Can a girl be too available to a guy she isn’t dating?

[Anonymous]

Can a girl be too available to a guy when she isn’t dating him? Like a guy friend who she talks to all day from good mornings in the am to good night in the pm. We go out and do things together and I go to his house with his family all the time. We have never done anything sexually or physical except hugs and cheek kisses.

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We talk so much and he knows im such a quick responser that if I go too long without answering his call he will text me or call me again within a hour

[clampfan101]

That’s not the same as clingy, if you’re worried about that. I think it would be great for her to be so available.

[Asker]

My friends tell me I’m too available to him and that’s why he won’t ask me out officially. I don’t blow him up or demand his time. I’m very chill about it all and he always calls and text me about 90% of the time.

[clampfan101]

I’d love to date a girl that available for me.

[Asker]

Says he just want to be friends but pursues the hell out of me and treats me very different from the other girls he has as friends

[clampfan101]

I can’t say for sure how he feels.
Maybe some examples?

[Asker]

He always call or text me good morning also good night. Most days we talk from 3 to 5 hours a day between over a dozen calls over more. He always makes excuses to see me even for a few minutes. Always hugs me before we depart. Lots of sexual conversations between us, only conversation not spoken in this subject is us having sex. He has enjoyed me to get close and hang out with his mom. Says he loves me everyday. Has seen me naked in photos except for my private area. Gets jealous over other male
Attention I get which is a lot. Get very defensive when people ask about us dating and makes sure to emphasize we are only friends. That’s just some examples. I could keep going

[Asker]

I have offered a sexual encounter with him but he said he didn’t want to make things awkward between us. Said he didn’t want me to think he didn’t want me. He is always careful about my feelings and about upsetting me

[Asker]

The biggest thing that throws me off is he tells me about girls he use to have crushes on and every time I ask why he didn’t get with them he would say just better off friends. He did tell me about one girl he liked but when I asked why he didn’t ask her out he said he just like his life how it was right now. But he has only done that on days he gave me reasons we would only be friends but he has given different reasons from not having those Feelings for me even though he did in the beginning to he doesn’t want to be cheated on again

[clampfan101]

Wow. Super clingy but not quite willing to try to stick. What do you think would happen if you dated someone else?

[Asker]

You mean he is super cling? I’m not sure… I don’t think he would be very happy about it. He encourages me to stay single… so I think he would be butt hurt over it or maybe he would finally step up more? I have told him if we got into relationships I would have to step back and he made me promise that even if I dated someone else we would still be best friends

[clampfan101]

Well, just don’t let him prevent you from having a relationship if you want one, be it with him or someone else. I’m not sure what else to say.

[seanscoopers]

Just f u C k him

[Asker]

He doesn’t want to says he doesn’t want to mess up the friendship

[seanscoopers]

Maybe he's shy 🙈🙈🙈

[seanscoopers]

Just do it

[clampfan101]

Don’t listen to him. One step at a time.