I make $55k/yr now. Is it still possible for me to find a woman without a romantic past?

Yes, but you must be realistic. Your income helps, but it no more than average for employed men your age and your looks are a little below average. Therefore, with your restrictions, it is not possible for you to marry an average or above average girl. At age 18 only 20% of girls are virgins, even less above that age and that includes the 10% that will never have sexual intercourse.
On a scale of 10 with 5 being average, without your requirement you can get a big girl. That is a 4. However, with your requirement you must settle for 3.5. That is, a girl like this:
The kind of girl who cares about money or what car you drive, is not the same kind of girl who's still a virgin in their mid-twenties.
I'd be tempted to say *maybe* if she was from a very traditional, conservative Indian family, but then they'd expect at least a doctor or a lawyer - and that's probably just a racist stereotype anyway (apologies to any Indians out there).
Otherwise, if they've still never been in a relationship by their mid-twenties, there's probably a good reason...
I thought you got laid off recently? What’s with this obsession with trying to find a girl with no past, you have a past + you’re no virgin. Why she gotta have no past but still accept that you’re still hung up on that Rachel girl - a bit unfair don’t you think…
I advertised on the local developers Slack channel that I got laid off and I was interviewed quickly by another company and hired on today.
I never had a real relationship before, and I especially did not form romantic bonds from my youth. I cannot say me and a woman knew each other when we were both young and loved each other.
... and this Rachek girl, I only saw her one time in person. She rejected me on the first date.
Big congrats on getting a new job and an increased salary! Seems like your life is getting back on track huh
The thing with that Rachel girl is that even though you only went out once with her and she rejected you, you still had a romantic bond with her (it just wasn’t official). You’ve talked for months and exchanged I love yous… plus you are still hung up on her and your heart still belongs to her even though she doesn’t want it. So point is you DO have a romantic past so it’s unfair that you want a girl with 0 pasts
We mainly conversed online. She believed I was someone I was not, hence the reason she rejected me when she met me. Therefore, all of it was null and void. Online is different from knowing someone in person. I am crushed because she was perfect when we first met. She pretty much ignored me when I visited her and her family. I talk to her mom sometimes. That is it. She is marrying someone else who is really her first love.
... plus she is being fucked by some other guy on her wedding night
So if you meet a girl and found out she had a thing with another boy online before she met you, would that be okay?
The online thing you had is not null and void bc you still developed feelings for her and you still haven’t moved on even years after. You even ended up meeting her and is still talking to her mom… this double standard that you have for women is just not attractive and makes you undesirable…
You need to work on your insecurities and move on from the past, otherwise you’re gonna be stuck like this forever
Income has nothing to do with that. Unless you’re planning to use the money to order a mail-order bride. (Which might be your best option at this point.)
She can be 18 or 19 of course
Maybe, but a lot of that shit is a scam. I prefer a white woman if possible from the US. I cam easily travel wherever in the US. I have traveled to Michigan, Pennsylvania, and Illinois from TN to meet girls.
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You wanna date a girl who’s daddy would preach on her for touching a boys shoulder? I would date someone who has dated before cuz of all the experience they may have.
A lot of jealous whores will say no, but truthfully, you can. The thing is that if a girl feels the only reason you are interested in her is her virginity, she may be off put. Best not to advertise that so heavily
You are actually in for a treat. Males above 30-40s is when we hit our prime and you could date any girl any age. Early 20s? No problem.
You gotta get your body into shape, grow a beard and find a hairstyle that works for you
I'll try
why does he need a beard?
This whole premise of yours is weird and and you are probably scaring woman away. Who want to be in the crap hole with you?
Why? That's super insulting. Be you. Love life. Come get some head
That should be fine but the problem is finding the right person. Most women prefer 80k/year plus. Also not too many women likes nerds or geeks. Just be yourself when your around people
Forget this romantic past bull you keep going on about. It is not important.
It is very important to me... extremely. I want me and a woman to be each other's first loves.
What does money have to do with anything?
what state? Women from New York will ignore you
I am from Tennessee
pretty good money for Tenn
Yep... junior software developer
You better not.
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