Why is he out to get me?

[Lelies67]

this guy i known him 4 years and he always seems to gossip about me tries to upset me, and also talks badly about me. He seems out to get me, i had sex with him bit i felt so bad afterwards because he showed his real face.

[jaybee281]

Because he doesn't care to the point that he'll say whatever he feels like saying - He's not out to get you - It's just a nonchalant thing for him to talk shit about you... Like someone asks him "hey how is Mariella by the way?" "that bitch? I wouldn't know really, whatever, she probably sucking some black dick now" - then he forgets about mariella or that he ever said something about her and goes on and lives a normal day..

[Lelies67]

So he's careless?,

[RearEntryGuy]

Am I right that

1) you lose your virginity at 26,

2) then knew him at 28,

3) had sex, and

4) lately at 32, he taunts you?

Did you tell him when you met him at 28 that you were a virgin?

(I'm a little confused with your Details and your replies.)

[Lelies67]

No i met him when i 26 , i was avirgib lost it to some other guy , i live with him now he my roommate

[RearEntryGuy]

You replied "he says i am a slut, he say i am not a clean person". When did he said those words?

[Lelies67]

He said many zimes

[RearEntryGuy]

And still with him? He doesn't even respect you.

Was it because you did not tell him that you were not a virgin the first time you had sex with him?

He could be that kind of man that allow himself to sow wild oats, but want only on virgins.

I don't know, if that be true, you may want to consider a better man.

[Lelies67]

He seems to like women who do bad things

[RearEntryGuy]

LOL! Bad things?

Have you wondered what constitutes "bad"?

And more importantly, he "likes"... what of you? As a person? (I doubt) or as a sex object? Or as an object of his sadistic pleasure?

You think and decide.

in my opinion, you worth more than what he said brought were.

[RearEntryGuy]

* brought = you

[Lelies67]

Bad women who are lazy dont work

[RearEntryGuy]

In other replies, he called you slut, unclean.

Now his "bad" is laziness, don't work.

Come on. Do you actually know what he'll wants?

Or more specifically, what do you want in life? And more specifically, what kind of man?

No offense, but I think you need to know yourself a lot more before you enter a relationship.

[Leonharted]

You can't control other people, only yourself. If you don't like what he's saying, and its true, change yourself so that you aren't that person anymore. If its a lie, then you know its a lie and your actions will convince him that he's a liar.

[Lelies67]

I am a vrigin and he says i am a slut, he say i am not a clean person while i clean,

[JohnK123]

U aren’t a virgin u literally said above u had you know with him
Smh

[Leonharted]

I don't understand. You said:
"i had sex with him bit i felt so bad afterwards because he showed his real face."
If you had sex with him, you aren't a virgin anymore.

[Lelies67]

@JohnK123 no i meant i was a virgi up 26

[JohnK123]

Then u should have said that
But still u aren’t one right now so what’s the point

[In_Trance]

He keeps doing it because you keep paying attention

[Lelies67]

Whstcu u mean

[JohnK123]

Listen up:
no one is out to get u
this is true for anything