How can I find and date a military guy?

[Anonymous]

[libsaretards]

Hang around a major base. Warning though: Military men are still men and there is really no difference between dating them or anyone else other than the fact that they can be called away at ANY moment for ANYTHING. Do not go in thinking you will automatically find a good man just because he is military. We have shitbags same as in civilian world. Maybe not AS MANY shitbags, but they are still there. You are better off finding a man (military, law enforcement or civilian really does not matter) who lines up and is compatible with your lifestyle.

[libsaretards]

Also remember the government owns their free time so do not be upset if he has to suddenly leave. Chain of command can be a bitch sometimes. When I dated, girls were always suspicious when my work hours would change with no notice or I would be called away at 2am because an NCO ordered me back for some reason.

[BCA6010]

Live near a military base, for starters. If you aren't within convenient driving distance, they aren't going to waste their time with you. Every base has a mileage radius that troops are allowed to travel around freely without taking leave or a pass.

I'm not sure what you're expecting out of such a relationship though- it's considerably more stressful than average, and the military divorce rates are historically higher than the national average.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

There’s a lot on tinder or bars near local bases.
I ended up with one lol, but a great one.
And I’m just gonna warn you… The majority of the military guys are assholes and will knock up and marry a girl in 2 months just to leave the barracks and get extra $$$. Often ending in divorce. Not all, but most are like that nowadays. They drink a lot too.. Have fun.

[Still-alive]

Yeah i heard not great things about them too lol

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

@Still-alive Lol not great at all. But there’s some normal, good guys there. Maybe like 3% of them lol.

[On_cloud_wine]

Considering how old you are, if you ever thought about restaurant work, I suggest you find out where they like to eat.. maybe somewhere close to their base and maybe one day you’ll lock eyes with your Prince Charming as you deliver his unsweetened tea, and you’ll just know.

[Still-alive]

*prince charming is here now* :p

[On_cloud_wine]

@Still-alive you are quite charming but I’m not sure you’re my Prince Charming!

[Still-alive]

hmmm then how come i turned back into a hooman from the toad curse when you kissed me? ;P

[On_cloud_wine]

@Still-alive too many intoxicated flies in your diet that night impaired your judgement?

[Still-alive]

maybe, but obviously you weren't impaired :P

[PositiveNote]

Here’s what you do. Volunteer to work with the USO or other volunteer organization. You’ll meet plenty. Just be sure to ask if they are married—you need to filter them out!

[libsaretards]

YES!

[PositiveNote]

@libsaretards Yeah, it's not just military guys, of course! However, military guys really like it when ladies serve us in those capacities!

[RawIronhide]

Ya gatta go over seas. Why u girls get hung up on labels. Not all military men are decent folk ya know. Doesn't mean nothing except that they're in shape.

[Daniela1982]

You know that they have a lousy marriage length rate because they are always deployed someplace for a year or more. Therefore cheating is a big problem on both ends. Just something to think about.

[abc3643]

This song is for you...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZpKojZ8pvw

[abc3643]

I think my grandson is available... He just turned 18 and is going into the Navy this summer having officially joined on his 18th birthday last week.

[Anonymous]

Do you know anything about the military life? Make sure you know what you are chasing. Family dragged around, they are hardly home, worried they are in danger. Not that their job is in any way unworthy, to love them is no easy thing.

[libsaretards]

Exactly. As a vet myself I could not give better advice than this. Think of it this way. If you would never date a cop, do not date a servicemember. Those people are cut from very similar cloth.

[TheBootyChest]

Find a military base/town and spend time around there so you can raise the chance to meet that type of guy.

[TheorionMage]

Check in with your local U. S. O. for the occasions they hold social mixers and letter writing campaigns.

[Fireguy17]

Move near a military base, or I wonder if there are dating sites for that.
I would try that first before moving.

[libsaretards]

Unfortunately as of the time I left the Navy (2015) no such site existed. We were forced to use the same dating sites everyone else uses.

[Avicenna]

It used to be that you could just go to the local bars and clubs where they hung out. I guess now you can find them on Facebook.

[Lynx122]

Go to a country where there's mandatory military service ^^

[Citizenkirk]

Become a gluten for punishment and loneliness and heartache.

[Tomsta]

Why would want to date a guy that's as dumb as a spoon and might not actually come back from fighting?

[Kyle-Jackson78]

i have the same question, I would worship that guy in the photo and sleep on his chest and 😍, Havin those big arms around u has got to feel amazing

[errorgoodnameunfound]

If you were older, I would perhaps propose a three way :)

Gawd men are awesome <3

[Anonymous]

Find an area near a military base. There's one in my city and even civilians have a strong support for the military and hints of military culture

[boredguy007]

Where are you from?

[Opinion Owner]

@boredguy007 One of the cities with a military base in them in the US

[boredguy007]

Ohhh. Nicee. Could we have a chat?

[Waldoe]

go to the nearest Military base, and find the local bar that is close to that base... they will find you

[SaraSmithishere]

I am almost 100% there's an app or a website for finding one of these guys

[rabbitzzz]

There was a bro in airforce telling his sad life. Maybe he will see this post.

[UdontNeedtoknow]

Go to San Diego. That whare i was stationed. Plenty of sailors and marines for you there, and its a really cool town. especially in your 20's.

[libsaretards]

Avoid soldiers. Marines and Sailors are pretty cool, but many Army guys are assholes to anyone who is not in the Army.

[Sabretooth]

don't romanticize them... you'll be quickly disappointed.

[libsaretards]

Also, they can be called away at a moment's notice for ANY bullshit reason their superiors decide.

[Sabretooth]

@libsaretards that I won't hold against em. they just don't often make the best mates.

[Hellraiser1984]

Move near a base. Bars near the base have lots of them