I am now going to be making $60k/yr... NOW can I find a woman without a romantic past?

[Inthecraphole]

I just got offered yet another job making $60k/yr with benefits!!!

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I want me and a woman to be each other's first loves. Do you think I can achieve this now?

Yes

No

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[Anonymous]

No. What has money got to do with getting a relationship? Someone with no romantic past will likely be very critical about what they want in a partner or they could have no idea what they want at all - you having money is probably not gonna be a top priority for them…

[De_La_BakedBeans]

Well, yeah, just as much as before. You don't have to have money to find someone you love. Hell, I met my girlfriend before I had even graduated high school, and we've been together for seven years. Sure, we've had out ups and downs, but everything turns out alright in the end. It's not about the money or your job, it's whether or not you two truly love each other.

Having a family is different though. You need to make sure you can support one before you have one.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are unrealistic and obsessed. Even if you make $600,000 per years, girls will not be atracted to an inexperienced, unrealistic, fantasizing dreamer.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Money doesn’t equal finding your love with such narrowed standards lol.

[Inthecraphole]

Why not? I am in the right position to raise a family at this point. I am ready for marriage.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Whatever you wanna do, do it.. But money doesn’t mean girls will flock at you, especially girls with no romantic pasts lol.
Look at you. You’re obsessed with one thing that is almost rare at your age range. You should not be going for girls who are freshly 18, and you should really try to work on yourself before you get into a relationship. It isn’t healthy.

[Inthecraphole]

What about a girl your age?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

A girl my age is literally 1 year older than an 18 year old, dude. You can’t try and date someone who is a decade younger than you, you guys will be completely incompatible.

[Inthecraphole]

That is not exactly true. I know a guy who is 28 in a relationship with a 19 year old and they are a good match.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Listen, you want a girl who has never been in a relationship before it has ever lived before… She is not going to want a guy who thinks he is ready for a family and marriage right off the bat.

[Neosporin]

Yeah that’s a good point. You’re asking a girl to commit to you without any sort of prior experience whatsoever to help her decision making. It’s unreasonable

[Inthecraphole]

@Neosporin
I am not going to push her into marriage when she is not ready.

[Jasmine-Darkfire]

Sorry if this sounds a little rude, my apologizes in advance.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

I am quite inexperienced but I would never get married to a guy with no romantic past or experience. Sure I am planning on saving myself until I get married, but that could change.

I dated in high school, that would disqualify me from your ridiculously high standards but have been single for a bit now.

[Inthecraphole]

I have had sex only once, but it was during a weekend fling. I was 20; she was 16. Both virgins at the time supposedly. She wanted nothing to do with me romantically after that weekend. I had online things with girls, but both of them rejected me when they met me in person.

[Jasmine-Darkfire]

Oh so it isn't that your want a virgin, you want someone who has never been in love. I still say that would be a bad idea, someone at least needs to be in love and have a few romantic relationships to know exactly what they want in life, to know if you will be a good match.

[Inthecraphole]

But it is the hypothetical situation where she can reunite with someone from her youth and it be a sweeter, more desirable outcome, even if she chooses to remain with me. I can never say me and a woman knew each other when we were young.

[Aerissa_Jade]

That isn't all that much money, but you would not want someone without a past, if neither of you do, then your relationship will be very rocky and hard and have a high chance of failure.

If you said you wanted someone without a sexual past, that would make sense but to want someone who has never dated, never done anything is like the blind leading the blind.

[Inthecraphole]

That is a lot of money considering I live in Tennessee. I make more than the average household income, just as an individual.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Good luck then, hope you like your new job.

[Daniela1982]

Oh would you stop your whining and trolling. You are becoming more a turn off.

IN THE CRAP HOLE. BETER KNOWN AS "LITTLE WHINER"

[SnakeBoop]

You were always able to "achieve" getting a virgin technically.
The fact that's what you're bothered about means you're not a catch and that's what you're struggling with

[Inthecraphole]

Well, I am not the greatest, no. But it is not about her sexual virginity per se. It is more about whom she shared her heart with before. Also, it is more than that. I can no longer say me and a woman knew each other when we were young.

[Lucid_Dreams]

How does money correlate to a romantic relationship?

[Inthecraphole]

Because I am ready and stable financially to support a family now.

[muscularbumblebee]

So are many handsome guys with great personalities. If she likes you, she’ll like you and you’ll have a family. Not because of your stability

[Inthecraphole]

@muscularbumblebee I am having such a difficult time even just getting a girlfriend. I am 27 and never had a real relationship before.

[MCheetah]

Are you tall or not? You need to make $250k a year for each inch under six feet that you are. Dems the rules. Blame women. 🤷‍♂️

[VikingWarLord]

Dude screw getting a woman right now, invest in Crypto and Bitcoin.
You'll be a millionaire in a couple years and can have MULTIPLE hot women 8s 9s and 10s

[TheBigGuy9]

Get your job under control first. Get your life under control. Have duck buddies for now and if you run into a great woman, you do. Don’t force it because you’re setting yourself up for failure. Let it happen naturally.

[Anonymous]

Be careful announcing to women that you have money. You're just gonna attract people who wanna use you for money.

[ShadezMcgee]

Out of curiosity, what is the job paying you that much?

[poneglyphs]

Don't really know but just find or do whatever makes you happy

[Anonymous]

Females with morals and dignity are like Aliens.
We know they have to exist somewhere but the likelihood we will see one in our life time is very low.

[noohair]

I told you already, no woman wants to live with a crap hole.

[CarolineW]

It's 2022 not 1850. Not much chance of that.

[LegendaryIcon]

money has nothing to do with love

[Gwenhwyfar]

At your age unlikely

[Inthecraphole]

Actually, I kinda just started talking to a 22 year old girl without a romantic past. She is disabled though.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

@Inthecraphole So what if she’s disabled, at least you got what you wanted lol.

[Inthecraphole]

@WhatTheHeckkkk
Yeah I like her a lot. For health reasons tho, she cannot bear children. But she seems to be taking a liking to me.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Awesome!!!

[siseñor]

yo, what's your job

[Inthecraphole]

Software developer

[siseñor]

time to learn coding

[Inthecraphole]

Yep. Your age is a perfect time. I have no formal degrees. I am just good at my trade.

[siseñor]

Dayum, you really made it bro. I wana make 60k so bad :/

[siseñor]

I WANT MORE FUCKIN MONEY

[Anonymous]

Money means nothing.

[Inthecraphole]

But I can afford to raise a family now. I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend.