Why are men always right when it comes to relationships?

[Anonymous]

[Jintendo18]

Women are always right when it comes to the terms of consent, and men are always right when it comes to the terms of commitment. I’d say it’s a fair balance.

[Asker]

Men have more of the upper hand though.

[Jintendo18]

Yes and no

[Intothevoid666]

Ur simply wrong

[Jintendo18]

@Intothevoid666 You’ll see bro

[Intothevoid666]

I was replying to the asker of the question. Wish it specified that on here.

[Intothevoid666]

@jintendo18 oh I see how u did that now.

[Anonymous]

Because men are much better at remaining emotionally detached. Women GENERALLY attach emotion to everything.

[ChrisMaster69]

We are not, neither guys nor girls are always right.

both are very fallible with relationships, often really stupid things.

[DaveJord]

Are your you crazy? :-) What makes you think guys know more than you about dating?

[Asker]

Because clearly men are able to hookup as many women they want to if a woman does it she is a hoe. You don't realize how complacent men can be especially if they just want sex from us ladies because they think that is all we have to offer. It isn't my fault that every man doesn't see me as wife material.

[DaveJord]

Well you sound pretty smart to me, like you know about the hazards of dating... and everything you just said proves that guys are not "always right" or smarter about relationships than women are. You just made my own argument for me.

[Asker]

People make it out to be that it is the woman's fault because we sat there and put up with it.

[DaveJord]

Well if you put up with it, then you are making seem as if it is okay. You should never do that.

[Asker]

Well they are going to do what they want to do all you can do is leave everytime someone doesn't want to behave.

[DaveJord]

Well yeah pretty, much... but it doesn't mean that guys are always right about relationships.

Maybe you should do some self reflection and think about how you can attract better guys. Because not every guy does that ands its never everytime, but if you're constantly dating the wrong types of people then you need to consider your own choices and improve on them. Because not every guy is like that, and do not forget lots of women cheat to.

[Intothevoid666]

Yeah but do u know how much more effort that man has to put in and do u know the quality of the women he’s hooking up will be versus vice versa. U conveniently ignore that like 95% of men are not getting consistent hookups even if they want them.

[TwistedSukuna]

No one person in a relationship is right 100% of the time.

[Asker]

https://youtu.be/_35v-l44DFQ

[Asker]

Watch 18 minutes into the video

[Nomoturtle]

@Asker I wish you would have put something like this in your question rather than leaving it absurdly vague, there's way too much interpretation to it.

So, I guess you're talking about the point around 18:00, that he has no sympathy for single mothers because women should be responsible for who they pick as a partner.
He explains this perspective at 25:38 - 27:20 with the criticisms:

Most single parents are women, and most of them chose this outcome.

This choice either to break up with their partner, or not have a partner to begin with is a selfish decision, and doesn't consider the child (or the man) highly enough, yet they're praised for making the lives of the people around them worse.

It's not a hard argument to understand. If you're going to have kids, make damn sure you won't end up as a single parent. That goes for everyone. If it was the man running away from the relationship then it would be his fault. Simple as. However, the majority of breakups are initiated by women and the majority of single parents are women. This is especially egregious when the reason is something like "I was bored", or a failed monkeybranch. And regarding the political correctness regarding single mothers, as you may predict, parity is not offered to single fathers.

It's not always that easy, people change, but that goes both ways.

[TwistedSukuna]

^ This. Couldn't have said it better myself brother

[Berethor]

Because women tend to be more delusional.

[Asker]

No men are because they don't know how to keep their dicks in their pants

[HeartFullOfGlue]

They aren't always right, nobody is

[Asker]

you're 14 you haven't dated much.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

That doesn't matter

[HeartFullOfGlue]

its like, actual common sense that nobody is always right

[Asker]

Well this is a man's world majority of the time the man is always right

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Mans world or not, that doesn't mean they're always right

[magiusX26]

who told you that lie?

[Asker]

Clearly men don't see anything wrong with sleeping with a bunch of women.

[Intothevoid666]

Maybe women should not date those men then…… but then still do so u can’t complain.

[Gwenhwyfar]

They aren’t lol

[Asker]

When it comes to sex and relationships they are a woman can't argue with any man because they are right they have control over that.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Bullshit. Night.

[Asker]

Yeah they do they say it is on the woman. Men don't have to take responsibility because they say that the woman allowed it.

[FilmGuy93]

We aren't?

[FilmGuy93]

Asked as a question because we are not, and I'm wondering why the asker is saying that we are.

[Asker]

Usually you all are it really matters what y'all like

[FilmGuy93]

But at the end of the day, the lady has to be happy. She's the one that decides if the relationship happens. You have the final say

[Asker]

Yeah but if the guy doesn't want the relationship is she can't make him.

[FilmGuy93]

That is true... it goes both ways.

[Asker]

You other men like to blame us because we can't change Chad here who doesn't want to commit to us. So I can't win for losing when it comes to dating either date some guy I don't like or some guy who wants my body.

[FilmGuy93]

In a lot of ways, we get to decide how people treat us though. And again, that really is true of everyone. Like obviously you aren't intentionally going after Chad, but there's clearly something about the way your brain is wired that makes you go after and desire men who can't provide you what you need.

This might be something that you want to go to therapy for, or otherwise take a look at your past traumas in life and focus on getting healthy.

[rabbitzzz]

Like when?

[Asker]

When it comes to sex and relationships they have the say and it is a losing game when women try to argue with them.

[rabbitzzz]

Na a. Not true.

[Asker]

I was arguing with a bunch of men on my question what don't men be held accountable? A bunch of men say that if a woman doesn't want to get taken advantage of don't sleep with him.

[Anonymous]

I thought it was the other way round