrihno]

She said she wants to cook for him and love on him which I feel like would be pretty good incentive

[Gollum]

Hate to break it to you girl, but moving in w someone is a very big deal especially for us guys. Even if you are not married and cohabitate in case of a breakup the guy is fucked. Law nowadays rewards women with half a guy's properties even if they merely lived together, unmarried.

So for guys this is almost as big a risk as is getting married, buz a girl can just call it quits on a whim and take at least half of his crap. Good luck trying to find someone taking those crazy odds!

[crossdressingrihno]

Agreed

[AydenHazor]

Don't rush it, a lot of guys will move in and take advantage of you, make sure you're a good match before you move in together

[Better_off_here]

anyone and that includes you too can move into my house any time you like :) i could always use more friends to talk to :)

[driven159]

it will come in time in the meantime go out and do things like zoos concerts stuff like that

[Anonymous]

Do you live in a city with a lot of homeless? You could start there.

[Anonymous]

I can move in next month.

[legalboxers]

tight hugs!

[adamc87]

Me lol