A man who doesn’t plan dates? Instead he asks me where to go? Is he for the streets?

[Anonymous]

Women care more about that kind of thing, where you go, what you do etc. This is why I'm always amazed how women almost "expect" the guy to plan the dates, because we really don't care usually! LOL I always like to get her opinion, because then I know we are likely going somewhere she'll like, vs me GUESSING (when I probably don't know her at all yet).

[OpenClose]

What? I mean, you don't get to expect of others what you wouldn't expect of yourself. Girls don't get to sit there and play passive putting all the decisions on him, then freak out when he lets you make decisions for yourself.

[ohboyohboy76]

Yes, if that's what you expect him to do. It could be that he shows affection in other ways, but if your expectations for how he should show affection are that he plans out dates, it may be best to move on.

[slatyb]

That sounds like it would get tiring pretty quickly. Say "You're the man. Plan a date, then ask me."

How's the rest of his life going? Does he have a plan for that?

[DonkeyDan]

He either sounds like he has no imagination, doesn't care, or is afraid to make the wrong decision about the course of the date. Either way he doesn't sound like a very exciting person.

[dr_vincentG]

I mean... if he's a decent guy otherwise or tries to be.. that's not that serious... everyone's got things we like/dislike... up to you though. Technically you don't need a reason to break up with anyone; you do live with it though lol

[awkward_author]

He probably just wants to cater to your wants and needs, as well as spicing up your dates with a little spontaneity.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If he can't open the door for you and take you to a nice restaurant for a nice meal he is not too nice of a guy etc

[Jamie05rhs]

No; you're for the streets. Because you can't use your brain and evaluate choices of where to eat.

[cookiecrusher]

He's for the sheets.

Some people are just laid back, not much info to go on.

[Z1pTD]

No he’s probably just trying to be nice by giving you a choice

[Anonymous]

Why do women like you expect men to do everything in dating?

[Anonymous]

You sound like ghetto trash

[Wise4myage]

That's a real turn off for most girls.

[bamesjond0069]

You got a loser. Good job!

[Waldoe]

wants to take to a place you enjoy

[emperor90]

Probably wants u to pick cause he is a nice guy