Am I Being Selfish For Wanting To Keep My Baby When The Father Doesn't?

I've recently found out I'm pregnant after the pill failed during a one night stand. Given the circumstances the father had been very supportive and has been there for me. However, he has made it clear he is on the side of wanting to abort as he doesn't feel financially ready.

I have done some thinking and I think I'm going to want to keep the child. I have made it clear that if the guy doesn't want to be in the child's life I understand and won't hold it against him as I understand how it's something he doesn't want. When we initially spoke about it he said if I decided to keep it he'd want to try a relationship with me so our child potentially could have both parents living with him.

Yet I feel I'd be taking his life away from him. I do think he likes me but not enough to date me outside of this baby. He's a very good-looking guy who is only 23. I don't want to ruin his life or tie him down. But I know if I go against my heart and abort I'll regret it for the rest of my life. I've got to think about three lives in this situation, mine, his, and this child's and I don't want to hurt anyone.
Am I Being Selfish For Wanting To Keep My Baby When The Father Doesn't?
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