Long story short, I was talking to this guy back in June we caught up over dinner, the date went amazing and he immediately asked to see me again. Everything was fine, then BOOM he switched up 72 hours later but still texted, sent tik toks etc but was just ‘different’. I began to retreat because I could feel the energy was off, however one night we had a great convo, it was like the beginning again so I asked; do you still wanna catch up again? He said of course I do! I’ll let you know what times I’m free after work XX (he never got back to me and I waited for 2 days) so I blocked him. Fast forward to 3 weeks ago, we matched on hinge and he messaged me. We were talking and then the topic of catching up came up. I asked if I could borrow his jacket jokingly and he said “ it’ll cost you but nothing of the money sort”. I obviously took this as norti favours and was like okay cool! Well I can come over! And he seemed to not like that response? But he also doesn’t organise a beach walk, dinner, coffee etc so like WHAT DO YOU WANT? He’s had so many opportunities to organise a date and won’t but then I offer coming over and he talks about going on dates instead? Make it make sense please 🙃
What does this man want! He doesn’t organise dates but is also iffy about me coming over?
