Should I give up my child because the father refuses to be there and I don't have my dream family?

[Anonymous]

I'm just not wanting my child anymore... Times are just rough right now

Because i dont have a father to give her or a house, i live in an apartment. I am 5 months pregnant, and I can't find a stable partner to do this with me. I kinda lost hope after i found out that the guy I was trying to talk to, was talking to other women. I dont rock with that, at all bc i want stability.

The dad i am not with because he was abusive and controlling. I was even thinking about Calling him up and working things out with him, at least he cared and loved me more and actually wanted something stable, but I just couldnt do it because i felt caged in and controlled with him and he was just cruel.

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Plus kevin samuels used to ask women like "how come you didn't marry you baby father"

[kylee2437]

This is a decision you need to make on your own, but honestly if you are describing your child’s father as controlling, I definitely would stay away. Abuse can make you feel loved even if it is abuse. I thought my ex was loving me when he was abusing me. Do not back track and go to someone like that because it’s going to put long term stress on your life even more. Not sure if the baby was planned, but honestly I’m not sure why many women don’t prepare for worst case scenario to happen when pro creating with someone else because you can’t ever predict the future. This is your personal choice, but if you feel like you can’t be a good single mother, why bring a child into this world?

[Jamie05rhs]

Forget what Kevin Samuels said. If the guy is toxic, then you don't need to be with him.

[MrTaboo]

So it's all about you? Narcissist much? Poor kid...

[Sour-rose]

Yes. :) ain't no reason you can't.

[Guy13]

I do not understand the question.

[crossdressingrihno]

She wants to know if it’s better to give up the child then be a single mother.