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barley if you ask me!!!
How did these relationships normally lasted?
2 years roughly each of them.
Hmm. You had three relationships so should one of those three girls/women did you connect most with or had the most romantic relationship.
Date better women.
So it's a problem with my judgement? Wasn't really asking for constructive criticism rather a insight into current welfare.
Ok, then here's the answer: "Nice guys," are passive aggressive jerks that are afraid to be open and honest with women, trying to get into a relationship through the friendship route, rather than just saying, "I think you're cool and pretty. Let me take you to dinner?"
I don't respect "nice guys," because they are, at their core, liars, and they get nasty when their con doesn't make a woman fall in love with them. Then, when a woman points out that they were essentially lying to her, and have no right to get mad, they tuck their tail between their legs and act depressed.
"Nice guys," are people who turn themselves into doormats in the hopes of being liked, and then have the audacity to be shocked that people aren't into doormats. I'm NOT saying it was right for you to be cheated on - it wasn't. But if you don't respect yourself, then don't expect anyone else to respect you, either.
Thanks for taking the time to type that, I appreciate it. I can see the term nice guy has quite a stigma to it now. Quite unfortunate, as I don't behave that way, the takeaway I was able to receive is to be assertive and not play the friendly side heavier than s/o side. Thank you.
I apologize if you thought it meant something else, but the people who call themselves that are derided for good reason. Take a look at all the examples here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/
Oh well that's just unfortunate 😂
It is. But that's what these people do. When you hear that most rapes happen from people the women know, your mind immediately thinks of the "nice guys," in that subreddit.
Well shit huh, I see the point you're making though and why the stigma exist. It's warranted with their behaviour. Thanks for all your insight.
By putting his woman above other women. 😘👌🏻
Doesn't work. I gave my ex everything. Paid her bills, her car and was paying for her college. I took an extra job for her. I only wanted her to succeed and fulfill her dreams. I brought her self esteem so high that she eventually thought she could do better than me. So she dumped me... Well, that was 2 years ago. Now she's dating a narcissist and he forced her to quit college.
@ananias55 If you've met a bad woman, that's not my problem. The interesting thing is that; You make all the sacrifices for the bad women, but because of the blow you received from these bad women, you put other good women in the same category with them...
No, most women are toxic. But I learned how to read the bs. For instance if a girl always makes herself out to be a victim then she's toxic.
Why do you think a lot of men are done dating? Cause it's not worth the it anymore.
@ananias55 bs? What
The lies, the manipulation, or when they're looking to use you to get something. It's pretty easy to spot once you start looking. Most men blindly trust women, and that's the easiest way to get manipulated.
@ananias55 oh ok. But I have never seen a man blindly believing and trusting a woman.
Thats was me. Guess I was the exception. But I won't make that mistake again.
Okay
I believed and trusted my ex when I moved three hours away without a car to go to a college in her area and a week or two later she cheats on me as if I meant nothing to her. @ananias55 is absolutely correct.
Men make so many sacrifices for their woman and those sacrifices are ignored completely by said woman regardless of whether she's a good woman or not. They're all selfish
@Heartache0405 It depends on what kind of woman you choose. It's obvious that you haven't chosen a good woman. It's funny how you see one bad woman's fault as all women's fault.
@Opinion Owner Can you tell us which of women are good women and where to find them. As guys you only chase, it's the woman who chooses us. Women have all the power in the dating game.
Yeah, @OP, what's your idea of a "Good" woman? Because a man's idea of a "Good" woman isn't the same as a woman's idea of a "Good" woman.
@Heartache0405 and @ananias55
According to you, a good woman is just "external beauty". But in our opinion a good woman should have "inner beauty first". Packaging can always be misleading. sometimes you have to check the contents. Yes, this is a cliche advice. But it is a very important criterion in choosing a good person.
Well, I already believe that the more attractive she is the more baggage she probably has and the shittier personality she most likely has. Plus the higher her self esteem is which would lead to her thinking she’s done goddess that men should be worshipping. I don’t want something like that. Which is why I avoid them. If I find someone attractive I admire from afar and start the F away.
Okey well oone.
And I would appreciate if you don't write any more messages. Because I don't want to receive notifications. Thanks.
Done*
Just turn notifications off. That’s what I did 😅
I've dated both pretty and ugly women. It doesn't really matter. Women tend to act the same and have the same level of selfishness. Is it so hard to ask for a woman who will take care of both our physical and emotional needs? Cause most only want to be pampered and give nothing in return. What man wants that?
@Heartache0405 I don't want to deal with turning off the notification. If you two want to chat, you can go private and chat. 👍
and please no more comments. Go and gossip about women in private amongst yourselves. 🙏 please come on
No, if you don't like it then turn off your notifications. We don't have to cater to your needs.
@ananias55 this is my comment. and you are the ones who pollute my comment. That's what I said in my comment. If I had written nonsense in your comment then you would have been right. understand what I mean?
It depends how Confident he is.
Stop being a beta simp and become a man.
By stop sounding desperate for relationship
Keep being nice. You’ll find the right one
My fiancée is a stereotypical nice guy and I couldn’t be more crazy about him.
men who call themselves nice guys are not nice
It’s very difficult
I mean it seems so, been trying my best but me personally I need a S/O to be the best version of me. When single I get quite down and tend to go back to my lazy ways.
Sorry to hear that
Probably not well.
Trust
Honestly
Kind
Don't be that guy
A nice guy or a pussy with no backbone?
Fuck off.
:):)