Why do Indian parents often wish for their children to marry a white person when it comes to interracial dating?

[Anonymous]

When it comes to interracial dating, I know Indian parents tend to encourage or be very open to their children dating white people. And on flip side lose their shit and even give nasty looks at their kid bringing home a black person.

For example, I remember this cute Indian girl say that she would get nasty looks from Indian guys/girls if it even looked like she was on a date with a black person.

On flip side, while working at a clinic, I remembered female, Indian doctor that I worked with brag that she bet her daughter will marry a white boy.

Also when I say Indian, I'm not talking about people from India country. I've seen this shit in Indian families who live in Western countries like England, Canada and North America and are second generation immigrants.

[I'm indian by the way]

[Anonymous]

I think it's not generalized because I have seen a lot of Indians not preferring marrying white person because here people judge white people for their unstable marriages and lot of divorce n stuff.

And then there are people who just don't care

And there are people who think white is pretty and good so they'll have white babies in their home.

But most of the families I have seen don't really prefer inte-race marriages

[Anonymous]

Because internalised racism as a result of colonialism. They think white skin and white people are superior. It's the reason why many Indians seek white validation
Don't be offended because I said the truth. This is what i have seen in reddit and other Indian girls youtube channels

[Opinion Owner]

Plus if you get with a white guy, you might have white babies. Don't Indian parents find white babies the cutest?

[Messianic_Monk]

if I may interject (as an Indian myself), I think it goes farther back than that. The caste system always favored light-skinned people. And that was LONG before the white man showed up. So I do not think that that is a fair assumption. Is it racially motivated? Yes. But that existed long before whites showed up.

[boggboss]

Because many of their cast systems are linked to the dark or light of their skin so marrying white has a better image for the family

[Berethor]

Because white is the best looking race, and indians don't care about being PC.

[Anonymous]

I never bought any of that "size matters" crap until my junior year in college. I lived in the dorms with two roommates, David and Jamal. David was a pretty ordinary looking guy, kinda quiet - but Jamal was tall, lean, muscular, black and (according to him anyway) was hung like a bull. He used to joke about it a lot - even around my girlfriend, Sinitta. Sinitta was a sophomore and was petite, shy and somewhat quiet. Like me she is indian. I didn't like it when Jamal would make his "big dick" comments and jokes around Sinitta, but she told me she didn't pay any attention to him and truth be told, she really couldn't stand Jamal. I have 3.5"inch dick average sized for an Indian make and with Sinitta being so petite, it always seemed to do the trick. I was the third guy she'd ever been with and only her second boyfriend -and they were indian too, maybe my guard was just down but who knows. Anyway, one Friday night, Sinitta and I were hanging out in my dorm room drinking, smoking some weed and watching TV. David and Jamal had both gone home for the weekend - or so we thought. At about 1AM (Sinnita and I were pretty toasted by then), Jamal walked in. He'd ended up hanging out with some of his friends off campus and had decided to just drive home in the morning since his parents only lived about an hour and a half away. He could see that Sinitta and I were both pretty hammered. He grabbed a beer and sat down and we smoked somem more weed with him. Sinitta was pretty drunk and started giving Jamal ****. Jamal seemed to get a kick out of it and I could see him kinda flirting with Sinitta Then I noticed (and hoped that Sinitta wouldn't) that Jamal wasn't wearing any underwear. But Sinitta started massaging my dick through my jeans and being so ****ed up, I just laid my head back and enjoyed it - I couldn't believe she was doing that right in front of Jamal! I heard Jamal get up to pass Sinitta the joint we were smoking and I heard her gasp, long and deep and she suddenly stopped stroking my dick. I opened my eyes and saw Jamal standing right tin front of Jamal with a HUGE ****ing bulge in his pants - just inches from her face. The room was so quiet you could have heard a pin drop. He just stood there and I could feel her hand tremble and hear her breathing quicken. when she slowly looked up at him, almost in awe and respect, I could feel my heart start to pound in my chest. Then she softly whispered "ohhhhhhhhhhh" as she gingerly reached up to brush her finger tips across that massive knot in his pants. When she touched it, it throbbed - **** I could see it throb thorugh his pants - Sinitta just gasped again and looked up at him. "What?" Jamal asked her and just kinda laughed. Sinitta did NOT laugh. Instead, she softly asked "can i see it?" Jamal stopped laughing, looked at her very seriously and told her to take it out. Sinitta never even hesitated - or looked back at me for an "OK" - just just obeyed him and began to open his jeans. I coudl see her nipples rock hard under her t-shirt and I could tell she was practically panting.

