I make $55k/yr now. Is it still possible for me to find a woman without a romantic past?

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I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I want me and a woman to be each other's first loves. Meaning, I am seeking a woman that has never had a first love or boyfriend before. Is it still possible seeing that I make a decent income now?

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Why are girls saying no?

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Fuck people!!! Why the FUCK NOT!!!

Answer 1

DWornock | 1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Yes, but you must be realistic. Your income helps, but it no more than average for employed men your age and your looks are a little below average. Therefore, with your restrictions, it is not possible for you to marry an average or above average girl. At age 18 only 20% of girls are virgins, even less above that age and that includes the 10% that will never have sexual intercourse.

On a scale of 10 with 5 being average, without your requirement you can get a big girl. That is a 4. However, with your requirement you must settle for 3.5. That is, a girl like this:
I make $55k/yr now. Is it still possible for me to find a woman without a romantic past?

I make $55k/yr now. Is it still possible for me to find a woman without a romantic past?

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Answer 2

MuddyMole

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The kind of girl who cares about money or what car you drive, is not the same kind of girl who's still a virgin in their mid-twenties.

I'd be tempted to say *maybe* if she was from a very traditional, conservative Indian family, but then they'd expect at least a doctor or a lawyer - and that's probably just a racist stereotype anyway (apologies to any Indians out there).
Otherwise, if they've still never been in a relationship by their mid-twenties, there's probably a good reason...

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Answer 3

Anonymous

I thought you got laid off recently? What’s with this obsession with trying to find a girl with no past, you have a past + you’re no virgin. Why she gotta have no past but still accept that you’re still hung up on that Rachel girl - a bit unfair don’t you think…

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Inthecraphole

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I advertised on the local developers Slack channel that I got laid off and I was interviewed quickly by another company and hired on today.

I never had a real relationship before, and I especially did not form romantic bonds from my youth. I cannot say me and a woman knew each other when we were both young and loved each other.
Inthecraphole

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... and this Rachek girl, I only saw her one time in person. She rejected me on the first date.
Opinion Owner

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Big congrats on getting a new job and an increased salary! Seems like your life is getting back on track huh
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Opinion Owner

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The thing with that Rachel girl is that even though you only went out once with her and she rejected you, you still had a romantic bond with her (it just wasn’t official). You’ve talked for months and exchanged I love yous… plus you are still hung up on her and your heart still belongs to her even though she doesn’t want it. So point is you DO have a romantic past so it’s unfair that you want a girl with 0 pasts
Inthecraphole

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We mainly conversed online. She believed I was someone I was not, hence the reason she rejected me when she met me. Therefore, all of it was null and void. Online is different from knowing someone in person. I am crushed because she was perfect when we first met. She pretty much ignored me when I visited her and her family. I talk to her mom sometimes. That is it. She is marrying someone else who is really her first love.
Inthecraphole

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... plus she is being fucked by some other guy on her wedding night
Opinion Owner

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So if you meet a girl and found out she had a thing with another boy online before she met you, would that be okay?

The online thing you had is not null and void bc you still developed feelings for her and you still haven’t moved on even years after. You even ended up meeting her and is still talking to her mom… this double standard that you have for women is just not attractive and makes you undesirable…

You need to work on your insecurities and move on from the past, otherwise you’re gonna be stuck like this forever

Answer 4

Inthecraphole

I advertised on the local developers Slack channel that I got laid off and I was interviewed quickly by another company and hired on today.

I never had a real relationship before, and I especially did not form romantic bonds from my youth. I cannot say me and a woman knew each other when we were both young and loved each other.

Answer 5

Inthecraphole

... and this Rachek girl, I only saw her one time in person. She rejected me on the first date.

