Why do I keep meeting woman after woman after woman who I could potentially be really compatible with but all they want is my attention?

[Intothevoid666]

I can’t explain how frustrating and irritating it is to meet woman after woman after woman and all they want is attention from me and not a date. It’s hard to not be mad at women when they all do this. How am I supposed to ever have a serious relationship when every woman I talk to does this?

[SphynxUK]

What do you mean by attention?
While I wait for an answer, I will say that perhaps they don’t know how interested you are in them? Or maybe they are just getting to know you a bit first.

[Intothevoid666]

They want me to pay attention to them. Like legit 99% of women I talk to only show interest when I stop showing interest. They’ll say they love when a guy gives them tons of attention but it’s not true. I don't know how I’m supposed to date anyone when all the women I talk to do this?

[Anonymous]

They probably have some other traits in common which are attractive to you. Maybe you can see a pattern and can avoid that, but else try to go for clearly other types of women, search another place, just change up whatever it is you do.

[Intothevoid666]

It seems like most young women do this but I don't know it’s hard to read a lot of the time.

[Opinion Owner]

so you already go for several types of women, and meet and approach them in different ways?

[Intothevoid666]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

They might not recognize yet, that you are interested in them as a person. They might change once you get to know them better. If not, of course move on.

[Intothevoid666]

How can I get to know them if they ignore me?

[mangoandmartini]

Don’t search for it, let it find you and it will in the most natural of ways, I know it sucks to be lonely but I learnt the hard way I was always online telling to men etc and on dating apps and then I met my husband 8 years ago through work :)

[Intothevoid666]

But I’m 26 and I really need this to happen now I’m starting to get too old to start a serious relationship so I’m worried.