Why does the guy who was really interested in me never text as much now?

[Anonymous]

Should I just confess that I liked him

[FlutteringFeelings]

Confessing that you like a guy that is pulling away is something you shouldn’t do. You mentioned he was “really interested” but is he planning dates, is he calling you often, is the path to where the two of you are heading clear or confusing? Don’t assume a guy is interested because he’s texting you. A guy will initiate a text with you and the other women he’s juggling. When the conversation is getting short with you that means it’s getting long with someone else.


There is nothing he can do with the information of you telling him that you “like him”. If confessed his interest then you can speak up to make it clear where the both of you stand. If he was interested you would hear from hear from him consistently. The moment he’s busy there would’ve been communication to reassure you he hasn’t forgotten about you. The red flag is he’s no longer texting you as much which says he more than likely is involved with another woman that has his attention.

[Asker]

Last week he messaged that he was all excited that I qas moving back

[FlutteringFeelings]

Right, but what is his actions saying. The over all red flag that puts the icing on the cake is that he hasn’t been putting in effort like he did in the beginning.

You can give yourself a little assignment. Try this. Create a chart and name one time Pros and the other side Cons. Make a list of the good behavior such as conversation that’s not surfaced level, Him making dates, no mixed signals. Then the bad behavior would be if he replies late, isn’t clear on his intentions.

I’m giving you an example. Write down what you like about this guy besides you finding him attractive. This will allow you to see the guy for who he is and not the bare minimum. Him sending you a simple text that he’s excited you’re moving back is a text a guy can send to anyone.

[Jamie05rhs]

@FlutteringFeelings How are you going to sit there with a straight face and accuse him of giving mixed signals when she isn't even being honest with him? Get the fudge outta here.

[FlutteringFeelings]

@Jamie05rhs Take your fight with the Lord not with me. Have a nice day.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. You, too.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yeah; you'd better. Otherwise you'll miss your chance.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[PeterSmith1983]

Yes you should always best to be open and honest, have fun 🔥 with him!

[Wise4myage]

He's lost interests in you and moved on.

[Asker]

Last week he was all excited I moved back to his home town

[Wise4myage]

I think you need to ask him?

[Asker]

All just confess anyway to him