I have recently become VERY attracted to (light skinned) Arab men (sorry, I can't help what I like). How can I find the guys I like?

[Rosemary805]

I live in a city of about 50,000 and there are almost NO Arab men here. In fact I have only seen maybe 2 ever. I just want to be able to find maybe a Syrian or Palestinian man that can handle the fact that I have my own mind. I am 34 years old, attractive, have a 4 yr old kid , I am intelligent and have a curiosity about all things, I read books all the time, dont go out and party, I have about 10 tattoos and I live on the Northern part of the coast of So. Cal. How can I find the type of guys I want?

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+1 y

OMG you guy's I am cracking up !! Im not looking ISIS members, just I like that look of the light skinned Arabs and the accent drives me crazy.

[Mydnite]

Wow that is a new one... Arab men? why? Hope you're not a gold digger. I wouldn't assume you were by looking at you. I like your look by the way. There is just about every race/nationality in SoCal, It can't be that hard to find. You just may need to expand a bit outside your immediate area. There are plenty in LA... but i guess you said that's too far for you.

[Rosemary805]

No, I;m not a gold digger! Whaaat? I dont even want to get married or have them spend a shit ton of money on me. Why? Are Arabs known for being rich? I live a very white city, there are barely any blacks and there are some Mexicans cuz we are above Santa Barbara. There are basically no Arab dudes here. haven't you seen a very attractive Syrian man? Holy Crap they are so good looking. Thank you for saying you like my look. I am into Rockabilly type scene.

[Mydnite]

Sorry, i am not into middle eastern men, not the way they look and certainly not their culture, and I certainly don't know how any women outside that culture can be with how a good portion of them view women.

But i do like the way you look and wouldn't blame anyone for being attracted to you. Myself included :P

[reixun]

Congrats? Pat on the back? Light skinned arabs basically look white so why not just date guys who look mediterranean.

[Rosemary805]

Yes! They could be Mediterranean. But I like the Arabic accent.

[LesbianBusinessWoman]

Find one that respects women and not follow the Sharia Law. You're very beautiful and have neat tattoos.

[Anonymous]

There's a bunch in new York. I had a friend that was into middle Eastern guys who thought I was middle Eastern and fell for me... hard. Awkward times lol

[Rosemary805]

Ya but that's too far, there's a bunch in L. A. too but thats like 3 or 4 hrs away

[AleDeEurope]

Go to Syria, you'll find a lot over there. Search for the ones dressing in black, I've heard they're quite fun.

[Rosemary805]

Great advice, thanks ! I'll get right on that...

[jennifer_bloom]

I would say to consider whether you actually like them or whether you find them curious and interesting. I’ve been fascinated by guys and lost interest after 2 days of conversation. If there are none in your area, see if you can find one in a city within a 20 mile radius of your house.

[akadatank44]

Probably won't. Most Arabs are practicing Muslims. They don't like tattoos and we'll your life. So it be finding a needletter in a hay stack

[i1T2daty]

Why would you apologize for that?

[Rosemary805]

Cuz people tend to get there panties in a bunch when you say what you like. As you can see, the people replying aren't really accepting of it. They are all mostly like "eww, why? ISIS!!"

[Anonymous]

Are we going to soon read about you running off to Syria and joining ISIS?

[Rosemary805]

hahahhaaaa!! FUCK NO

[FromAshes]

You've fetishized them. Good luck with that.

[Rosemary805]

How did I fetishize (spell?) them? I just like the way the look and talk and I am still attracted to white guys, I just want an Arabian Knight.

[TheButterfly]

That's oddly specific

[Rosemary805]

Really? Cuz I always hear guy/ girls saying what type they like, what race, what kind of look etc.

[APRU5]

Im lowkey an iranian jew.

[Rosemary805]

great, but you're 14 and even if you were older, you have pics for me to see.

[APRU5]

no but i look israeli

[Rosemary805]

OOps I meant , you have no pics and are too young

[APRU5]

im not to young

[Rosemary805]

you're 14 sooo...

[APRU5]

Okay and

[Anonymous]

This is obviously satire

[Rosemary805]

Why? A white girl can't be consumed with Arab fever? Fuckin A no one wouldve cared if I said I wanted a black guy with light skin etc. So much for being inclusive!

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of people would have cared, trust me. I'm just saying this is satire. It's quite funny, but, untrue

[Rosemary805]

no dude, i'm very for real about this. why is this hard to believe?

[Opinion Owner]

It's def. satire

[IsraelJordan]

Join isis

[Bad257]

Hi can you send me a message

[Anonymous]

I am here ☝️