Hey,
So I started talking with this dude through instagram. At first, I wasn't really into it (because I'm used to chit chatting with a lot of guys through sm), so I wasn't thinking twice of it. He would always send pictures, text every morning when waking up etc. which I eventually got caught up in this habit of doing it back as well.
He lives in another city (that I will be moving to in a week) and basically told me a bunch of things. He said how he would bring me to the best clubs, meet people, drive me home from the airport when I arrive etc. etc.
He came to my city for a few days this week, and initiated our meet up. We went on a date and I immediately felt some sort of interest for him (which is HUGE because I'm usually numb of love, since a really traumatizing heartbreak a year ago). He seemed somewhat into me, but answered calls and left to go eat with a friend 2hrs into the date. He kinda gave mixed signals because he tried to hug me etc. and was actually acting interested... But then we payed half/ half for the bill... Which I was surprised at because most men would pay your drink on the first date, but he did not. When I got home he texted me again to make sure I was home safely etc. He told me he was happy to have met me, asked me what I was doing tomorrow etc.
The next days he would text me but never invite me over or ask to do something. Just saying that he's in a bad mood home alone, or meeting up with a friend, or his brother, going out in this club etc. (He did one night at the club ask me to come, but I was busy).
Then suddenly, one morning NO texts. I got frustrated so I am the one who sent a message asking if he wanted to meet up again YES or NO hahaha. he answered yes quite briefly, and since then (it has been 3 days) NO news whatsoever. Maybe he just wasn't interested in me, but then why text me the days after... Like is this dude just playing? I started catching feelings which is pissing me offfffffff badly.
So I started talking with this dude through instagram. At first, I wasn't really into it (because I'm used to chit chatting with a lot of guys through sm), so I wasn't thinking twice of it. He would always send pictures, text every morning when waking up etc. which I eventually got caught up in this habit of doing it back as well.
He lives in another city (that I will be moving to in a week) and basically told me a bunch of things. He said how he would bring me to the best clubs, meet people, drive me home from the airport when I arrive etc. etc.
He came to my city for a few days this week, and initiated our meet up. We went on a date and I immediately felt some sort of interest for him (which is HUGE because I'm usually numb of love, since a really traumatizing heartbreak a year ago). He seemed somewhat into me, but answered calls and left to go eat with a friend 2hrs into the date. He kinda gave mixed signals because he tried to hug me etc. and was actually acting interested... But then we payed half/ half for the bill... Which I was surprised at because most men would pay your drink on the first date, but he did not. When I got home he texted me again to make sure I was home safely etc. He told me he was happy to have met me, asked me what I was doing tomorrow etc.
The next days he would text me but never invite me over or ask to do something. Just saying that he's in a bad mood home alone, or meeting up with a friend, or his brother, going out in this club etc. (He did one night at the club ask me to come, but I was busy).
Then suddenly, one morning NO texts. I got frustrated so I am the one who sent a message asking if he wanted to meet up again YES or NO hahaha. he answered yes quite briefly, and since then (it has been 3 days) NO news whatsoever. Maybe he just wasn't interested in me, but then why text me the days after... Like is this dude just playing? I started catching feelings which is pissing me offfffffff badly.
