How was it? What are the do's and dont's of these relationships?
Are you military or coast guard? What are your experiences in dating someone who isn't in the military?
I've been dating I guy in the military for 7 months now. You should always give him support he will always appreciate that quality. Its pretty hard for me I mean he comes back next year and being faithful is not exactly a walk in the park but I'm holding. The most challenging thing for me is seeing him VIA Skype and not being able to hold him. But the pro"s in this is that your will power really does grow stronger and your patiences is tested in the process and he will see that and value you more on the count of what you did for him
i met someone in army years ago, treated me awesome, was quite arrogant, but figured he was just proud to be in the military, we got married in time, he went to Iraq & we had great communication during but later found out how much cheating he was doing while gone. he turned out very arrogant, demanding, verbally abusive, lots of attitude, acted like everybody "owed" him something because he was there & in the military. not all are that way, but my experience turned out very badly, we HATE each other now (obviously we divorced)
It's hard. They get stationed in different places and they work all different shifts and it changes from time to time. It takes work and commitment as well as understanding and a whole lot of trust. lol
Army, Can't say I've had one yet but looking forward to it I suppose. The thing with the Coastguard is that maybe they'll get moved around different locations within the country. It's rare for them to get sent Overseas(less stress there). But there's this pretty redhead girl whose in the CG that could tell you all about it :)
The military has a lot of really good looking women. They are strong but also feminine at the same time. But do keep in mind they will be gone for a long time and you will have someone you love wondering if they are coming home and that is heartbreaking.
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I currently am! First things first, deployment SUCKS. It's one of the hardest things and just because you go through it once doesn't mean it'll get any easier. Feel free to as me any other questions!
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