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Never be just nice.
Be yourself, don't take shit from anyone and treat other fairly, how they treat you.
With women, contrary to popular belief, they need you more that you need them. Don't use it to become an asshole but understand that it's them who are missing out and their time is very limited to play any games.
Don't waste any time with somebody who doesn't care about you and devote your time to those who are crazy about you.
We all get hits and misses. You are young. Everything is on your side. Be yourself. Be genuine. Keep searching.
Bro you have to treat women like trash or let them know they are replaceable. just like you I’ve somewhat struggled with women in the who I initially attracted off my looks. Women want dominate/mysterious men and being genuinely nice all the time gets old very fast.
Every time I date someone and I’m super nice and chivalrous I always get friendzoned. However, when I go on dates with a “fuck it” mentality I order whiskey, tell funny stories and act like a goof I get the girl in bed on the first date. So screw the nice guy act. Woman want a guy who’s fun, exciting and has - backbone
What makes you so nice? I’m nice, my friends are nice, most are in happy relationships. I can’t tellmyou what to do because I don’t know any of the particulars.
To be a good man in today’s world is to literally be too good for today’s world lol
The world is lost. The signs are everywhere and people still don’t get it.
You can ether learn from your mistakes and go your own way.
Or you'll get used again.
Nice guys finish last, how old do you think that saying is?
I met a girl on bumble, took her up to my hotel room to use the bathroom (after a super fun night), made out with her and then walked her to her car. The next day she told me she was too much for me to handle.. probably because I didn't get her into my bed. Honestly, don't focus on girls, focus on your hobbies and friends and the girl for you will naturally fall into your life.
Your first clue to the answer to this question should be to look at the responses you received from women on here. That should tell you right there that being a "nice" guy is not going to result in success w/ women.
This dangerous world desperately needs much more nice, assertive guys.
Girls don't want nice guys, they want guys who won't make them feel guilty when she ruins their life, and destroy their heart
That almost a direct quote of my ex wife.
Well, it's good to know that I'm correct
In my experience, guys who really are nice don’t announce it.
They show it. Honestly, if you really are nice, you WILL find a nice girl that shares your values. If you are actually nice.
There are men who expect a women to be pure and not TVD with a lot men
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There are me who expect a woman to be pure. And not TWD with a a lot of men and that’s just not realistic. Unless yo I want a child. However. I always felt like I needed an emotional connection with a person I was dating.
I'm a really tough and strong guy but I'm always nice to people. Girls like to be treated a certain way and there's a bunch of crap on here about nice guys and stuff. Just be yourself but don't let people walk all over you. You can be nice and still be tough, people get out of my way, but women like me because I respect them and treat them with kindness.
Thank you. I really like your comment because it sounds like you respect women regardless of the outcome. I would Def be a interested in you
@Angie221994 You're welcome and that's nice of you to say. I can follow you if you want, it would be nice to meet someone that is caring in today's world :)
same as always. you won't have success with women and you will struggle with success in life in general, untill you realize that nobody wants a "nice guy".
Don't put women on a pedestal. No woman is capable of living up to your expectations of her and for her that is creepy and restrictive.
She can't relax and be herself with you.
Great question, being nice and respectful is horrible apparently. Or women just want bad boys that treat them like shit. I mean yes there is the part of being too nice and being a floor mat. I guess they do not like being respected?
You're right. Women just want bad boys who treat them like shit so that they use that to blame all men. It's an extremely manipulative tactic that gets a lot of people. Even the men who want to fuck them by being feminist "allies" 😂
@Heartache0405 Yup! , so strange this world. I'll never understand humans
Me neither... All we can do is understand who we are as individuals. Live life for ourselves and not to please other people. Especially women because they expect it from men.
You've just gotta find the right one. I like to think of myself as a "nice guy". My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 years...
All men claim they're nice guys when they're truly not.
I don’t claim to be a nice guy because how can I be if a girl barely knows me. It’s just a go-to thing guys say to try to sleep with girls. I know myself, guys have to prove it.
Exactly!!
by the way I didn’t dislike your comment. I agree that the majority of guys say they are nice. I know guys I used to talk to would say “bro wtf this girl rejected me I’m nice, I’m gonna tell her off now”. I’m like dude who cares drop it. If you told her you’re a nice guy and go insane that only proves she was right about you. Move on, and have a different mindset. I’ve told this guys before. I admit to, in my younger days I was immature and I would say I’m nice but get mad easily. Then I realized in life, friends/family move on to other things where you speak to them less, so why should a girl be entitled to keep answering a guys messages if he was an asshole or a liar in the past.
I always say 'I'm not a nice guy' and it gets the same results as saying 'I'm a nice guy.'
Why say anything at all? It just shows the person is fake.
If you're nice, you're nice for your mental welbeing. Being horrible is consuming and depressing, but you have to gage when to be nice and when to keep a distace so you wouldn't have to react to idiots
it seems that you already are aware of how it goes for a nice guy.
but you should not have to change who you are for a woman or anyone to like you. everyone gets cheated on regardless of who they are at some point.