[Opinion Owner]

She opened his jeans and his big thick black dick just fell out... and he had NOT been kidding. That cock was strong, blzck, thick, heavy and muscular. The head was a big purple mushroom that sat on top of the thickest shaft i'd ever seen. He was semi-hard and was HUGE compared to my erect penis. Sinitta just gasped and kept whispering "ohmygod.. ohmygod... ohmygod". When she wrapped her hand around it, her brow just knotted in disbelief and she almost laughed at how thick he was - her fingers couldn't even touch.

Jamal just stood there watching my girlfriend worship his magnificent black cock. Slowly shaking her head in disbelief, she two-fisted him - one hand next to the other... and there was STILL a few inches left - and he was getting rock hard, too.

Sinnita smiled and patted the couch next to her and Jamal sat down, his big black cock standing straight up. Honestly he had to be almost 10" (judging from the size of Sinitta's hand). I opened my pants and took my own cock out. Amy took my cock in her left hand and John's in her right - but there was little doubt whose cock was getting more attention. She couldn't take her eyes off his cock and her hand only occasionally stroked my dick... but Jamal's she pumped with long, purposeful strokes until she finally couldn't help herself any longer and knelt in front of him, kissing his cock and rubbing it against her soft brown skin.

[Opinion Owner]

She sucked his dick until SHE came - just from sucking him! I stroked the whole time until he pulled her toward him, peeled off her pants (she didn't even make the slightest attempt to stop him) and sat her on his lap, her back to his chest - the two of them right next to me. She just rolled her head back to kiss him as he squeezed her tits through her shirt. Her hands went down and pushed that big black cock against her pussy and she groaned so loud when it touched her that I thought people outside would hear.

Jamal's dick was so ****ing big that he easily penetrated her from behind with her sitting on his lap. She arched up so she could take as much of it as she could and they started to **** right there next to me. It shocked me how easily her petite little infisn body accomodated that black horse cock of his. Jamal pounded her in positions that i or Amy other Indian male physically CANNOT do for over an hour - I have no idea how many times she came - she was even in tears a few times (though she never once told him to stop).

He asked her if she was on the pill and when she said she was on the patch, he told her that he was going to cum inside of her to mark her - which only made her cum again! when he finally came, he had Sinitta on her back, her legs shaking violently as they both came together - and true to his word, Jamal dumped his seed deep up inside my girlfriend's pussy right in front of me. But **** - he didn't even lose his damn hard on! They ****ed for about another 40 minutes and he came twice more. Sinnita was a wreck by the time we all went to bed.

[Opinion Owner]

I will never forget the look on her face - like she was afraid of him and in love with him all at once - the whole time they ****ed. She later told me that there were no words to describe it - it was incredible but even that didn't seem enough. She fucked him repeatedly that year even though and Sinnita and I dated for about another year before we finally broke up. She would spend time with me when not studying in the evening like a couple, have sex with me and then creep into Jamal's room after as though I had gotten her warmed up for him which really hurt after Jamal insisted she not sleep with me anymore and I could hear them all night as another man satisfied the woman I loved in ways I couldn't.
He got sick of her and dumped her a year after and was always cheating on her, sometimes right in front of her. I always wondered if she ended up with him or some other big dick guy.

But one thing I know for sure - she NEVER ****ed me like she did Jamal and the things she said about Jamal - the way she looked at him - and the way she was around him after that night (almost shy and meek) convinced me that a big dick makes a difference.

Amy told me that she "HAD to respect him" even if she didn't like him... and that she almost felt like he "had a right to her"

[yearningforlife]

Some are against interracial marriage, some are fine with it. But I've never heard of anyone encouraging it.

[FilmGuy93]

Do Indian families want that? It seems like most of them would rather their indian daughters dated and married brown.

[Iron_Man]

I think they want their daughters and sons to marry in Indian

[Asker]

Yes ideally that is the arrangement. However, when it comes to interracial relationship the number one first choice is a white person.

[Babygirl_S]

This is so wrong. Indian parents only encourage dating or marrying an Indian guy.

[888theGreat]

It ain't happening with me. I am not wearing pajamas all day kissing cows.