If a guy doesn't want to come visit me is he not interested? but he wants me to come to his city?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I'm in a long-distance relationship too. I would always be the one who visit. He has mentioned on several occasion that he would visit but didn't either because of work or other wise. With this being said, I had contemplated ending it with him because I found a nearly empty box of condom in his on a shelf in his closet in plain view during the last visit. He mentioned that he had it since before we starting dating.

[Asker]

well, what he said was that he already has been in my country so I need to visit him. But it doesn't matter anyway cuz we have broken up.

[Tiskins]

maybe he doesn't have the money or time. but it sounds like he is too lazy and just wants to hook up

[Asker]

should I ask if he only wants a hook up?

[Tiskins]

well i would ask why he doesn't want to come visit you, but wants you to visit him. just see if its a money thing or if he is just busy.

[Asker]

he says because he has already visit me, so it's my turn