Answer 6

Opinion Owner

Big congrats on getting a new job and an increased salary! Seems like your life is getting back on track huh

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

The thing with that Rachel girl is that even though you only went out once with her and she rejected you, you still had a romantic bond with her (it just wasn’t official). You’ve talked for months and exchanged I love yous… plus you are still hung up on her and your heart still belongs to her even though she doesn’t want it. So point is you DO have a romantic past so it’s unfair that you want a girl with 0 pasts

Answer 8

Inthecraphole

We mainly conversed online. She believed I was someone I was not, hence the reason she rejected me when she met me. Therefore, all of it was null and void. Online is different from knowing someone in person. I am crushed because she was perfect when we first met. She pretty much ignored me when I visited her and her family. I talk to her mom sometimes. That is it. She is marrying someone else who is really her first love.

Answer 9

Inthecraphole

... plus she is being fucked by some other guy on her wedding night

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

So if you meet a girl and found out she had a thing with another boy online before she met you, would that be okay?

The online thing you had is not null and void bc you still developed feelings for her and you still haven’t moved on even years after. You even ended up meeting her and is still talking to her mom… this double standard that you have for women is just not attractive and makes you undesirable…

You need to work on your insecurities and move on from the past, otherwise you’re gonna be stuck like this forever

Answer 11

Flower7 | 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Income has nothing to do with that. Unless you’re planning to use the money to order a mail-order bride. (Which might be your best option at this point.)

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Inthecraphole

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She can be 18 or 19 of course
Flower7

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Maybe you can find a pure virgin from overseas who’s never dated before.
Inthecraphole

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Maybe, but a lot of that shit is a scam. I prefer a white woman if possible from the US. I cam easily travel wherever in the US. I have traveled to Michigan, Pennsylvania, and Illinois from TN to meet girls.

Answer 12

Inthecraphole

She can be 18 or 19 of course

Answer 13

Flower7

Maybe you can find a pure virgin from overseas who’s never dated before.

Answer 14

Inthecraphole

Maybe, but a lot of that shit is a scam. I prefer a white woman if possible from the US. I cam easily travel wherever in the US. I have traveled to Michigan, Pennsylvania, and Illinois from TN to meet girls.

Answer 15

DesiUwU

Xper 4

You wanna date a girl who’s daddy would preach on her for touching a boys shoulder? I would date someone who has dated before cuz of all the experience they may have.

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Shamalien | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

A lot of jealous whores will say no, but truthfully, you can. The thing is that if a girl feels the only reason you are interested in her is her virginity, she may be off put. Best not to advertise that so heavily

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Answer 17

Dating101Coach

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You are actually in for a treat. Males above 30-40s is when we hit our prime and you could date any girl any age. Early 20s? No problem.
You gotta get your body into shape, grow a beard and find a hairstyle that works for you

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Inthecraphole

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I'll try
888theGreat

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why does he need a beard?

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Inthecraphole

I'll try

Answer 19

888theGreat

why does he need a beard?

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noohair | 635 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

This whole premise of yours is weird and and you are probably scaring woman away. Who want to be in the crap hole with you?

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Answer 21

Anonymous

Why? That's super insulting. Be you. Love life. Come get some head

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Answer 22

Anonymous

That should be fine but the problem is finding the right person. Most women prefer 80k/year plus. Also not too many women likes nerds or geeks. Just be yourself when your around people

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Answer 23

Anonymous

Forget this romantic past bull you keep going on about. It is not important.

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Inthecraphole

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It is very important to me... extremely. I want me and a woman to be each other's first loves.

Answer 24

Inthecraphole

It is very important to me... extremely. I want me and a woman to be each other's first loves.

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KatherineJ | 689 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

What does money have to do with anything?

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888theGreat | 1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

what state? Women from New York will ignore you

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Inthecraphole

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I am from Tennessee
888theGreat

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pretty good money for Tenn
Inthecraphole

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Yep... junior software developer

Answer 27

Inthecraphole

I am from Tennessee

Answer 28

888theGreat

pretty good money for Tenn

Answer 29

Inthecraphole

Yep... junior software developer

Answer 30

EaterPeter | 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

You better not.

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